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mnottertail -> RE: help me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (7/27/2007 12:02:43 PM)

I'm not one for wasting time.  I prefer to spend it usefully being an asshole. 

Then you should have written it like this and then we can get on to the cakking:

I prefer to spend it briefly and usefully being an asshole.

Ron



MistressCass -> RE: help me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (7/27/2007 12:11:38 PM)

Topic threads  like this remind of of what I was told over 15 years ago when I joined the online community (anyone remember IRC???) ...."50% of everything you read online is BS, the other 50% is highly suspect to contain more than a grain of truth"




gooddogbenji -> RE: help me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (7/27/2007 12:24:40 PM)

Which 50% is that advice part of?

Yours,


benji



MistressCass -> RE: help me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (7/27/2007 12:44:06 PM)

ahhhh.....50% of the advice is BS and the other 50% is highly suspect to contain more than a grain of truth.....like everything else read online......But please remember this is all said in way of caution about gulliablity....not a documented fact.



chey -> RE: help me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (7/27/2007 1:45:05 PM)

Crazy,
Then it seems it would come down to becoming familiar with the boards and some of the posts. Then I would begin to see who has this same pattern as mistoferin pointed out.

And in response to Nakedgirlscout I may speak my mind if I feel someone should stop whining but I would never tell them to do something bad to themselves either.

I have a strong belief in not allowing yourself to be a victim and I see too many submissives (and people in general for that matter) who fall into the whole "poor me" cycle. I have no desire at this point in time to put my personal life out there however I HAVE incidents in my life that I could cry about and gain pity from others because of. I would rather use them to learn, grow and become stronger. That mindset took someone else to harshly point me in the right direction and maybe some of these people need to hear it too. That is where I am often coming from. I hate to hear of bad first meetings or disappointments and abandonments, I really do....but at the same time life happens. Show the world you are strong and can rise to meet it. It makes you that much more attractive to the sane ones!



SDFemDom4cuck -> RE: help me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (7/27/2007 4:16:56 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Stephann

I have to say...

Seeing some of the responses to this thread have churned my stomach.  Clearly, this is a problem that we know little or nothign about.  It could be garden variety drama, it could also be evidence of an extremely unstable mind.  Is it absolutely necessary to see someone who craps their pants, bend over, and crap on them too?  Does that make you feel bigger?  better?  stronger? 

Frankly, I would hope the moderators would yank this thread entirely; it obviously has nothing to do with the community here.

Stephan


 
Stephann,
 
Personally, I made no reference whatsoever to the OP. My comment was in regard to DG and Emperor. I have no idea why you seemingly singled me out to berate when others have said far more directly to the OP than I have commented. Perhaps you simply replied to my post and aren't referring to me personally when you ask these rhetorical questions? Otherwise my reply (were you referring to me personally) would be that I've said nothing to the OP and if you look at my history of replies your suggestion that "Is it absolutely necessary to see someone who craps their pants, bend over, and crap on them too?  Does that make you feel bigger?  better?  stronger? " would be quite unfounded.  



SimplyMichael -> RE: help me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (7/27/2007 5:10:02 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Stephann

quote:

ORIGINAL: mistoferin

I would suggest that sometimes the most helpful thing that a person can read is that bullshit drama is inappropriate and won't be catered to or tolerated and that not everyone is an idiot who is going to fall for such blatantly obvious stupidity and stroke your "center of attention" fetish.


Why do you feel empowered to be their psychologist?  What fix does it give you, to declare how stupid another person is?  Do you usually point at homeless people on the street and tell them they wouldn't be homeless if they stopped drinking and doing crack?  Why do it in front of us?

Obviously, there's some mental and emotional issues at work, far deeper seated than anything we can address here in this thread.  That's why I strongly suggested that the management simply remove the thread.  It does nobody any real good, and has nothing to do with the BDSM community.

Stephan




 
Stephan,
 
As someone who has been around, most of this stuff is old hat and my archair counseling tends to be pretty damn close to the mark.  I frankly think if we told MORE people they are not mature enough or emotionally stable enough to do BDSM and were MORE blunt with people, we, the "community" would be one hell of a lot better off.
 
I don't mock homeless people, but I do tend to note they have mental issues and don't associate with them on a social basis. 



BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: help me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (7/27/2007 8:10:49 PM)

Well after all of that drama, I can only surmise from her latest journal entry that all is well with her daddy and mommy because she invites others in her area to come have dinner with them all tonight? [sm=confused.gif]



Arastella -> RE: help me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (7/27/2007 8:22:14 PM)

Ahh god, not this crackpot kid again.  Ugh, desperation much?  Attention, much? [8|]



Aileen68 -> RE: help me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (7/27/2007 8:25:24 PM)

Well this ridiculous thread all makes sense now.
This is her daddy. 



BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: help me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (7/27/2007 8:32:43 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Well this ridiculous thread all makes sense now.
This is her daddy. 


Yikes!  I remember him.  [sm=m23.gif]






fadedlace -> RE: help me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (7/27/2007 8:40:39 PM)

fast reply......

HAHAHAHAHHAAAAA *peeing my pants laughing*



mistoferin -> RE: help me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (7/27/2007 8:40:55 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Well this ridiculous thread all makes sense now.
This is her daddy. 


Yeah, I caught that too.



michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: help me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (7/27/2007 8:47:52 PM)

i need help also...can't seem to find my giggle button...LOL



domiguy -> RE: help me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (7/27/2007 8:52:50 PM)

I can't really tell if the op is a tv or not....Ah what the Hell, I still just might introduce her to the working end of an angry Domidong.



michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: help me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (7/27/2007 8:59:04 PM)

well, if the OP is a TV, then who's got the remote?

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came4U -> RE: help me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (7/29/2007 12:50:57 AM)

I didn't look at who is who and who they are doing.  I might only do that if I was interested in someone's profile at random and sometimes that leads to a hop-skip to so-n-so and theirs refers to whoz-it etc lol.

I just didn't want to read a book before I replied as quicky as possible to 'helppp meee'. Maybe I should get the whole story next time.  But, why should we have to? grrr, if someone asks a question shouldn't they really MEAN the question? Shey is right. I wouldn't put myself 'out there' and look weak to anyone either (here or in real life). There is a time and place for that.  This is not the time or the place lol.  When my hydro bill was late, yep, good time to cry to the lady on the phone and play dumb.  Here? would be like being a sitting duck.

I might pay attention more before replying to something from now on..I might not, it is a lot of work grr.



wandersalone -> RE: help me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (7/29/2007 1:15:52 AM)

wow too funny, I wondered what happened to him and his posts here every time he had sex ...guess he has his hands full. [:D]



chellekitty -> RE: help me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (7/29/2007 1:46:19 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Well this ridiculous thread all makes sense now.
This is her daddy. 


but but but, he's so cute, i want him to be my Daddy too but i need that TV remote to change the channel on him....



Hizbadhabit -> RE: help me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (7/29/2007 7:07:10 PM)

it gets better. after 6 years with a Dom it came to an end. But, if that would not have  happened i would not have met my Master who i truly love and adore.



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