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RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... - 7/27/2007 4:17:59 PM

Tristan

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She never knew if I would grant her permission to orgasm when she asked. Because she knew that she would only have one chance to orgasm Tristan

only one? um...what about higher math?

i really think that's a negative reinforcer to a place i don't want to go. i like having orgasms, and i kinda think my partner would like me to be having them, too.

There was no negative reinforcement. She absolutely loved orgasm control. She loved being kept on the very edge not knowing when she would be given permission to cum. It was through the excitement of having someone else control her orgasms and being kept close to cumming that produced what she said were her best orgasms. It was harder for her to orgasm without this control. I also knew her well, and knew when she needed to orgasm. I loved watching her cum hard on command. That part was very exciting too.

As for "one chance", she would ask permission to cum knowing that she only had a certain amount of time to cum. She had to bring herself to the very edge so that she would be able to orgasm within the specified time, but she did not know if permission would be granted. This forced her to keep herself very close to cumming until permission was granted. The excitement of not knowing if permission would be granted helped intensify her orgasms. Bringing her to the edge several times also helped intensify her orgasms.

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RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... - 7/27/2007 5:44:40 PM

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It seems to me that people are forgetting the possibly fun ways to punish cumming. I recall being tied up spread eagle and her riding me. She had one goal, which was to get off. She warned me that if I came first, she would then sit on my face until she came. I clearly thought that was punishment, and she recognized the same thing.

she had any number of ways of punishing me for cumming, but it was all fun - even if I hated it at the moment.

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RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... - 7/27/2007 11:30:59 PM

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She warned me that if I came first, she would then sit on my face until she came. I clearly thought that was punishment, and she recognized the same thing.

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RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... - 7/28/2007 1:59:45 PM

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See, now this is the kind of reality/gameshow I'd watch -

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RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... - 7/28/2007 2:35:45 PM

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If I was punished for orgasming, I would stop having them. I would stop becoming aroused. Many women shut down sexually. And after a few weeks/months? I'd really have no interest in him.

Makw me wait, fine. But deny me arbitrarily after getting me to that point? I'd stop trusting you enough to enjoy your touch. And at that point I'd rather not be with you.

So True, and Agreed.

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RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... - 7/28/2007 3:50:26 PM

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Favorite Punishments for orgasms

another orgasm and another and another and another..... until they pass out *smiles*

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