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RE: Safest Way of Inflicting Intense Pain? - 7/22/2007 6:23:46 PM   
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Either what mnottertail said or feed her ice cream and hope for ice cream headaches.

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RE: Safest Way of Inflicting Intense Pain? - 7/22/2007 6:26:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DeepWaters

an interesting side benefit is that the adrenaline surge caused by the pain will hard code things into long term memory.  so have her repeat a litany, obedience instructions how much she loves/is devoted to you etc

have fun and enjoy  


i want to hear more about this one...can you start a thread on that topic? Like how it works or post a link to something about it, that interests the hell outta me. :)

Thanks in advance

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RE: Safest Way of Inflicting Intense Pain? - 7/22/2007 6:35:54 PM   
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nope, no need of it, real easy----

Which do you remember more clearly, and even smells and sounds---

the year of the nickel your mom gave you to buy bubblegum?
or;
the feel of the vicegrip on your clitoris?

please remember to to phrase your answer in the form of a question.


and for those older than you---------what do you think you are going to remember more clearly and say in your advanced years----that might have been a life defining moment.


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RE: Safest Way of Inflicting Intense Pain? - 7/22/2007 6:39:47 PM   
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I find cuffing her to a chair and making her listen to Dan Quayle speeches is damned effective.

For other forms of pain that are safe, the old dried-peas-in-the-shoes does wonders, especially after walking in them for a bit.

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RE: Safest Way of Inflicting Intense Pain? - 7/22/2007 6:42:26 PM   
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       There are all different kinds of pain, Aspire.  And "intense" is a very imprecise word around here.

      Try an electric flyswatter to see if that sort of play works for you.  Might cost a whole ten bucks.

       Another option does leave tiny marks, but they are almost imperceptible if you apply a bit off common sense in your location choices.  Using a hemostat to hold it, heat a sewing needle with flame, and apply for a very short duration (just kiss her skin for a fraction of a second).  So much more fun to let her watch you go through the heating ritual while she's bound.

       Plucking pubic hair can be fun too.

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RE: Safest Way of Inflicting Intense Pain? - 7/22/2007 6:43:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Petronius

I find cuffing her to a chair and making her listen to Dan Quayle speeches is damned effective.

For other forms of pain that are safe, the old dried-peas-in-the-shoes does wonders, especially after walking in them for a bit.

you realy consider Dan Quayle speeches safe?

To the OP, there was a mention of ginger. Wonder what to do with it? www.figging.com.

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RE: Safest Way of Inflicting Intense Pain? - 7/22/2007 6:45:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Petronius

I find cuffing her to a chair and making her listen to Dan Quayle speeches is damned effective.



That would make me suicidal!!

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RE: Safest Way of Inflicting Intense Pain? - 7/22/2007 6:54:09 PM   
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I'm not sure I can remember one Dan Quayle speech. Does anyone remember anything but the spelling of the "potatoe" thing? Ha.

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RE: Safest Way of Inflicting Intense Pain? - 7/22/2007 7:00:20 PM   
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I've used electricity as an effect pain delivery mechanism that doesn't leave marks. 

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RE: Safest Way of Inflicting Intense Pain? - 7/22/2007 7:11:22 PM   
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Several people have mentioned canes. One very useful technique for intensifying pain without marks is to drape wet silk over your submissive's bare behind and lay a few cane strokes over the silk. Start gently and work up. The harder the stroke, the longer the interval between the strokes should be. You can tell when they're ready for another one by observing their breathing and by how long it takes the muscles in their lower back to fully relax.

Two caveats.

One, I would not use this trick if she has never previously experienced the cane; the cane produces a unique sensation that intensifies significantly after the initial impact, and not everyone can tolerate it at levels a Dom might think would be appropriate. They may see someone using it in a way that makes it whistle and think that's 'normal.' There is nothing normal about the cane; it's all very individual. A stroke that whistles is a pretty heavy stroke.

Two, the cane is not an innocuous little implement. It can easily break the tailbone--but then, so can spanking. Anyone who uses a paddle, a cane, a strap or a hand on a submissive's bottom should know exactly where the tailbone ends. Place your hand palm down on their bottom with fingers splayed upwards toward the small of their back and feel for the tip of the tailbone with your thumb. Never hit above an imaginary line that skims the tip of the tailbone.

As a sadist, I "enjoy providing the level of stimulation that a masochist craves," as someone once said to me... but IMO it's always better to create a craving for what you'd like to provide than to trigger that "Never again!" response. If she's never had the cane, try this before the wet-silk trick. Have her lay flat on her tummy. Begin by tapping the cane gently with a couple seconds between each stroke. Increase the force very slowly, no more an increase than about 1/3 for any given stroke. It's this gentle part that makes them want more, more, MORE. By the time you get into the range that elicits a significant response, you may have an interval between strokes of four seconds or even more.

God, I love the cane!

Good luck.

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RE: Safest Way of Inflicting Intense Pain? - 7/22/2007 7:18:54 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Petronius

I find cuffing her to a chair and making her listen to Dan Quayle speeches is damned effective.

For other forms of pain that are safe, the old dried-peas-in-the-shoes does wonders, especially after walking in them for a bit.



Oh, jesus!!!! please report this, this has gotta be against TOS...there are people who die from that shit. Does anybody know anyone who has heard the whole of his writings and speeches?  Did they ever get studied before they left the earth?
Where is his wife now? Death row for what?

Ron

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RE: Safest Way of Inflicting Intense Pain? - 7/22/2007 7:33:43 PM   
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You have a lot of great ideas already. Here's a couple I haven't seen mentioned yet.

Enemas cause cramping, no marks.

Have her stand up straight with her arms out to the side (like a cross) and have her hold a heavy book in each hand. If you have her bend her knees just slightly with her toes pointed out, that will add to the discomfort.

Poke her with toothpicks in sensitive areas like between the toes, under her nails etc.

Pull her hair, the little baby ones in the back close to the neck line. 

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RE: Safest Way of Inflicting Intense Pain? - 7/22/2007 8:14:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

nope, no need of it, real easy----

Which do you remember more clearly, and even smells and sounds---

the year of the nickel your mom gave you to buy bubblegum?
or;
the feel of the vicegrip on your clitoris?

please remember to to phrase your answer in the form of a question.


and for those older than you---------what do you think you are going to remember more clearly and say in your advanced years----that might have been a life defining moment.


Siddhartha


Hmmmm bubble gum....i love that! :)

No seriously, i would remember the vice grip on my clitoris of course...but, i don't remember things i was punished for while being spanked excpet for one single incident and that was getting spanked really hard for wearing rollerskates into the house for the zillionth time after being told they had to remain outside.

i recall punishments, just not what they were for or the lesson being taught by them.

So that is why it that little bit of knowledge piqued my curiosity.

And thank god my Daddy allows me to wear my skates all over in the house and even on the kitchen floor.



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RE: Safest Way of Inflicting Intense Pain? - 7/22/2007 9:03:44 PM   
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live mariachi music for the sub, ear plugs for the Dominant in another room....

pulling out toe hairs one by one...(i swear the roots on those bastards wrap around the bone or something, brings a tear to my eye just to think about it)

and suprised no one has brought this up, hot wax...or maybe it doesn't hurt on others like it does me...top 3 tips...unscented candles, low melting temperature and test it on yourself first cause you can get hotter but once you burn not much more you can do with them.....oh and ice/hot wax play is fun...



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RE: Safest Way of Inflicting Intense Pain? - 7/22/2007 9:10:12 PM   
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Oh, my fuckin' god----

You have toe hairs?

And to think I wanted you once, you bitch............


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RE: Safest Way of Inflicting Intense Pain? - 7/22/2007 9:17:54 PM   
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its my moms fault, shes part hobbit...and i keep them groomed thank you very much


edited to add:  oh and i have an issue with your sig line....no pope or rope? dammit...do you have to kill all a girls fantasies


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RE: Safest Way of Inflicting Intense Pain? - 7/22/2007 9:25:18 PM   
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DO NOT listen to Archer.
DO NOT listen to KnightsOfMists

Pressure points are for wusses and FifthAngel is the wuss who taught Master Archer many of his tricks.

All of them are effing sadists.

Pressure Points....ARGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG




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RE: Safest Way of Inflicting Intense Pain? - 7/22/2007 9:30:10 PM   
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chopsticks are evil

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RE: Safest Way of Inflicting Intense Pain? - 7/22/2007 10:22:55 PM   
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Pressure points and chemical/temperature/electrical stimulation were the ones that came to my mind. hot sauce on sensitive skin can be quite painful, and ginger root can be shaped into dildos and butt plugs.

You might want to do some Google searches on torture/"interrogation" techniques used in China and South America, and also taught at the School of Americas by the US Military. Since the advent of cheap photography, it has become standard to torture people in ways that do not leave marks or any evidence so that it can be denied. Making people stand in one place, in uncomfortable positions, build up lactic acid in their muscles, endure environmental extremes, sensory deprivation or overload, sleep deprivation, mock drowning, etc. Standard first aid/CPR disclaimers should apply -- be sure you can recover if something isn't as innocuous as you thought.

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RE: Safest Way of Inflicting Intense Pain? - 7/22/2007 11:09:31 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

You have a lot of great ideas already. Here's a couple I haven't seen mentioned yet.

Enemas cause cramping, no marks.

Have her stand up straight with her arms out to the side (like a cross) and have her hold a heavy book in each hand. If you have her bend her knees just slightly with her toes pointed out, that will add to the discomfort.

Poke her with toothpicks in sensitive areas like between the toes, under her nails etc.

Pull her hair, the little baby ones in the back close to the neck line. 

Celeste


You forgot clover clamps.  Pffft.

Binding breasts AND clamping the nipples AND flicking them causes some pretty big ouches.

A whartenberg wheel over sensitive parts does, too.

If she has pubic hair, you can pluck those out one at at time

I've had my tongue clamped before but that was more to get me to shut up than to inflict pain.....

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