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RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... - 7/26/2007 7:03:19 AM   
LadyLynx


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Status: offline 		switchsecrets, out of curiousity where did you come up with that idea?  personally I would be seriously unhappy if my sub couldn't perform!!  At any rate, it does sound like your generalizing alittle bit. :)

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RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... - 7/26/2007 7:06:00 AM   
ABsubcouple


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Status: offline 		i am sorry to any subs that end up with this punishment.....when with two subs...one reciving a spanking or paddling, during which they are ordered to orally please the other sub...the one getting the spanking/paddling is ordered TO lick the other sub to ORGASM and only then will the spanking/paddling stop...the other sub is ordered NOT to cum...if they do, they switch places with the one being spanked/paddled.....a nasty lil orgasm game.

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RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... - 7/26/2007 7:12:19 AM   
ABsubcouple


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Status: offline 		the old saying if you don't use it you lose it is very true...it has been so long i don't remember any more....even playing alone....you lose the drive...

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RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... - 7/26/2007 7:34:37 AM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		What about those of us who have an orgasm "from" punishment?

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RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... - 7/26/2007 8:21:44 AM   
switchsecrets


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyLynx

switchsecrets, out of curiousity where did you come up with that idea?  personally I would be seriously unhappy if my sub couldn't perform!!  At any rate, it does sound like your generalizing alittle bit. :)



just was wondering out loud.  personally speaking, i'd never allow myself to climax until my partner did first. their satisfaction means more to me. so, i wonder if that's where the ordered orgasm denial stems from. the Domme needing to be fullfilled first (not just sexually)

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RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... - 7/26/2007 8:43:55 AM   
MasterMataeo


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Status: offline 		ever heard of orgasim denial, such as not letting you have any physical contact at all?


quote:

ORIGINAL: GhitaAmati

What about those of us who have an orgasm "from" punishment?

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RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... - 7/26/2007 1:30:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ABsubcouple

the old saying if you don't use it you lose it is very true...it has been so long i don't remember any more....even playing alone....you lose the drive...


For some reason, I think the denial aspect is a guy thing.

It's about controlling the orgasms.
But with the girls, the punishment's seem there to make them have more orgasms than a vanilla ever could, not fewer.

"Have multiple, multiples or else!!"

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RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... - 7/26/2007 1:51:35 PM   
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RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... - 7/26/2007 1:59:14 PM   
switchsecrets


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ORIGINAL: Rafters

quote:

ORIGINAL: ABsubcouple

the old saying if you don't use it you lose it is very true...it has been so long i don't remember any more....even playing alone....you lose the drive...


For some reason, I think the denial aspect is a guy thing.

It's about controlling the orgasms.
But with the girls, the punishment's seem there to make them have more orgasms than a vanilla ever could, not fewer.

"Have multiple, multiples or else!!"


with all due respect, it seems far fetched for me to believe that by ordering a female to have multiple orgasms (or else) that it would produce the said results, especially everytime. the skeptic in me believes that if they were unable to achieve an orgasm, more or less a multiple, then creative faking would ensue.

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RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... - 7/26/2007 2:09:22 PM   
ownedgirlie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rafters

quote:

ORIGINAL: ABsubcouple

the old saying if you don't use it you lose it is very true...it has been so long i don't remember any more....even playing alone....you lose the drive...


For some reason, I think the denial aspect is a guy thing.

It's about controlling the orgasms.
But with the girls, the punishment's seem there to make them have more orgasms than a vanilla ever could, not fewer.

"Have multiple, multiples or else!!"


I'm not relating to either of these posts, but not saying they're not the case for the posters.

I went without for years.  Having been married to someone who did not want me to experience sexual pleasure, I stopped bothering.  Master came along and not only did I enjoy sex and orgasms again, but like never before.

He has total control over them.  His enjoyment is both the orgasm and the control, which is why he will deny me at times, having me ride an edge for an excrutiating and sometimes tearful time, only to grin and stop me without relief.   In three years I have never cum without his permission, never "lost" the ability, never experienced so much frustration I didn't want to, and never been punished for cumming because I have not done so without his permission.  If I did, however, I would be reprimanded, plain and simple.  He makes it hard.  So far (knocking on wood), I have dealt with the torment without issue. 

He is much amused by this, which simply delights me.

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RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... - 7/26/2007 2:32:32 PM   
ELUSIVE1


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Status: offline 		My first ever Master trained me to cum on command through orgasm control...if I came before he gave permission he would withhold Dick..(one time for 2 whole weeks) .and he knew that would make me totally insane...so beleive me I LEARNED to WAIT until given PERMISSION to cum...

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RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... - 7/26/2007 2:38:57 PM   
MstrssScarlet


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Status: offline 		One of the reasons I entered this lifestyle was because it aroused me so much sexually and I finally began to experience multiple orgasms after faking it for 20 years in a vanilla marriage (not even bothering the last 5 or so).  If someone were to take that away from me, it would seem to defeat the purpose.  Not to say you can't have some fun with it.  I have a male sub that often does work around the house for me in exchange for private sessions.   One night I brought him to the brink so many times without allowing him to actually cum that he was losing his mind.  I did, however, eventually let him cum.  To have denied it completely after all that is cruel even by MY standards. 
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RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... - 7/26/2007 2:44:55 PM   
ownedgirlie


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ORIGINAL: MstrssScarlet

To have denied it completely after all that is cruel even by MY standards. 
Mistress Scarlet


* Grin * I agree!  He does that quite infrequently, but I must say the glee he gets from it washes away any torment I may feel, and makes me joyous.  Cruel is not always bad...heh.

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RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... - 7/26/2007 4:00:15 PM   
TopinPa


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ORIGINAL: GhitaAmati

What about those of us who have an orgasm "from" punishment?








Than you get a big fat reward! Like many more orgasms
Why you ask? Because a sub/slave that orgasms from being punished turns me the fuck on!!!

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RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... - 7/27/2007 1:35:18 AM   
Rafters


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ORIGINAL: switchsecrets
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ORIGINAL: Rafters
"Have multiple, multiples or else!!"

with all due respect, it seems far fetched for me to believe that by ordering a female to have multiple orgasms (or else) that it would produce the said results, especially everytime. the skeptic in me believes that if they were unable to achieve an orgasm, more or less a multiple, then creative faking would ensue.


Ding Ding Ding. We have a winner!!

It DOESN'T work!

It's not supposed to be work!

It provides a roadmap for the "helpless" subbie to aspire too, when the "or else!!" part kicks in

You know "or else", it involves lots of terribly non-vanilla phrases, like "tied up", "flogged", "touched in a bad place", "dried ginger root, carved into interesting shapes", "fisted", "for all afternoon, with only short rest breaks", "no way to stop it happening (except for the safe word)", "sex object", "blindfolded", "used in any way he saw fit", "it went on forever", "I woke up still blindfolded and he started again", "spanked", "walking naked through a field of long grass that reached up to my labia"
.. you get the idea

And everytime their "punished body" is questioning the situation, it's only answer on hand is "mutlitple, multiple" (or safeword)

Female orgasms are mental, you have to hook the mind to to get their body.
If you don't hook their mind, they can and will fake.
But if you take your time, set the scene just right, and do the things no "nice" vanilla boy would ever do to a vanilla good girl then the body blushing, the swollen labial lips, the erect nipples, the secrets they spill, the dilated pupils, the straining on their bonds, the squirting that reaches their ankles, plus the steady dripping that doesn't, are unfakable signs you are doing something right.



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RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... - 7/27/2007 1:55:48 AM   
came4U


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Status: offline 		it should be punishment afterall, as the OP asked so...how about for a man, we assume the Master/Mistress doesn't want him to cum prematurely (??) but eventually under their discretion and control?

how about:

for males, if they did 'finish' without an ok from da boss = lick his own cold cum off a plate.

for a female sub, the same, lick her Master/Mistress' cum off a cold plate (ie: this will teach you to be selfish) bad girls don't get it fresh!!

just an idea. to teach 'sharing at the appropriate given time' LOL

yet as a separate note, so they do not end up disliking the taste of You, remind them of how good it tastes, mm mmmmm and if they are good, ya might warm it up for the slurrrp from a straw instead of licking. Ya never know..maybe they would become so addicted they start making 'spermsicles' and 'spermcubes' for their drinkees.

smile and gulp and nobody gets hurt


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RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... - 7/27/2007 2:32:29 AM   
MasterMagnus321


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Status: offline 		Excellent reminders, Rafters- don't forget to mention the sometimes visible pump and swell of the artery in the neck- impossible to fake, and very handy for taking subs to the razor's edge and keeping them there.  I find that orgasm "tease, denial, stimulation, arousal and denial again"  lasting over two hours diminishes the overall intensity of the sub's "rocks cumming off,"  as it were.  That is not acceptable to Me- the ability to take them "astral," as I call it, in My own chosen time and to My rhythm, is probably my most cherished ability...

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RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... - 7/27/2007 3:46:52 AM   
switchsecrets


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Status: offline 		some interesting things to ponder

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RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... - 7/27/2007 9:09:36 AM   
chellekitty


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Status: offline 		ok maybe my definition of punishment is not the same as some of ya'lls cause the problem i see with this thread is that it ask for a bottoms "favorite punishment"...the rest is just kink related and whats your kink is your kink etc, ad nauseum...but are we supposed to enjoy punishment or not? cause if you honestly ask a bottom for their "favorite punishment" it will most likely not be the most "effective punishment"...but if its all a game anyway, i don't really have to have permission to cum...or i will cum without permission to get my fun punishment...and well, i guess if thats the way you want to play...just let people know...informed consent and all...

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RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... - 7/27/2007 9:26:45 AM   
LightHeartedMaam


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Status: offline 		I have two games I use when training.  "Beat the Clock" and "DON'T Beat the Clock"

First do the "Beat the Clock" for a week or so.  Set the time for 60 seconds.  The goal is to come as close to the 60 seconds as possible but not over. Subtract 10 seconds the next day to set the goal at 50 seconds.  Subtract 5-10 second from the original minute each day until they strive to come in 10 seconds  :) If so, then make it 5 seconds.

If you stretch this exercise out over 2 weeks, they are pretty trained to come with in the short time frames.  Something they will be very proud of. (evil grin)

"DON'T Beat the Clock" is the opposite.  You tack on 5-10 seconds from his last starting time until you get up to whatever length of time you want!  They eventually will fail. (This is called the Peter Principle). 

The punishment?  When he is on the Second stage ( the Don't one), you can tease the heck out of him by slowly revealing your favorite body part as he is frantically trying to control himself.  If he fails, then you put him on abstinence for a week or two.  After he is so used to cumming every day~  this is pure torture.

BUT the upshot of it all is that he DOES learn control and it comes in very handy :)


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