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KatyLied -> RE: face slapping (12/22/2007 6:13:32 PM)

It's hot, you don't know know it's coming, it can happen after something soft, warm.  I was slapped a bit off-key and it made my ear start ringing.  It was a slip up, but it was hot because I had that whoa, my ear is ringing this is fucked up feeling going on.



nohalo -> RE: face slapping (12/22/2007 6:59:26 PM)

I haven't been slapped around a lot, but the thought of being slapped across my face and being told what a dirty girl I am, just is hot, hot, hot....



xiam -> RE: face slapping (12/22/2007 7:00:32 PM)

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied
I was slapped a bit off-key and it made my ear start ringing...


Yeah, i turned my head once at the wrong moment and got slapped on the ear instead of the cheek.  Talk about ringing...oi!  I was deaf in that ear for about a week afterwards!



slavegirljoy -> RE: face slapping (12/22/2007 7:04:49 PM)

i love the physical sensation of my Master slapping my face but, not if anyone else does it, unless He tells them to.  i don't feel any humiliation when my Master slaps my face.  i would feel angry if anyone else slapped my face, without my Master's approval.  And, yes, when my Master slaps me on my face or anywhere else, it is an instant turn-on.
 
slave joy
Owned property of Master David
quote:

ORIGINAL: bull4cuckolds

For those of you who enjoy having your face slapped, it the enjoyment more from the physical action/stimuli, or is it the mental humiliation factor that turns you on?



ownedgirlie -> RE: face slapping (12/22/2007 7:54:48 PM)

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ORIGINAL: xiam

quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied
I was slapped a bit off-key and it made my ear start ringing...


Yeah, i turned my head once at the wrong moment and got slapped on the ear instead of the cheek.  Talk about ringing...oi!  I was deaf in that ear for about a week afterwards!



That has happened to me before, too, except I only had "muffled hearing" for a day or so.  Once he misfired and slapped my contact lense into the back of my eye...or something like that.  I couldn't find it, he couldn't find it, it wasn't on me or on the floor, and my eyeball hurt like hell.  About an hour later it came back around to the front of my eye so I took it out.  Whew. 



Shammon5 -> RE: face slapping (12/22/2007 8:20:57 PM)

We don't do slapping, since it gives me flashbacks of my mom. You guys do make it sound very hot though...[;)]



subelaine -> RE: face slapping (12/22/2007 8:49:50 PM)

Master never uses face-slapping as a punishment... never. My punishments fit the crime so to speak, and I never talk back... so there goes that theory. I'm not saying that I'm not opinionated, but I do voice them in a respectful manner.
 
Master and I had been together for over a year, if not a little longer, before He first slapped me. Truthfully He wasn't sure how He would feel about it... not to mention what my reaction would be. My reaction must have been a mixture of shock (totally unexpected) and sheer pleasure. So, a few minutes later He did it again. This time He spoke to me as He slapped the other cheek ( naughty talk). Take heed. " Slippery When Wet!"  My orgasm were so powerful.
 
Master apparently enjoyed it also. I think He loved how I reacted to it, which in turn turned Him on even more. He loved having that kind of power over me, enjoyed making me answer Him, enjoyed the entire experience.
 
If your limits aren't pushed... we may as well live vanilla.
 
It has to be a mental thing. I know that I'm safe in His arms, I have faith in Him as far as knowing how hard to hit, where to hit, and when to stop. I know I belong to Him and that He has total control over my body.
 
He does not make this a common practice though. It is far and few between.
 
Hey, I don't expect everyone to love it or even like it for that matter. Same goes with colors... that's why there's a variety.



daytimeaffair69 -> RE: face slapping (9/25/2008 7:10:02 PM)

I personally enjoy seeing a sub submit to a face slapping.

I don't recall if it is okay to post video links, but can't resist this one:  http://www.redtube.com/9113



LadyLupineNYC -> RE: face slapping (9/25/2008 7:14:16 PM)

I just saw the pharse 'face slapping' and I got all dreamy...alas, I am going to have to hold off such things until the boy has fully recovered...



VivaciousSub -> RE: face slapping (9/25/2008 8:37:03 PM)

I love it. My first Sir used to do that to me, sometimes with his hand, and mostly with his cock. I got such a turn-on from the sting, then the warmth. It never fails to get my attention.

All I can say is "choose your moments" though. There are times when it's just not a good idea.



kittengirl8 -> RE: face slapping (9/25/2008 8:43:20 PM)

Face slapping is lovely-niceness. (As is not reviving incredibly old threads. Who's going to read from the beginning, really?)

For those of us who have crappy skin that shows when you poke your cheek with an eraser have to be... careful... It sucks, but it can be done!



DMFParadox -> RE: face slapping (9/26/2008 1:46:18 AM)

A lot of good opinions on this one.

I had a slave last year who adored face slapping. Couldn't get enough of it. Much more often than I was comfortable with, actually. After a while, her face became slightly rough, and I toned down both the frequency to maybe once or twice every other day, and the force to something I was certain would not damage her skin. It actually became a treat for good behavior.

However, I'm with Shammon, I got slapped by my own mom--a LOT--and all it inspired in me was rebellion and rage, never repentance, after it had become an extreme habit of hers. I still have a flinching reflex. And so I was very, very leery about face slapping at first, I actually hated the idea for a long time, delivering something that I'd had such a strongly negative reaction to; and considering my experience with that sub last year, even now I am careful that if I do slap, it might make a loud noise but does not even redden the cheek. Of course, I don't tell the sub that, or it might take some of the menace out of it... but Vivacious is right, pick your moment and it can have dramatic results. Or bad ones. Make sure the sub is capable of handling it, but also, don't live in fear that cripples the dynamic; do what you must, when you must. It's a balance.



DMFParadox -> RE: face slapping (9/26/2008 1:51:20 AM)

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ORIGINAL: kittengirl8

Face slapping is lovely-niceness. (As is not reviving incredibly old threads. Who's going to read from the beginning, really?)

For those of us who have crappy skin that shows when you poke your cheek with an eraser have to be... careful... It sucks, but it can be done!



Dammit, I missed that. Yep, this turkey's done, carved, refrigerated and growing mold. Time to bury it.
[sm=diethreaddie.gif]



scslave4Master -> RE: face slapping (9/26/2008 7:04:00 AM)

for me it is a psychological turn on - face slapping and hair pulling - well plus some spanking - all in the same genre



DefiantFlower -> RE: face slapping (9/26/2008 8:47:23 AM)

Oh awesome thread. I got all tingly just seeing the title! For me, it's also a psychological turn on. It's humbling and definitely gets my attention. It's an instant reminder of the dynamics in place. And because it's generally a shock, it sets the world as you know it spinning in a million directions, so all you can really do is trust that the Dom has things under control.

At the same time, depending on the moment, it might raise just a tad of rebellion in me...the briefest swell of passion...that's gone just as quickly as it appeared. This internal struggle serves to strengthen that dynamic and pretty much throws me deeper into subspace.



rubberpet -> RE: face slapping (9/26/2008 9:45:51 AM)

Wanna see me snap out of sub space and watch my eyes flash onxy black with instant rage?  Slap me in the face.  You might keep your head or you might not...[8|]
 
Seriously though, it's a major turn off.  I view it as humiliating and somewhat abusive.  Mistress has already promised me long ago that she'd respect that hard limit and never do it.  She has other ways of making me melt to her...[;)]



johnnyak -> RE: face slapping (9/26/2008 6:59:25 PM)

For me it boils down to control.Being put in my place with a swift,hard slap delivered to the face.I also feel there is a hint of mild humiliation in it that i quite enjoy...Ah yes, the thrill of it all :-)



midtnsub4use -> RE: face slapping (11/2/2009 7:27:05 PM)

slapping is great for the sound, pain, humiliation.....etc



DesFIP -> RE: face slapping (11/2/2009 7:36:43 PM)

I don't find the act humiliating. I'm not sure why so many do.
It has enormous appeal to me, like breath play.
And like breath play, it isn't something we're going to do because the risk quotient is so high.

I have implants in both eyes. A wrong hit and I'm blind. We are so not going there except in fantasy.



Icarys -> RE: face slapping (11/2/2009 7:50:01 PM)

One of my favorite pass time activities. That and spitting. It's so wrong but it feels so right.[:)]



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