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Baby73 -> RE: adult babies--- real and very much a lifestyle!! (11/26/2007 2:50:21 AM)
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Right. To be perfectly honest, I can;t see why any man would want to be treated like a dog by many of the women here. No offense, but I just don't get it. It's not me. Im not into whips, hot wax and Hitleresque women barking orders at me like i'm a dog.
That's just not for me. I'm not cut that way to let people tie my balls with a chain or put a cigar out on my forehead. Hey if you want to do it, more power to you. That's just not my thing.
I think what the non-AB world has to understand, though, is that for some this is not so much "play acting". There is a certain mindset that you get into when you have a good Parent-bABy matchup. It's an emotional thing, more then anything else.
Being an AB myself, I can tell you that the relationships I have had with Mommies have consisted of loving them, but in an emotional way. I love my mommy, there is no doubt in the world she is my everything. But I also realize, the dynamics of the relationship is far different then the outsideworld understands.
I think you also have to take in the wide diversity of "ages" of AB's. You have some that are just really infants, and then you have some that are toddlers. Yes, the infants are going to soil themselves, it's par for the course. But the key to understanding an Ab is to begin to understand their "baby age".
Let me give you an example. It is perfectly allright for a Mommy or Daddy to expect a toddler AB to "tell" them when they have to go. Toddlers are learning potty training, and so it is perfectly within the rights of the afore mentioned Mommy or Daddy to insist they tell them when they have to go, and insist they use the potty. It is also perfectly within their rights to punish them, in an age appropriate matter, when they don't tell and soil or wet themselves!
So a nuances aspect people don't consider is "Age". It has EVERYTHING to do with what they can or can not do and what you can expect from them. Most two year olds, for instance, are at LEAST being trained to use a potty chair ohatever. If I was Daddying one who was of the baby age of two or older, you better believe I'd spank them if the deliberately messed themselves without telling me they had to use the potty!
Infants, it's different. But then again the dynamics is different. I would much prefer an Ab Toddler then an Ab Infant. I don;t fancy getting up for late night feeds, or having to wipe messy bumbs up much.
So age is a consideration. Then their is personality. Some Ab's are very quiet and submissive. Infants are more or less satisfied to sit in a playpen and play with their rattle or whatever. Outside of diaper changes or feedings, you don't have much to worry about. Maybe putting them down for a nap early or early bedtimes and rocking them, but outside that there easier to care for.
Some Ab's are very boisterous. They get in to things, just like any other baby, and so you have to watch them. Toddlers tend to be more in this class since their more amblatory. Plus, they can stand and get into things they shouldn't. They throw temper tantrums, cry when they don't get what they want and can be very self willed. Discipline is a big deal, and there not necessarily going to passively go along with stanhding in the corner or being put in their crib as punishment.
In general, if you have an AB you have a baby, just bigger. As for it being "real", I would have to agree. Most Ab's can tell you about their "Little"; personality, age, likes/dislikes, gender, e.t.c. So I think it is wrong just to assume that this is just play acting. I guess that's the point. I would NEVER encourage a person become a Mommy, Daddy or Babysitter unless they are willing to deal with what amounts to a big infant or toddler. Their "Little" is very real, and when their in that headspace, you just better assume their what they are and treat them accordingly. So Ab's are better off if people know themselves better and if their willing and able to deal with a big toddler or infant. Otherwise, the Mommy or Daddy can be easily overcome by babies behaviour.
Let's face it, most of us weren;t equipped to deal with a five foot 8 inch 2 year old, right? (:
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