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AquaticSub -> RE: Women/Men haters. (7/17/2007 10:57:58 AM)

I would suspect that there are as many fem doms who hate men as there are male doms who hate women. There are those on both side who use this as an excuse to vent anger.




CreativeDominant -> RE: Women/Men haters. (7/17/2007 11:21:35 AM)

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ORIGINAL: NakedSavage

Most all my friends are men. They are pigs and I love them.


Oinks...but nicely and in a non-woman-hating fashion.[;)]




CreativeDominant -> RE: Women/Men haters. (7/17/2007 11:25:22 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Other than laughing so hard I cannot type anything of importance.......

I don't think I could hate anyone. There is just some male gender body parts I don't want to look at, either friendly like or non friendly like.



But....But...But...I thought my male gender parts were cute to evvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvverybody...you mean they aren't????? [>:]




Lashra -> RE: Women/Men haters. (7/17/2007 1:37:51 PM)

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

I would suspect that there are as many fem doms who hate men as there are male doms who hate women. There are those on both side who use this as an excuse to vent anger.

I would have to agree with this. I've spoke to some Dom's who made it no secret that they hated women and saw them as nothing more than a hole with legs.

~Lashra




BossyShoeBitch -> RE: Women/Men haters. (7/17/2007 2:08:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

I don't expect this to potentially go anywhere.  I've been out here for awhile and these subs never write back....Fuck!!!!....lol.

Okay...Topic at hand...I've been out here awhile and I was wondering whether there is loathing when it comes to Doms/Dommes and their relationships or feelings towards women/men?

Are there women and men haters out there that have brought them into this arena?  What a better place to go shopping for someone that might allow you to actually physically harm or engage in various types of degradation 
and thereby filling a need to damage the "person" that you despise.

This is not all that of an easy topic...It came about after a discussion with a Dom woman who made that observation about her counterparts and it is something that I have always questioned after hearing so many accounts from male and female subs alike.

As I type this I realize I'm playing into the hands of those who think that everyone who participates in this is inherently fucked up....Tough titties.....Any thoughts?



hi, my name is michael...and i'm a man-hater and this is my first meeting. are there refreshments?

LOL


Hi Michael!
Have you seen our new 12 step book, The Story of X, how to stop hating men and love yourself?  It's only $49.95..

Does anyone remember the "He Man Woman Hater's Club" from the Little Rascals?




ELUSIVE1 -> RE: Women/Men haters. (7/17/2007 2:13:04 PM)

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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

I don't expect this to potentially go anywhere.  I've been out here for awhile and these subs never write back....Fuck!!!!....lol.

Okay...Topic at hand...I've been out here awhile and I was wondering whether there is loathing when it comes to Doms/Dommes and their relationships or feelings towards women/men?

Are there women and men haters out there that have brought them into this arena?  What a better place to go shopping for someone that might allow you to actually physically harm or engage in various types of degradation 
and thereby filling a need to damage the "person" that you despise.

This is not all that of an easy topic...It came about after a discussion with a Dom woman who made that observation about her counterparts and it is something that I have always questioned after hearing so many accounts from male and female subs alike.

As I type this I realize I'm playing into the hands of those who think that everyone who participates in this is inherently fucked up....Tough titties.....Any thoughts?



hi, my name is michael...and i'm a man-hater and this is my first meeting. are there refreshments?

LOL

now there is an original idea...ManHatersAnonymous...any ideas on what the twelve steps would be??? ( I am not here because I hate men btw... I so totally DON'T Hate anyone)


~~~long live domiguy's floating post~~~~




brightspot -> RE: Women/Men haters. (7/17/2007 2:17:28 PM)

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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

I have met a few who I had to wonder about...and a couple of people I confronted about it.  One femdominant admitted that she did not think much of men and that was one of her bigger reasons for enjoying humiliation of them as much as she enjoyed beating them.  Their service to her was a minor point of concern except in how it resulted in failure which led her to more chances to beat and humiliate.  She did pretty well in picking submissives who were into this but even they, after awhile, realized it was not part of the "game" for her but a reflection of her feelings towards men.


I have witnessed this in some Dominas. I have read profiles and posts too, which the Domina's profile states she's lesbian but loves to have men slaves.
They tease in a way to say how erotic and fun it would be to be their slave, when the truth is they will never have sex with them. Sometimes Domina's words, I have read say to me, I really hate men but I will put things in such a spin that they will think they are special to me, I adore them and just maybe with them thinking they might have a chance of having that sex with me, that which I control him with and they are longing for, all the time knowing they hardly mean crap to them.
 
They will use them, suck them dry(not with their mouth[;)][:D]), gain everything they want financially they can get off them, while getting off and letting go of internal hatred by humiliating, beating, CBTing and whatever (even though the slave may love it) and when they are done with them boot their sorry asses out the door.
 
Now, know I am speaking of a certain group here, not all Dominas are like this, as I know there are very sincere, loving, fair ones out there.  I just think there are some that take advantage of the dynamic and the same goes for the Dom's out there too, just in different ways.

Missy.




Tristan -> RE: Women/Men haters. (7/17/2007 5:20:16 PM)

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Are there women and men haters out there that have brought them into this arena?  What a better place to go shopping for someone that might allow you to actually physically harm or engage in various types of degradation 
and thereby filling a need to damage the "person" that you despise.


My impression is that there are both many men and women who are in the lifestyle only because of their hatred of the opposite gender.  I think that each gender expresses their hatred in slightly different, but equally damaging ways.  I also think that many submissive men and women do not leave an abusive relationship as quickly as they should, which makes the lifestyle a perfect shopping place for abusers.

Tristan




Level -> RE: Women/Men haters. (7/17/2007 6:22:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia


hi, my name is michael...and i'm a man-hater and this is my first meeting. are there refreshments?

LOL



Yes, there are kolaches and cocktail weiners over on the bar.




michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: Women/Men haters. (7/17/2007 6:24:34 PM)

what...no sweet tea?

[:D]




BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: Women/Men haters. (7/17/2007 6:47:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

what...no sweet tea?

[:D]



Uh, don't hate me [;)] but I just drank the last of it.  Great big glass of it......... was yummy.




Level -> RE: Women/Men haters. (7/17/2007 6:52:09 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

what...no sweet tea?

[:D]



Uh, don't hate me [;)] but I just drank the last of it.  Great big glass of it......... was yummy.


You should be ashamed. I know you aren't, but...... you should. [:D]




BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: Women/Men haters. (7/17/2007 6:55:32 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Level

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ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

what...no sweet tea?

[:D]



Uh, don't hate me [;)] but I just drank the last of it.  Great big glass of it......... was yummy.


You should be ashamed. I know you aren't, but...... you should. [:D]


Burp........... 'scuse me. [sm=dance.gif]




PsyVamp -> RE: Women/Men haters. (7/17/2007 6:55:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: instynctive

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ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

I totally agree...

Yep..We are going to have to get up north sometime soon...


Yes, please.  :-)



Gee, I'm north too... 

Psy *who has some new sharp shiny toys*




ShyMistress -> RE: Women/Men haters. (7/17/2007 7:13:35 PM)

Sits watching the thread occasionally break it's head above the water looking for a life preserver...swim little one...swim [:)]
 
Myself, I don't hate men or women. Actually I don't hate someone smart men and women...stupid ones I have a real harsh dislike for.

I do believe though that just as you find with other walks of life, there ARE predators that wait for the perfect opportunity to take out their rage on others.




Lothlauren -> RE: Women/Men haters. (7/17/2007 7:27:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

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ORIGINAL: james2Jay

Subject view here.

You and all your other sarcastic, spamming asshole multiple personalities profiles you have created on the boards scream both characteristic and situational hater. Mostly situations since you seem to let others bring out your asshole personality. Hard time facing the truth for you. You would rather project it on other people. Yes, it is really you your question is about. My assessment: You hate women and men since you're always such an asshole.

Out.




Mom....How many times do I have to tell you to stay the fuck off of my computer!!!...No, I don't want to go see the new Harry Potter movie with you....Leave me alone!!!  (Domiguy slams door runs across his bedroom and dives on to his bed sobbing...Stares up at the Farrah Fawcett poster on his wall.....And repeats endlessly)  I do like women!...I do like women!!....I do like women!!!

You live at home with your mom?.... ok now I understand it all

Editted to put the response in the right area




domiguy -> RE: Women/Men haters. (7/17/2007 7:47:16 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ShyMistress

Sits watching the thread occasionally break it's head above the water looking for a life preserver...swim little one...swim [:)]
 
Myself, I don't hate men or women. Actually I don't hate someone smart men and women...stupid ones I have a real harsh dislike for.

I do believe though that just as you find with other walks of life, there ARE predators that wait for the perfect opportunity to take out their rage on others.


I tend to disagree...I mean there are definitely men/women haters in all walks of life....I just think there are on the whole more disturbed folks that participate in bdsm than you will find in your normal stroll through life....Just one more reason to keep your head up and not become that weak wildebeest that calls out to be preyed upon.

My poor thread has become nothing more than a twelve step program for the MHA....Mean old rotten dommes.
Always pickin' on the man.

Swim thread, swim...Run Forrest, run!!!

My mother, Dommenique, will be home at any moment and I got to get subsusie out of here....Mom says she's not good enough for me.




goddessAVA -> RE: Women/Men haters. (7/17/2007 8:27:25 PM)

oh I am mean and rotten Domme, not quite old I would argue-can I be a women who hates women, there aren't any of these on here yet, especially women who wear funny hats, dirty underpants, snot on their subbies and then get paid for it!!!!!!!!!!!!!Oh the inhumanity of those bitches




ShyMistress -> RE: Women/Men haters. (7/17/2007 9:51:50 PM)

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

quote:

ORIGINAL: ShyMistress

Sits watching the thread occasionally break it's head above the water looking for a life preserver...swim little one...swim [:)]
 
Myself, I don't hate men or women. Actually I don't hate someone smart men and women...stupid ones I have a real harsh dislike for.

I do believe though that just as you find with other walks of life, there ARE predators that wait for the perfect opportunity to take out their rage on others.


I tend to disagree...I mean there are definitely men/women haters in all walks of life....I just think there are on the whole more disturbed folks that participate in bdsm than you will find in your normal stroll through life....Just one more reason to keep your head up and not become that weak wildebeest that calls out to be preyed upon.

My poor thread has become nothing more than a twelve step program for the MHA....Mean old rotten dommes.
Always pickin' on the man.

Swim thread, swim...Run Forrest, run!!!

My mother, Dommenique, will be home at any moment and I got to get subsusie out of here....Mom says she's not good enough for me.


LOL...ok...I do admit I didn't articulate enough when I said there ARE predators. I meant within BDSM, and though it may be more "noticed" in BDSM...unfortunately domestic abuse is very prevelent in the 'nilla world as well.

As for your 12 step program that has started out of a simple question...it may be needed as these domestic abuse cases are becoming more and more apparently committed by women towards their spouses.

And I like picking on My Man...gets a good little swat on the rump from Him now and then [;)]

Oh...as for susie...I can take her off your hands for a bit if she is good in the kitchen and likes kids...oh and of course if she is bea-u-ti-ful [8D]

{Edited to add My friendly offer...}




LaMistressa -> RE: Women/Men haters. (7/18/2007 2:47:51 AM)

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ORIGINAL: brightspot
I have witnessed this in some Dominas. I have read profiles and posts too, which the Domina's profile states she's lesbian but loves to have men slaves.
They tease in a way to say how erotic and fun it would be to be their slave, when the truth is they will never have sex with them. Sometimes Domina's words, I have read say to me, I really hate men but I will put things in such a spin that they will think they are special to me, I adore them and just maybe with them thinking they might have a chance of having that sex with me, that which I control him with and they are longing for, all the time knowing they hardly mean crap to them.

Not all Dommes have sex with their slaves -- doesn't mean they hate them, just means they are in a service or nonsexual position. And sex does not equal love, or sometimes even like.

For the record, I'm with Silky Johnson concerning the lot of you: "I hate you, I hate you,  I don't even know you but I hate you. I hate your guts. I hope all the bad things in life happen to you and only you...."





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