SunnyTawse
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Several people have mentioned canes. One very useful technique for intensifying pain without marks is to drape wet silk over your submissive's bare behind and lay a few cane strokes over the silk. Start gently and work up. The harder the stroke, the longer the interval between the strokes should be. You can tell when they're ready for another one by observing their breathing and by how long it takes the muscles in their lower back to fully relax. Two caveats. One, I would not use this trick if she has never previously experienced the cane; the cane produces a unique sensation that intensifies significantly after the initial impact, and not everyone can tolerate it at levels a Dom might think would be appropriate. They may see someone using it in a way that makes it whistle and think that's 'normal.' There is nothing normal about the cane; it's all very individual. A stroke that whistles is a pretty heavy stroke. Two, the cane is not an innocuous little implement. It can easily break the tailbone--but then, so can spanking. Anyone who uses a paddle, a cane, a strap or a hand on a submissive's bottom should know exactly where the tailbone ends. Place your hand palm down on their bottom with fingers splayed upwards toward the small of their back and feel for the tip of the tailbone with your thumb. Never hit above an imaginary line that skims the tip of the tailbone. As a sadist, I "enjoy providing the level of stimulation that a masochist craves," as someone once said to me... but IMO it's always better to create a craving for what you'd like to provide than to trigger that "Never again!" response. If she's never had the cane, try this before the wet-silk trick. Have her lay flat on her tummy. Begin by tapping the cane gently with a couple seconds between each stroke. Increase the force very slowly, no more an increase than about 1/3 for any given stroke. It's this gentle part that makes them want more, more, MORE. By the time you get into the range that elicits a significant response, you may have an interval between strokes of four seconds or even more. God, I love the cane! Good luck. Sunny Tawse Sadien Domina Archon of Rings http://AthenorLodge.com
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