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why is it so hard to find a Mistress that wonts a good ... - 7/25/2007 10:46:18 PM

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Can any one tell me what i am doing that turns away Mistress looking for a good all around sub/slave

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RE: why is it so hard to find a Mistress that wonts a g... - 7/25/2007 10:47:56 PM

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i don't know, what kind of emails are you sending out?

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RE: why is it so hard to find a Mistress that wonts a g... - 7/25/2007 11:03:11 PM

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your picture makes you look strung out...consider asking a friend to take a nicer one. That could help. I would pass you by with a look that says "I've been on a high for three days"

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RE: why is it so hard to find a Mistress that wonts a g... - 7/25/2007 11:30:54 PM

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If folks judge outhers on how thay look nten thay or missing the the point anway

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RE: why is it so hard to find a Mistress that wonts a g... - 7/25/2007 11:36:55 PM

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If folks judge outhers on how thay look nten thay or missing the the point anway

You know what, chains...I agree with you. I would not pass by someone who was unattractive because of a deformity or because he was blonde or blue eyed or brown haired or green eyed or had freckles...or any millions of reason someone is not physically attracted to another....I can go on all day

I do tend to stay away from people with drug and/or alcohol issues and if you are willing to post a picture that makes you appear to look that way...damn good chance you are strung out.

When we put ourselves out there for the masses to approve we try to put out something that shows how we really are (if we are honest people) and your picture makes you look drugged. If you are not then a picture that portrays you looking sober makes more sense. If you are drugged or drunk then you deserve what you get period.

Also...when you post a question to these boards you must be ready to accept reading what people think and feel. If you can't handle the information given to you, don't ask.

edited to add...yet he took his picture down...guess I made some sense.

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RE: why is it so hard to find a Mistress that wonts a g... - 7/25/2007 11:51:23 PM

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Have to agree with you on that, im body mind balanced.....like attracts like...if you look like an idiot

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RE: why is it so hard to find a Mistress that wonts a g... - 7/25/2007 11:54:01 PM

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your picture makes you look strung out...consider asking a friend to take a nicer one. That could help. I would pass you by with a look that says "I've been on a high for three days"

maybe he 'is' strung out...might consider taking a pic without the drugs...LOL <jk>

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RE: why is it so hard to find a Mistress that wonts a g... - 7/25/2007 11:55:34 PM

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If folks judge outhers on how thay look nten thay or missing the the point anway

might try working on spelling a bit more, too

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RE: why is it so hard to find a Mistress that wonts a g... - 7/26/2007 12:04:52 AM

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No i dont drink or use drugs i do have a nerv in my left eye lide that is damaged and couses one eyelid to drope and it dous make me look difernt but . i posted a differnt pic but it wont show for a will

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RE: why is it so hard to find a Mistress that wonts a g... - 7/26/2007 12:08:57 AM

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lmao...so you tell me I'm awful for giving critique of your photo yet you do exactly as I suggest? Not even a word about maybe you reacted to my words a bit quickly and harshly....Way to be a great service sub....that will get you all the dominants in real life.

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RE: why is it so hard to find a Mistress that wonts a g... - 7/26/2007 12:12:04 AM

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well, hopefully not "all"...safe some for the rest of us...LOL

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RE: why is it so hard to find a Mistress that wonts a g... - 7/26/2007 12:22:13 AM

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No Ma'am i did not say any one was aufl and i changed the pic becous it did look bad thank you for pointing it out

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RE: why is it so hard to find a Mistress that wonts a g... - 7/26/2007 12:27:30 AM

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No(,) i (I) dont (don't) drink or use drugs(,) i (I) do have a nerv (nerve)in my left eye lide (eyelid) that is damaged and couses (causes) one eyelid to drope (droop) and it dous (does) make me look difernt (different) (but - drop this word). i (I) posted a differnt (different) pic(,) but it wont (won't) show for a will (while) (.)

This alone would turn me off.

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RE: why is it so hard to find a Mistress that wonts a g... - 7/26/2007 12:29:23 AM

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No(,) i (I) dont (don't) drink or use drugs(,) i (I) do have a nerv (nerve)in my left eye lide (eyelid) that is damaged and couses (causes) one eyelid to drope (droop) and it dous (does) make me look difernt (different) (but - drop this word). i (I) posted a differnt (different) pic(,) but it wont (won't) show for a will (while) (.)

This alone would turn me off.

that's what i was talking about too.

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RE: why is it so hard to find a Mistress that wonts a g... - 7/26/2007 12:33:17 AM

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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

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No(,) i (I) dont (don't) drink or use drugs(,) i (I) do have a nerv (nerve)in my left eye lide (eyelid) that is damaged and couses (causes) one eyelid to drope (droop) and it dous (does) make me look difernt (different) (but - drop this word). i (I) posted a differnt (different) pic(,) but it wont (won't) show for a will (while) (.)

This alone would turn me off.

that's what i was talking about too.

Ummm, Michael dear......is it me, or have you tunred into a kitten since I was here last? :P Cute pic sweety. :)

But yea....saw your post there, but was kind of laughing a bit much at your other posts. :P

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RE: why is it so hard to find a Mistress that wonts a g... - 7/26/2007 2:03:34 AM

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Can any one tell me what i am doing that turns away Mistress looking for a good all around sub/slave

Myself, I don't have a taste for men over 45 nor those who need to CD to serve me. There are others out there who most certainly would accept someone like yourself into their service. So you tell us -- what are you doing to get turned down by women?

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RE: why is it so hard to find a Mistress that wonts a g... - 7/26/2007 2:31:37 AM

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well, hopefully not "all"...safe some for the rest of us...LOL

michael, while you are on about spelling, i think you meant "save"

Sorry, i couldn`t resist it.

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RE: why is it so hard to find a Mistress that wonts a g... - 7/26/2007 3:30:01 AM

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So what you or saying is no one cairs how good a sub one is just so thay can spell

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RE: why is it so hard to find a Mistress that wonts a g... - 7/26/2007 3:37:58 AM

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Well Miss Pandora what i am doing is being hounest and up frunt about things i put in my profial what i would do . it dous not say that i must crous dress to serve it is an option i give .

If thats what thay or looking for i can serve in meny ways i just love to serve and pleas

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RE: why is it so hard to find a Mistress that wonts a g... - 7/26/2007 6:08:29 AM

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When you are using a medium like online to first contact someone, then how well you communicate in this forum IS indeed important - so how well you spell and write IS important.   If you can't spell well and use poor sentence structure, you can not communicate effectively online, and it shows a general lack of attention to detail.   If you are someone who just has trouble spelling (some people do), then I suggest you type your communications in Word and run spellcheck before you transfer them to email/message boards.

Go back and re-read what you just wrote. Crous dress? Up frunt?   Profial?   These are all mistakes that would have been corrected with spellcheck. It's sort of like trying to read what an 8 year old writes, and NOT something I'd expect from a grown man with a high school or college degree.   Quite honestly, I've stopped talking to subs who couldn't be bothered to write effectively - because their disinterest in communicating effectively indicated to me that there would probably be issues down the line with other lack of attention to not-so-small details.

I looked over your profile, and you say you have 25 years of experience in the lifestyle.   Drawing on all that experience - what do YOU think is not working for you now?   What has worked for you in the past?   What is different now?

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