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RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? - 7/29/2007 8:00:26 AM   
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Well said, lt.


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RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? - 7/29/2007 8:28:54 AM   
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God's only concern is with sports.....Dying of cancer...Tough shit!....Need to hit a three run homer in the bottom of the ninth...Then He's your man.

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RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? - 7/29/2007 8:35:02 AM   
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One issue I see with the question is that if the prayer comes true, it's attributed to your respective good deity.  But if it doesn't come true, then it's because 1) wasn't sincere, 2) asked for the "wrong" thing, 3) due to your respective evil deity, 4) or wasn't supposed to happen.  Basically it's "bad on you" at best and "bad on Satan" at worst.

How do you explain all those athletes that pray on the field?  If they complete a pass or tackle, it's due to their belief in God. But you don't see them offering  up thanks for missing a play, or losing a game. 

This a personal peeve of mine - that the Infinite would give a hoot what happens in a professional sport.

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RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? - 7/29/2007 9:01:08 AM   
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One issue I see with the question is that if the prayer comes true, it's attributed to your respective good deity.  But if it doesn't come true, then it's because 1) wasn't sincere, 2) asked for the "wrong" thing, 3) due to your respective evil deity, 4) or wasn't supposed to happen.  Basically it's "bad on you" at best and "bad on Satan" at worst.

How do you explain all those athletes that pray on the field?  If they complete a pass or tackle, it's due to their belief in God. But you don't see them offering  up thanks for missing a play, or losing a game. 

This a personal peeve of mine - that the Infinite would give a hoot what happens in a professional sport.

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Quite frankly, I don't think He does give a hoot what happens in a professional sport.  I think what He does care about is that we are happy.  But I don't think He's going to interfere to make us happy and I don't think He'll make us happy if we ask Him.  I don't think it works like that.

I consider prayer as simply talking.  I may talk with my parents or good friends about how my life is going, how I feel, or what I'd like, but I don't expect them to act on what I say.  They may just listen, or they may offer comfort.   Sometimes just having someone to talk to is a comfort.  If things work out for me after talking to them, I don't credit them for my fortune.  If things get worse, I don't blame them, either. 

But I do thank them for caring.  I thank them for listening.  I thank them for being a comfort.  I thank them for being there.

But as with God, I don't go to my friends and family with every little trouble I have.  I certainly don't go to them only when I want something from them.  If they decide they can provide something to me that I need or want, then it is a gift to me.  I don't expect it.  Sometimes I might not recognize what they've done and sometimes they don't want me to know.

Why do people expect prayer to be any different?

I think those who use prayer as a "good luck charm" or as a "911 call" just don't get it.

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RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? - 7/29/2007 9:13:49 AM   
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Well Domiguy,

If thats what you believe, then prayers won't work for you. 

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RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? - 7/29/2007 9:27:36 AM   
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Myself and god, we've come to a mutually beneficial understanding - I never bother god and he doesn't seem to mind because he never bothers me. So, everyone's happy.

I've always been under the impression that the idea was to submit to god's authority rather than request presents. 'Reminds me of when I used to push notes up the chimney at Christmas asking Santa to bring me a bike and a pair of football boots.

'Long story short, I firmly believe that god is a social reflex that acts as a focus for authority and submission. I wouldn't expect any presents in the next zillenium.

Does prayer really work? There must have been a zillion prayers over the years, were there a god at least one would have been answered. With the exception of Borat being exorcised of muslim demons in a US pentecostal church, I'm yet to see any evidence.

Let's say 200 people on this board say a prayer every night and the average age is 40. That's a boat-load of prayers - can anyone provide an example of one that was answered?

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RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? - 7/29/2007 9:35:15 AM   
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Fast Reply:  I haven't read the entire thread, because it seemed to degenerate into a "YES IT DOES" / "NO IT DOESN'T" argument with a smattering of anti-Xtian and other religious shots.  So far, it seems to me all this thread proves is the Godless and the Godminded both have a surfeit of self-righteousness.  Big surprise.

If you are really interested in this topic AND have an open mind, you might consider that the question of the efficacy of prayer has been heavily studied and debated for the last 1/2 of the 20th C and the beginning of this one.

The current key study is recent, and fairly evocative.  Prayer seems to have no effect on illness, and might even contribute to worse outcomes.  This excellent short summary from the NYT begins:

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Prayers offered by strangers had no effect on the recovery of people who were undergoing heart surgery, a large and long-awaited study has found.

And patients who knew they were being prayed for had a higher rate of post-operative complications like abnormal heart rhythms, perhaps because of the expectations the prayers created, the researchers suggested.

Because it is the most scientifically rigorous investigation of whether prayer can heal illness, the study, begun almost a decade ago and involving more than 1,800 patients, has for years been the subject of speculation.

(NYT March 31, 2006  )



Another excellent summary of current research and debate is here

I teach a unit about this (as part of Science, Scientific Proof and Law) in one of my law school classes (yes, at a Jesuit-run law school!)   One thing I find interesting is the pro-prayer people, up until 2006, argued that the modality of "double blind" studies couldn't work, because the person being prayed for had to know they were being prayed for; after the Templeton Heart study was released with the correlative finding that prayer was associated with worse outcomes, some of the pro-prayer folks changed their tune on a dime; now effective prayer has to come from loved ones, friends, etc.

Of course I  would be remiss in not citing the Byrd study here -- a slightly older study that famously finds that prayer DOES work for cardiac patients.  Dr. Randolph Byrd in 1998 published his fairly famous study about the mitigating effects of prayer on a population of fairly sick CCU patients.  I direct you to this link because not only does it reprint Byrd's study, but it give some very good pro- and con- writing as well, notably Gary Posner's critique/reply.

I don't know if prayer works for the sick person.  I do know that it makes those who pray feel better.

E.

Edited to make the links pop!

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RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? - 7/29/2007 9:37:07 AM   
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I give suggestions I don't ask for things. Like feedback, I'm here to create a better universe thats me. I think it's about time he started to pay me for all the advice I give him.

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RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? - 7/29/2007 9:44:27 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Emperor1956

Fast Reply:  I haven't read the entire thread, because it seemed to degenerate into a "YES IT DOES" / "NO IT DOESN'T" argument with a smattering of anti-Xtian and other religious shots.  So far, it seems to me all this thread proves is the Godless and the Godminded both have a surfeit of self-righteousness.  Big surprise.

If you are really interested in this topic AND have an open mind, you might consider that the question of the efficacy of prayer has been heavily studied and debated for the last 1/2 of the 20th C and the beginning of this one.

The current key study is recent, and fairly evocative.  Prayer seems to have no effect on illness, and might even contribute to worse outcomes.  This excellent short summary from the NYT begins:

quote:

  
Prayers offered by strangers had no effect on the recovery of people who were undergoing heart surgery, a large and long-awaited study has found.

And patients who knew they were being prayed for had a higher rate of post-operative complications like abnormal heart rhythms, perhaps because of the expectations the prayers created, the researchers suggested.

Because it is the most scientifically rigorous investigation of whether prayer can heal illness, the study, begun almost a decade ago and involving more than 1,800 patients, has for years been the subject of speculation.

(NYT March 31, 2006  )



Another excellent summary of current research and debate is here

I teach a unit about this (as part of Science, Scientific Proof and Law) in one of my law school classes (yes, at a Jesuit-run law school!)   One thing I find interesting is the pro-prayer people, up until 2006, argued that the modality of "double blind" studies couldn't work, because the person being prayed for had to know they were being prayed for; after the Templeton Heart study was released with the correlative finding that prayer was associated with worse outcomes, some of the pro-prayer folks changed their tune on a dime; now effective prayer has to come from loved ones, friends, etc.

Of course I  would be remiss in not citing the Byrd study here -- a slightly older study that famously finds that prayer DOES work for cardiac patients.  Dr. Randolph Byrd in 1998 published his fairly famous study about the mitigating effects of prayer on a population of fairly sick CCU patients.  I direct you to this link because not only does it reprint Byrd's study, but it give some very good pro- and con- writing as well, notably Gary Posner's critique/reply.

I don't know if prayer works for the sick person.  I do know that it makes those who pray feel better.

E.

Edited to make the links pop!


Nooooo God fixed this study to test our faith I tells ya.

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RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? - 7/29/2007 9:47:55 AM   
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Gent, the problem with asking that is, as luci pointed out, it opens up that person to ridicule, for their faith. And many consider such information to be personal, anyway.
 
Most of what I pray for, is to have the wisdom, courage, and compassion that those I respect showed in their lives, such as Jesus. Do I pray for "things"? Yes, and I shouldn't, but one example that stands out in my mind is this (and for those of you who've already heard the following, feel free to go get some iced tea, or play Yahtzi ):
 
I was diagnosed with diabetes last December, blood sugar was extremely high, at 339. My vision was messed up, I was developing neuropathy in my feet, wounds were not healing. I went home from the doctor, devasted and in bad health. That night, I pled with God to help me, somehow, someway. After praying, I went over to my laptop, and the very first website I came to was that of a Dr. Richard Bernstein. He's a Type 1 diabetic, and has helped countless people not only live with diabetes, but reverse many of the problems associated with it.
 
Since then, adapting the ideas of Bernstein, I've lost over 100 pounds, reversed abnormal liver functions, reversed my blood sugar to an average of 81 (which is about the same as a non-diabetic), completely reversed the neuropathy in my feet, cleared my vison up substantially, and generally gained a new lease on life.
 
I see it as a prayer answered. Not a waving of a magical wand, but help asked for, and given.
 
What about all the people that have asked for the same thing, and not recieved it? I have no answer. Maybe they did get an answer, but weren't willing to hear it. I have issues with my blood cell count, so if I find out I have cancer, or if I drop dead from a heart attack today, does that mean my prayer was not answered? No, not really. No one is promised a trouble free life. The things I don't know about God, and how things work, dwarf what I do know, like the ocean dwarfs a minnow.

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RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? - 7/29/2007 9:49:20 AM   
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I've always been under the impression that the idea was to submit to god's authority rather than request presents. 'Reminds me of when I used to push notes up the chimney at Christmas asking Santa to bring me a bike and a pair of football boots.



What exactly does this mean...."when I used to push notes up the chimney?".....You English are a queer lot....Did you actually place your wish list to Santa inside the chimney?....It is awfully dark and I doubt that he would even notice such notes on his way down......Or perhaps this is some sort of English code that refers to you cramming  these notes to Santa up inside of your rectum?....Either way, it is just another reason why my brothers and sisters across the pond are truly disturbed.

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RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? - 7/29/2007 9:51:27 AM   
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OK but like you have to understand that God works in mysterious ways and if you don't have Christ in your heart no amount of prayer is going to help you anyway.

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Prayer seems to have no effect on illness, and might even contribute to worse outcomes.  This excellent short summary from the NYT begins:

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Prayers offered by strangers had no effect on the recovery of people who were undergoing heart surgery, a large and long-awaited study has found.

And patients who knew they were being prayed for had a higher rate of post-operative complications like abnormal heart rhythms, perhaps because of the expectations the prayers created, the researchers suggested.

Because it is the most scientifically rigorous investigation of whether prayer can heal illness, the study, begun almost a decade ago and involving more than 1,800 patients, has for years been the subject of speculation.

(NYT March 31, 2006  )


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RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? - 7/29/2007 9:52:30 AM   
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I've always been under the impression that the idea was to submit to god's authority rather than request presents. 'Reminds me of when I used to push notes up the chimney at Christmas asking Santa to bring me a bike and a pair of football boots.



What exactly does this mean...."when I used to push notes up the chimney?".....You English are a queer lot....Did you actually place your wish list to Santa inside the chimney....It is awful dark and I doubt that he would even notice such notes on his way down......Or perhaps this is some sort of English code that refers to you cramming  your notes to Santa inside of your rectum?....Either way, it is just another reason why my brothers and sisters across the pond are truly disturbed.


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RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? - 7/29/2007 9:53:42 AM   
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Y'know, its people like you who give fucking elephants (or is that Christians?) a bad name.

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RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? - 7/29/2007 9:59:33 AM   
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Shouldn’t the question be ‘Does preying do any harm?’, pretending for a moment we hadn't read the study that says that in some cases it does. We shouldn’t really ask if it helps to prey because I don’t think any good will come of it in any case. It is one of those questions in life that only ends up knocking people’s faith. Why are you asking me, a human being, if preying works I could never know for sure and may thus only pass on my doubts to you. If I have faith I may pass on some of that too but I think faith can be found in better places.

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RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? - 7/29/2007 10:04:36 AM   
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In all seriousness, Emperor, if I believed in "the power of prayer" (or whatever they call it), I'd object to double-blind studies too.  That's just a way of pretending to be measuring the effect of prayer from an unbiased point of view, but loading the dice by using the paradigm of secular humanism to judge matters of the spirit.  Prayer works because they know it works.  You think people like that are going to subordinate prayer to the methodological thinking behind double-blind studies?

Towards the beginning of this thread someone said that prayer helps those with faith and not those without.  I don't remember who said that, but I really think it's the last word.

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RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? - 7/29/2007 10:21:47 AM   
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Gent, the problem with asking that is, as luci pointed out, it opens up that person to ridicule, for their faith. And many consider such information to be personal, anyway.
 


A person with anything remotely like a believable case would come forward with it regardless of privacy. After all, people desperately want to prove the existence of a god in order to make their submission tangible, as per the amount of energy expended in arguing the case.

I think there's a very good reason for people to subscribe to this divine, guiding force. 'Just that I think it's nothing to do with the existence of a god.

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After praying, I went over to my laptop, and the very first website I came to was that of a Dr. Richard Bernstein.



The above seems to be the meat of a prayer being answered. You're entitled to your explanation, of course, Level, but there are many explanations for finding that website and the least rational one is that a god provided guidance.

Regardless, god is an interesting concept because it helps to explain much of human behaviour.

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RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? - 7/29/2007 10:29:43 AM   
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If this is now moving onto does god exist or are any of the religions relevant can someone explain to me the following. If god created us in his own image was he just practicing what he looked like when he first created the dinosaurs? He wasn’t sure maybe if he had a long neck and tail or if he was capable of flight?

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RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? - 7/29/2007 10:31:55 AM   
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Gent, the problem with asking that is, as luci pointed out, it opens up that person to ridicule, for their faith. And many consider such information to be personal, anyway.
 


A person with anything remotely like a believable case would come forward with it regardless of privacy. After all, people desperately want to prove the existence of a god in order to make their submission tangible, as per the amount of energy expended in arguing the case.

I think there's a very good reason for people to subscribe to this divine, guiding force. 'Just that I think it's nothing to do with the existence of a god.

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After praying, I went over to my laptop, and the very first website I came to was that of a Dr. Richard Bernstein.



The above seems to be the meat of a prayer being answered. You're entitled to your explanation, of course, Level, but there are many explanations for finding that website and the least rational one is that a god provided guidance.

Regardless, god is an interesting concept because it helps to explain much of human behaviour.


I know that it does not come across as rational; being someone that places a high value on reason, that's an issue I deal with on a regular basis. Not an easy thing.

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RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? - 7/29/2007 10:33:54 AM   
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If this is now moving onto does god exist or are any of the religions relevant can someone explain to me the following. If god created us in his own image was he just practicing what he looked like when he first created the dinosaurs? He wasn’t sure maybe if he had a long neck and tail or if he was capable of flight?


You probably already realize that not every Christian disagrees with evolution, and that not all of us are literalists.

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