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RE: I seriously wish there was a way we could warn othe... - 7/25/2007 7:50:07 AM

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RE: I seriously wish there was a way we could warn othe... - 7/25/2007 8:12:53 AM

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ORIGINAL: SexyRed

I am not usually so dramatic, but I was looking at a web site, called xxxxxxxxxxxxxx and SO want to start one on Collarme.

I know we cannot, but I have just had to deal with a total lying, cowardly, so called "dom" and I so wish I could save the other girls in NY and NJ a heartache.

Sometimes even really smart girls like me get taken in, my fault 50% for sure, but still...grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.

Thanks for the vent.

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I know how you feel, but ultimately they probably wouldn't listen to your words...and they would lose the lesson that you just experienced...sometimes you have to watch people make the same mistakes, poor decisions that you made so they can live and learn just like you did....

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RE: I seriously wish there was a way we could warn othe... - 7/25/2007 8:20:04 AM

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2.Does he want to play at your place? If so, why? Most genuine
Doms will want to arrange scenes at their home. If not then
maybe their Mummy won't let them, or maybe they are
married or in a relationship.

Or maybe he wants to keep his address a secret from crazies who populate this thread?

BTW, I'm Mod 11...were there any messages for me while I was gone?

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RE: I seriously wish there was a way we could warn othe... - 7/25/2007 8:31:48 AM

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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

If you guys could write a list, we'd all be on it.

You're a fake to 99.9% of the people on here, and they're fakes to you. Get over it. Then you meet your match, who is a fake to everyone else, and he's on the blacklist too. So you ditch him.

IT DOESN'T FUCKING WORK.

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benji

i actually saw with my own eyes a post that was edited by a mod because of, and i quote..."excessively large font"....now isn't that fuckin hilarious!!!...LMFAO

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RE: I seriously wish there was a way we could warn othe... - 7/25/2007 8:32:46 AM

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ORIGINAL: Emperor1956

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2.Does he want to play at your place? If so, why? Most genuine
Doms will want to arrange scenes at their home. If not then
maybe their Mummy won't let them, or maybe they are
married or in a relationship.

Or maybe he wants to keep his address a secret from crazies who populate this thread?

BTW, I'm Mod 11...were there any messages for me while I was gone?

E.

LOL, don't let LuckyAlbatross hear you say that!!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: I seriously wish there was a way we could warn othe... - 7/25/2007 8:50:00 AM

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Since CM does not allow us to do this sort of rating here, you could make up your own site and offer it to people.

You also could put a note in your profile that you have found a few phonies or a few predators in ________ state, and if anyone is interested in talking to you about this they can e-mail you.

There have been sites where established members would routinely give newbies a "Newbie Packet" by request, and this could include a list of people to be careful about. This was on the pre-1999 prodigy system, which no longer exists. There I also saw posts of incidents involving predators and involving people one should be careful about such as liars, drunks, mentally ill, con artists, etc.

I have talked to people who survived meetings with predators who were killers either through luck or through taking precautions such as safe calls.

A dear friend had a dominant who lied about his HIV status and tried to "take her with him". She has been living with that disease for many years now, and will share her story willingly. She feels if one person heeds her story and takes safety precautions, the pain of going over it again is worth it.

We can not post names and addresses and phone numbers here on CM, but we can connect with people and then share information elsewhere.

Yes there are "bashings" between people due to misunderstandings, break-ups, jealousy and similar reasons. There also really are some "sharks" in the gene pool.

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RE: I seriously wish there was a way we could warn othe... - 7/25/2007 11:25:10 AM

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interesting. tho- what you find unappealing another might like. as compettive as life can be- such a list can possibly guide dates to the dude!

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