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dsjen -> RE: face slapping (8/14/2007 1:01:24 AM)
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I first experienced face-slapping the very first time my Dom and I played together, in private. I refused to do something (a very small thing that had to do with personal gross-factor more than limits), and he tapped my face. It was just a very small tap, no pain, didn't even cause my head to move. But the shock it gave me was amazing. I hated it, because of society I equated it to abuse, and the fact that my mom had been abused as a kid, and a man slapping a woman better not go to sleep that night expecting to wake up. So I put it up as a hard limit after my Dom and I discussed how the scene went for me.
The next time we met, he asked me to take it down as a hard limit. I hated to, but I really wanted to please him, so I agreed to make it a soft limit. A couple months later, I was begging for it. I don't know what spurred it on, he hadn't even tapped my face since the first time. But now, every time he does it, I absolutely love it. But it's definitely the physical feeling of it, the absolute *shock* of having my face slapped. And my Dom's of the Viking build, so his hand equates something close to a ham...but it's funny, I never feel any pain with it, unless I'm completely out of sub mode and not in the mood for play, then it stings like the fury. But if I'm at all aroused or in the mood, it totally sends me over the top right into headspace, and it is *so* much better than getting an orgasm. It sounds crazy, but it's a pleasure so great, and puts me so deep into headspace, that a climax is anticlimactic (bad puns courtesy of my Dom's training).
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