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I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 11:45:44 AM   
LightHeartedMaam


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Status: offline 		I was was watching a program where they were discussing current dating.

What always takes me aback is the expectation of sex on the first date.  After that, what's left? Have we become so emotionally handicapped we can no longer hold a conversation or just enjoy another person's company (outside the bedroom/back seat of the car) 

My dating days terminated in the very early '70's (got married)~  what's it like out there these days?
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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 12:05:29 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		I think people just want sex, but always need a REASON for it.  Because sex is so repressed, we can't simply HAVE it and ENJOY it for what it is.  So when we finally have ANY shred of an excuse for it, we leap.

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 12:09:00 PM   
michaelOfGeorgia


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Status: offline 		sex is over-rated and over-sought after. not everyone wants to screw others.

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 12:15:33 PM   
satyrsnymph28


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Status: offline 		i recently had an occurance where sex waited til the 2nd date....

that was HUGE to me... that he was able to wait it out that long...

it was exciting to see a "patient" boy

oh goodness... what is this world comming to

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 12:24:23 PM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		Sex is a strong biological drive.
You need to realize going into this that not everyone shares your values regarding sex and when it is right to indulge.  And it's okay that they don't.
Plenty of people enjoy each other's company without sex, many also enjoy it with sex.
To each their own.
I've heard that there is a third date rule....   


< Message edited by KatyLied -- 7/16/2007 12:28:19 PM >

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 1:03:10 PM   
LightHeartedMaam


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Sex is a strong biological drive.
You need to realize going into this that not everyone shares your values regarding sex and when it is right to indulge.  And it's okay that they don't.
Plenty of people enjoy each other's company without sex, many also enjoy it with sex.
To each their own.
I've heard that there is a third date rule....   



I had a third month rule :)   (That still didn't stop me getting 3 marriage proposals).  I also always offered to go dutch on dates to offset the "hey, I bought you dinner and movie~ what gives?"  It took any pressure off me and off the date.

It's good to know we still can enjoy each other without agendas.


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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 1:14:05 PM   
domiguy


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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Sex is a strong biological drive.
You need to realize going into this that not everyone shares your values regarding sex and when it is right to indulge.  And it's okay that they don't.
Plenty of people enjoy each other's company without sex, many also enjoy it with sex.
To each their own.
I've heard that there is a third date rule....   



Just cause you never made it to the third date doesn't make you a whore.  I think most the folks on this site are fairly  "sexually charged."  As we grow older we usually seek more than just a romp...It is much better if there is an underlying connection....But then again sometimes a good ol' fashioned fucking really hits the spot.

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 1:21:52 PM   
Lothlauren


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quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Sex is a strong biological drive.
You need to realize going into this that not everyone shares your values regarding sex and when it is right to indulge.  And it's okay that they don't.
Plenty of people enjoy each other's company without sex, many also enjoy it with sex.
To each their own.
I've heard that there is a third date rule....   



Just cause you never made it to the third date doesn't make you a whore.  I think most the folks on this site are fairly  "sexually charged."  As we grow older we usually seek more than just a romp...It is much better if there is an underlying connection....But then again sometimes a good ol' fashioned fucking really hits the spot.


I am curious where you got whore out of that.... or is it a label you like applying?

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 1:23:54 PM   
KatyLied


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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 1:30:05 PM   
SugarMyChurro


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ORIGINAL: LightHeartedMaam
It's good to know we still can enjoy each other without agendas.


C'mon, everyone has an agenda.

You have an agenda.

And eventually you even want to get banged, I should think.

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 1:35:32 PM   
Aileen68


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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

sex is over-rated and over-sought after. not everyone wants to screw others.


Fuck that.  Sex is fun, trippy, feels good, never boring, makes me sleep really well after, is satisfying, calorie burning, sometimes quick, sometimes long, and all around a great way to take up time and space in my life. 

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 1:36:42 PM   
domiguy


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ORIGINAL: Lothlauren

quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Sex is a strong biological drive.
You need to realize going into this that not everyone shares your values regarding sex and when it is right to indulge.  And it's okay that they don't.
Plenty of people enjoy each other's company without sex, many also enjoy it with sex.
To each their own.
I've heard that there is a third date rule....   



Just cause you never made it to the third date doesn't make you a whore.  I think most the folks on this site are fairly  "sexually charged."  As we grow older we usually seek more than just a romp...It is much better if there is an underlying connection....But then again sometimes a good ol' fashioned fucking really hits the spot.


I am curious where you got whore out of that.... or is it a label you like applying?


No.  I don't apply labels to people...To mason jars possibly....I find katy to be a bright and intelligent woman who unfortunately is a whore. It garnishes me no pleasure to bring this matter to light....For she is a whore.  Did i mention she engages in whorish activities?  I would be remiss if I did not...Whore!


Katy is a whore!!!

Edited to add:.....So is Aileen68.

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 1:38:47 PM   
Termyn8or


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Status: offline 		What's dating like now ?

Usually you get to a bar that gets too rowdy, too loud or has a live band. You barely can place your order. Then you get out to the car for part two of the conversation.

Tell you the truth Women, I would rather come meet you on your front porch, bring me some beer and you your favorite apartif and maybe some food and even some mother nature. I need no music at all, no noise. Maybe later but not right now.

In my view, entertainment has replaced communication. I think communication should BE the entertainment. People used to talk, get to know one another. Perhaps they fired up the old Grundig from time to time, but they talked.

Things have changed. A movie used to be a lot shorter and cheaper. You had more time before and after. Dates didn't entail bars as much fifty years ago. There were some concerts of course, but there was just less of it. There was less of everything it seems, but somehow we had more.

T

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 1:39:22 PM   
Lothlauren


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Status: offline 		Domiguy... to be honest I find your posts uninspired and unoriginal... dont be surprised if I have a comment on them all

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 1:41:38 PM   
Aileen68


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Status: offline 		Awww...domiguy is fun.  Yes, he's a dog, a poodle, in fact.  But none the less, entertaining. 

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 1:42:47 PM   
domiguy


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ORIGINAL: Lothlauren

Domiguy... to be honest I find your posts uninspired and unoriginal... dont be surprised if I have a comment on them all

Knock your socks off kid....Whether you are sockless or not changes little....Katy is still a whore.

Edited to add:....So is Aileen68

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 1:44:47 PM   
StellaByStarlite


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ORIGINAL: Lothlauren

Domiguy... to be honest I find your posts uninspired and unoriginal... dont be surprised if I have a comment on them all


But why would you comment on something you find uninspiring?


( Being a whore is certainly no crime in here, btw)

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 1:45:14 PM   
Lothlauren


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Status: offline 		and your uninspired and claim alot of bs as truth... so what

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 1:46:06 PM   
domiguy


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ORIGINAL: StellaByStarlite

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ORIGINAL: Lothlauren

Domiguy... to be honest I find your posts uninspired and unoriginal... dont be surprised if I have a comment on them all


But why would you comment on something you find uninspiring?


( Being a whore is certainly no crime in here, btw)


I have dated and love a many of them....God Bless the whores.

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 1:46:25 PM   
StellaByStarlite


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ORIGINAL: Termyn8or

What's dating like now ?

Usually you get to a bar that gets too rowdy, too loud or has a live band. You barely can place your order. Then you get out to the car for part two of the conversation.

Tell you the truth Women, I would rather come meet you on your front porch, bring me some beer and you your favorite apartif and maybe some food and even some mother nature. I need no music at all, no noise. Maybe later but not right now.

In my view, entertainment has replaced communication. I think communication should BE the entertainment. People used to talk, get to know one another. Perhaps they fired up the old Grundig from time to time, but they talked.

Things have changed. A movie used to be a lot shorter and cheaper. You had more time before and after. Dates didn't entail bars as much fifty years ago. There were some concerts of course, but there was just less of it. There was less of everything it seems, but somehow we had more.

T



Agreed. That's why guys should just pretend to be poor. =)

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