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ORIGINAL: chiaThePet
*cut sortid details of M/m sex involving leather and boots*
chia* (the pet)

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ORIGINAL: camille65

Thinking about this a bit more I realised that if I didn't have the *power* to seduce him then wouldn't that mean that the sexual attraction would be gone?
If I'm in my corset, my hair spilling over my shoulders & he isn't interested then I doubt I would want to be with him.

I used the word 'power' because that is how seduction is being framed within this thread.

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ORIGINAL: tricia

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Do you? Have you? Could you? Would you?

No, never.

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ORIGINAL: SlND3R3LLA

I love being able to seduce, I wouldn't have it any other way.  I love to watch as he gets turned on, his breath changes, his voice changes..mmmmm.  There is such an erotic power involved in making him want me sexually.  It doesn't mess up our dynamic one bit.  He loves that I want him, and that I want sex with him.  He loves that I feel free enough to go after it from him without being worried I am doing wrong, or that I will look dumb. 
 
I admit I have always done this with men.  I have always enjoyed making them want me.  It is not only a turn on for them, but for me in return.  Once I get them where they can't take it anymore, I am usually there myself.  It just puts me in a sexier frame of mind, and my body responds to that.
 
Sin

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ORIGINAL: chiaThePet
*cut sortid details of M/m sex involving leather and boots*
chia* (the pet)

*fanning self* Wow, did it get hot in here or what????

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: chiaThePet


So you yourself never feel an exchange of control while seducing your
Dominant, fair enough, i hear you, thanks for sharing.

chia* (the pet) 

Since all he has to do is say "no" and I stop, it's kinda hard to feel in control.

Then you are fortunate in having found a sincere Dominant, even if he says no
sometimes. Enjoy! (have you tried the boot thing though?) 

chia* (the pet) 

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

Ummm...I was actually with you till you got to this part.  I have absolutely no objection to being seduced by a sub, but my flesh doesn't exactly "quiver and tremble" when I'm naked.  My typical response is more like "get boner, tie up sub, go to work."

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ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

Nice slaverosebeauty, i envy your success, in a good way though.
Good take on things, and i especially like your pointing out that
seduction can be other than a physical endeavor, so important
in the M/s, D/s relationships we seek. Thank You.

chia* (the pet)

Actually last night, as I wrote my post on here, MJ was working and He was buisy, yet, still kept the IM window up; about 10:30, I put '{wraps around around MJ.. kisses Him on the neck}.. i'm going to go to bed and read, call my cell if You want me..' a few other parts of our conversation were alogn the same lines, when we talked I could tell I was getting to Him {giggles}, He didn't complain, He said it just sucked that we couldn't cuddle together at that moment. We did, emoitonally.  

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

Ummm...I was actually with you till you got to this part.  I have absolutely no objection to being seduced by a sub, but my flesh doesn't exactly "quiver and tremble" when I'm naked.  My typical response is more like "get boner, tie up sub, go to work."

You stole the words out of my mouth!

Personally I suck at seduction, my main mode of seduction for my owner is getting naked, and at my most agressive I'll go up to him naked and touch him on the back or straddle him (I have standing permission to do those things).  But then if he's interested its pretty much him doing the above.  It'd be pretty bizzare and funny to see him quivver or tremble.

C~

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Chia, what a delightful question. Yes, guilty as charged.

i was allowed to nibble on Her earlobe a fraction too long and heard a soft sigh. i smiled gently and carried on with plan A. Soon enough i was in control, or at least felt i was, the magic moment occured when She gazed quizically wondering why i hestitated. i felt myself utter those three immortal words " beg me now "  She quirked a sexy brow and replied " Grrrrrrrrrr " Well i knew that was what She said, although i guessed "Grrrrrrrrr" was Russian for " Please i`m begging you "

Later, as i bathed in the afterglow while i stood facing the corner, She looked at me and said " you can stay like that until you wipe that bloody smug grin off your face."

Ah happy memories

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

Ummm...I was actually with you till you got to this part.  I have absolutely no objection to being seduced by a sub, but my flesh doesn't exactly "quiver and tremble" when I'm naked.  My typical response is more like "get boner, tie up sub, go to work."

You stole the words out of my mouth!

Personally I suck at seduction, my main mode of seduction for my owner is getting naked, and at my most agressive I'll go up to him naked and touch him on the back or straddle him (I have standing permission to do those things).  But then if he's interested its pretty much him doing the above.  It'd be pretty bizzare and funny to see him quivver or tremble.

C~

Wildfleurs, what you describe here sounds like seduction to me, and "sucking"
at seduction is a whole nother thread :-)

Work on that quiver thing though, i think rather than seeing it as bizzare, you
might just be filled with subtle satisfaction, and possibly a teensy weensy bit
of control at having discovered one of his "weak" spots. Wink.

chia* (the pet) 

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i do love to seduce, i just must be careful not to let that seduction steal away the beauty of my submissive nature.

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ORIGINAL: onmykneesforhim

I would really then have to ask "Is that great curved *trunk* of yours, also real?

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ORIGINAL: tricia

Sorry about the quickie – I had to go to work :)
 
I seduce my Master every day with my submission and my obedience.  I seduce him when I look up at him with my dark brown eyes and he sees the way I adore him.  Or the way a moan escapes from my lips before I even touch him or him, me. This is part of what he finds attractive in me. 
 
He makes the decisions in our relationship – even the sexual ones.  I equate ‘seducing him’ in the manner to which you speak to presuming to know what he needs or wants more than he does.  And I do see that as a transfer of authority.  A role I’m not comfortable in.
 

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i do love to seduce, i just must be careful not to let that seduction steal away the beauty of my submissive nature.

I thought this was a lovely sentiment.  Thank you.

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

It happens all of the time.  It's called flirting.

No, no Aileen68, beyond the flirt, beyond the come hither gaze, beyond the
cleavage squeeze, beyond the batting of the eye.

You have Him or Her naked and exposed, and You know how to make that
flesh quiver and tremble. How does "that" make you feel? Where does that
feeling lead your mind and body?

chia* (the pet)  

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ORIGINAL: ocilla

Great Q chia - hope some of the usual yummy boy subs chime in with their thoughts.  As for me...well....as long as I get pleasured thoroughly I will go there...besides I can't imgine not being able to turn the tables the moment I chose.  Hmmm love this kind of thread that makes me think.

Dear Ocilla,

Thank You Ma'am, my queries come following a recent experience where i felt
the shift of control swing to me and i took advantage of the situation, yet i do
not find complete satisfaction in possessing that authority now that the afterglow
has subsided. i sincerely wish to hear the views of other submissives whom can
recognize themselves in the scenerio. Thank You again.

chia* (the pet) 

oops.  ok so my earlier post stated that I was assuming you were talking about Doms and female subs.  If I am to be completely honest, I think that when you are talking about Dommes and male subs, there is more of a potential for an authority shift.  It's very interesting how the whole thought process changes when one switches the genders around..
I'd like to hear more details about your mindset during the experience as compared to your mindset afterwards..