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Sinergy -> RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? (7/29/2007 10:43:15 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Level

If John Doe (whom you've never met, nor done anything to) walks up to you, pulls out a gun, and shoots you in the head, how can you argue that it's anything other than wrong? Thus making it right, to not do so.


What about killing a person who is suicidal?

Did the guy a favor, unwittingly, but still did the guy a favor.

Sinergy




Lordandmaster -> RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? (7/29/2007 11:44:09 PM)

That is, except when he's giving us tuberculosis and earthquakes and muscular dystrophy and maybe a pleasant birth defect or two...

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ORIGINAL: NControlofU

It doesn't hurt!  I'll take as many prayers as people want to offer me, thank you.  But I also never forget that God doesn't give us what we think we want.  He gives us what He knows we need.




mons -> RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? (7/30/2007 3:27:22 AM)

Micheal greetings

i know pray works so much. i am a breast cancer survivor, the night before i was to have my operation to see how much Cancer i had i cried and i told god i never asked for anything for me i always asked for my family, never did i ask for me, when i touch my breast i felt a pain so hard it scare me. well i went to surgery that next day when i woke up the doctor told me that they were shocked my tumor was big and from the films of the mammogram they thought they were to take so much more,. i have my breast still and they did not take muscles or anythings more then they needed, i have so many times Micheal that god has saved me and my family. but the shocking thing is even if one of us passes i know i will see them in heaven oh i will have pain but i know i will see them again. so Micheal he is real and pray works and i love god and always will be in his light , oh yes i am a domme but i am still a Christan

take care and be well Micheal

Mons




aSlavesLife -> RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? (7/30/2007 6:08:05 AM)

Lets say that you have just bought a radio. The first thing you learn about it is that it only works right some of the time. Often times it sits mute no matter what buttons, knobs, or dials you fiddle with. And even when it is working, it jumps stations on occasion, tuning to stations you dislike and staying there.
 
Are you going to give a glowing recommendation for this radio? Are you going to encourage your friends to rush out and buy one? Are you going to claim that the radio is working the way the manufacturer intended and get offended when people tell you what a crappy radio you have?
 
Probably not. It would not be reasonable to offer us such excuses for this radio. But this is exactly the sort of irrational defense we are hearing about prayer. People that are obviously otherwise sane and rational abandon common sense and toss logic out the window without a seconds hesitation in defense of prayer.
 
We hear things like " My son had pneumonia, and prayer cured him. ". But is this all there is to the story? Did he receive medical care? If so, how can you attribute the recovery to prayer? How can you possibly claim to be rational with your conclusion that prayer, not medicine, cured your son? If your faith is so solid, why bother seeking medical attention in the first place?
 
Another defense is " Prayer works, but not always the way we want it to. ". How is this different from the malfunctioning radio? If something does not produce consistent results, we do not claim that it is working, or at least don't pretend that it is working correctly. If the outcome is inconsistent, it is no different from random chance, so why pretend to know that it is working when you have no evidence that the same outcome would not have occurred without prayer?
 
And then we are offered the perennial classics; " You are praying for the wrong things. " and " You aren't praying right. ".
 
But how many children have prayed for a parent to stop abusing them? Are the children not sincere? Perhaps it is selfish of them to ask that? Do they, despite the naive ability of absolute belief, not have the right way of praying down? Even pushing to one side the moral question of what sort of unholy monster would it take to ignore such a prayer, how is it that they are praying wrong or asking for the wrong things? Is it possible that these children, the very same children that believe unquestioningly in Santa and the Easter bunny, lack enough belief for their prayers to be answered?
 
Just for fun, lets apply the ' logic ' of this to the real world for a moment, just to see how reasonable and logical it really is.
 
A police officer is cruising by, and sees you being mugged. He stops the cruiser and gets out, but then leans against the cruiser while drumming his fingers impatiently on his gun belt. You see, he is waiting for you to request his assistance. And not only must you ask for his help before he intervenes, but you must ask it according to a formula that he has not bothered to explain to you. Eventually you manage through busted lips to construct a grovelling request for help. " Oh wise and powerful officer of the law, bringer of justice, enforcer of all things good and lawful,if it be thy holy will, rescue me from mine attacker. ". At that the officer extracts a quarter from his pocket, flips it, consults it, gives you an apologetic shrug, climbs into his car, and abandons you to the mercy of your attacker. Now according to the arguments, this is perfectly reasonable.
 
And you wonder why we give you puzzled looks when you insist that prayer works? And to make things clear, I am not attacking anyones faith. Rather, I am attacking the claims that prayer works. Believe whatever you want, but if you are going to make claims about those beliefs, expect people that do not share those beliefs to question your line of reasoning.
 
Owner of slave L




JohnSteed1967 -> RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? (7/30/2007 6:17:31 AM)

Prayer and Belief in God

I could go on for pages how I felt that God had betrayed me after my divorce, how Why if the marriage vows said "What God has put together let no man put asunder"

However, when I got back home to sc I had a $133 dollars in my pocket, living in a house I knew they were trying to sell, had my car repossed, and the list goes on.

But I got a job the next day, and then 4 months later got a job I've been with for just over three years, I have money in the bank, a 401k and a driveable car. I believe God protected me through all that even if I didn't want to believe.

Sometimes God Loves us more than our stupidity!




michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? (7/30/2007 6:19:27 AM)

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ORIGINAL: mons

Michael greetings

i know pray works so much. i am a breast cancer survivor, the night before i was to have my operation to see how much Cancer i had i cried and i told god i never asked for anything for me i always asked for my family, never did i ask for me, when i touch my breast i felt a pain so hard it scare me. well i went to surgery that next day when i woke up the doctor told me that they were shocked my tumor was big and from the films of the mammogram they thought they were to take so much more,. i have my breast still and they did not take muscles or anythings more then they needed, i have so many times Michael that god has saved me and my family. but the shocking thing is even if one of us passes i know i will see them in heaven oh i will have pain but i know i will see them again. so Michael he is real and pray works and i love god and always will be in his light , oh yes i am a domme but i am still a Christan

take care and be well Michael

Mons


i took the liberty of correcting the spelling in my name in your post as this is a major pet peeve of mine. michael is my name...micheal is not.

sorry to be so bold on this as the misspeeling of my name upsets me to no end. i know it probably was a minor typo, but i'm still affected by it.




aSlavesLife -> RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? (7/30/2007 6:30:37 AM)

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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia



i took the liberty of correcting the spelling in my name in your post as this is a major pet peeve of mine. michael is my name...micheal is not.

sorry to be so bold on this as the misspeeling of my name upsets me to no end. i know it probably was a minor typo, but i'm still affected by it.



michael, rest assured that mons did not do that intentionally. She is a very sweet, wonderful person that happens to be dyslexic. She would never misspell your name on purpose.

Owner




camille65 -> RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? (7/30/2007 6:51:24 AM)

Does it work? If you're asking does prayer make things come true well IMO no, it doesn't.
What it means to me is energy. Praying or concentrating your energy on an area that needs helped or fixed can make the difference between change and non-change.
Simply having the outlook of 'things WILL get better' usually leads me to see that yuppers, indeedy things are better or at least they could be much worse! 'Act as if, and it will become a part of you'. Envision the change, which for some comes in the form of prayer.

I used to be offended when someone would tell me that 'I'm in their prayers' (sometimes I still do) because I am not a christian nor do I believe in that god. I saw it as arrogance of organized religion. That if only a good christian prays for me then my life would be peachy keen happy, sort of along the lines of I can only be okay if I'm 'saved'.
So it is complicated in my head lol. I try to only take their intent of good wishes.
What I finally realised is that the intent & the energy are the same thing that I do, they just use different words and direction. If someone holds me in their prayers I see it as them holding positive thoughts for me.

That is what I do for others. I don't pray to god for them, I hold tightly onto good energy and thoughts with their name on it.

I've not read any of the replies on this thread, just wanted to toss in how I feel.




MissSCD -> RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? (7/30/2007 7:02:58 AM)

The forums are crazy again.  Do we not have anything to talk about?
Of course payer works.  Unfortunately, you cannot openly talk about it here because you will be thrashed.
My hearing has come back from being 70 percent gone after a viral infection two yeaws ago.  My Pastor prayed every Sunday for two years helping me get well.  Now, I can hear without aides. I prefer to have one in. I am working again and happier than ever before.  I cannot do what I did before I got sick because of the stress involved.  I am happy doing what I do now, and please michael attend your local church of choice this Sunday.  You will be surpirsed.

Regards, MissSCD




NorthernGent -> RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? (7/30/2007 7:05:32 AM)

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ORIGINAL: slaveluci

Debating it is not going to change either of our minds because I'm never going to convince you that God exists and you'll never convince me that He doesn't.  Respectfully............luci 



My interpretation of a debate is not akin to convincing the other person I am right, or the other person convincing me he/she is right. There's such a thing as sharing a few ideas and taking them or leaving them. There's no obligation to change stance.

Ultimately, your idea is based on more shakey foundations than mine because you are asking me to believe that an abstract notion is, in actual fact, a universal truth. This is dictated by your personal interpretation of the world, moreover, and it's not a leap of faith to suggest your personal experiences.




camille65 -> RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? (7/30/2007 7:21:18 AM)

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ORIGINAL: slaveluci

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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent
we both know that there are people who will have the discussion with you without it degenerating into a farce (people on this thread)

A few, of course.  But a public forum full of mockery and hatred toward what I believe is not the place to have such a discussion.  I already have such discourse with several of the ones who are open to someone else's way of thinking in PM's.  It's not something I'm ever going to throw out for the scoffers to make fun of, here or anywhere else. 
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 From where I'm standing, there is nothing tangible to support the case for a god

I know.  Which is one of the very reasons I wouldn't share such stories with you.  I don't think you are open to changing your mind so why discuss with you something you think is untrue and illegitimate?  That would be a true waste of both our time.  I respect that as I respect your right to doubt what I believe in. 
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it will always come back to "I have my faith, that's good enough for me"

Yes it will.  I don't see anyone but Christians being asked to "defend" their beliefs here.  Heaven help someone who posts something considered anti-Muslim or anti-Semitic or anti-pagan.  But whole threads are started for the express purpose of ridiculing "loony," "bugfuck" Christians.  I don't have to defend my faith and neither does anyone else.  No more than you have to defend your beliefs.  My faith is "good enough for me."  If I have to prove something scientifically before I believe, that's not faith at all.  And besides....it can't be proven that there's a God.  You prove to me that there isn't One[;)].
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In my book, faith does not equate to being believable

I find that very sad but you are, of course, free to doubt forevermore.
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Feel free to do as you please. There's a point of view on the table. Take it or leave it

And I would say the same to you, sir.  We are both free to do as we please.  But I somehow (and other Christians) end up having to defend what I do and, often, getting clumped in with the "bugfuck," "loony" Christian right.  The scoffers don't.  There is more than "a point of view on the table."  I'll take mine and you take yours and let the other feel all warm and fuzzy with what they believe (or doubt).  Debating it is not going to change either of our minds because I'm never going to convince you that God exists and you'll never convince me that He doesn't.  Respectfully............luci 


Sorry for the lengthy quote!
luci, no where in this thread have I seen the words 'bugfuck' or 'looney'. In fact so far all I have seen are diverging views. I don't know how else to say this but you are so hyper defensive that you invite what you see as being lumped in with the bugfuck etc.
I like your posts and you seem like a pretty good person but... not every person who is not a christian is against you. Maybe against your religion, but not you. Unfortunately I have seen you overreact a lot of times when the word god is used in the forums.

There IS a fundamental christian right movement but I have not seen anyone here say that you are a part of that, yet you defend yourself as if they are.
Maybe if you stopped trying to defend against something only you see will make a difference? Don't assume that someone not liking the far christian right is saying that they don't like you?

Sigh. I don't feel like I am explaining this well at all. If you are upset at my words then I utterly failed with my point lol.




kittinSol -> RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? (7/30/2007 7:36:55 AM)

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ORIGINAL: camille65

Maybe if you stopped trying to defend against something only you see will make a difference? Don't assume that someone not liking the far christian right is saying that they don't like you?

Sigh. I don't feel like I am explaining this well at all. If you are upset at my words then I utterly failed with my point lol.


Quite the contrary, camille, you expressed it perfectly. There is some confusion going on in some people's minds whereby they think that criticism of the Xstian far right is aimed at them. I concur with you.




MissSCD -> RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? (7/30/2007 7:41:01 AM)

Awesome quote Northen gent!

Regards, MissSCD




MissSCD -> RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? (7/30/2007 7:42:08 AM)

I have to wonder michael, did you post this thread because you want to know about the Lord?
It seems to me you do.  Maybe it is time for you to try it out.  It is not all bad.

Regards,

MissSCD




camille65 -> RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? (7/30/2007 7:51:24 AM)

Thankies kittinSol.
(I quite adore you btw)




QuietlySeeking -> RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? (7/30/2007 8:10:12 AM)

I went through a "Crisis of the Faith" that lasted for almost 15 years and was a practicing pagan during those years.  Just remember to re-examine those beliefs for yourself..don't rely on your priests, your parents or anyone else....read the Bible, listen to your heart...you'll find your own way.




QuietlySeeking -> RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? (7/30/2007 8:15:32 AM)

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ORIGINAL: aSlavesLife

Lets say that you have just bought a radio. The first thing you learn about it is that it only works right some of the time. Often times it sits mute no matter what buttons, knobs, or dials you fiddle with. And even when it is working, it jumps stations on occasion, tuning to stations you dislike and staying there.
 
Are you going to give a glowing recommendation for this radio? Are you going to encourage your friends to rush out and buy one? Are you going to claim that the radio is working the way the manufacturer intended and get offended when people tell you what a crappy radio you have?
 
Probably not. It would not be reasonable to offer us such excuses for this radio. But this is exactly the sort of irrational defense we are hearing about prayer. People that are obviously otherwise sane and rational abandon common sense and toss logic out the window without a seconds hesitation in defense of prayer.
 
 <snip>
Owner of slave L


Let me give you a different example.  You have a UM.  That UM requests a firearm, but you know that the UM is not mature enough to have it.  Would you, as a loving, caring parent, provide that UM with the firearm?  Of course not.

If you accept that God is inifinitely more intelligent/loving/mature than a human being,  then "not" answering prayers can be logically explained.  If the consequences of answering that prayer will bring greater harm than good, then it is a simple decision, wouldn't you agree?




aSlavesLife -> RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? (7/30/2007 8:47:38 AM)

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ORIGINAL: QuietlySeeking


Let me give you a different example.  You have a UM.  That UM requests a firearm, but you know that the UM is not mature enough to have it.  Would you, as a loving, caring parent, provide that UM with the firearm?  Of course not.



And what on earth does this have to do with the effectiveness of prayer? Is it dangerous to ask for good health? Is it dangerous to ask for a job in order to feed your family? And how do you get a loving, caring parent out of any of this? If we are talking the Judeo/Christian god, we are talking about a being that says " Obey me or suffer torture for all eternity! ". Not exactly what one thinks of when talking about loving, caring parents.


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ORIGINAL: QuietlySeeking
If you accept that God is infinitely more intelligent/loving/mature than a human being,  then "not" answering prayers can be logically explained. 


Bad assumption. I have seen no evidence for any god or goddess, let alone one matching the description you have given.

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ORIGINAL: QuietlySeeking

If the consequences of answering that prayer will bring greater harm than good, then it is a simple decision, wouldn't you agree?


Are you honestly saying that stopping a child from being injured would do more harm than good? It seems that you are making a lot of assumptions here, with little or no foundation for them. You assume a god, you assume various virtues and abilities for the assumed god, you assume some mind reading mechanism for hearing prayers, you assume the ability to judge right from wrong in an assumed deity that supposedly is incapable of doing wrong, which by the way is a serious contradiction, and then go on to assume that children that don't get their prayers answered are somehow better off this way.

Anyone that allows harm to come to a child is by my definition evil. If someone that has the ability to prevent it deliberately allows it, they are not only evil, but monstrously so in my opinion. And trying to defend a monster of that caliber strikes me as tantamount to trying to defend Hitler.

Owner of slave L




jadedmiracle -> RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? (7/30/2007 9:02:02 AM)

prayer does work........pray my mother my confidence (guaranteed)




aSlavesLife -> RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? (7/30/2007 9:22:38 AM)

By the way micheal, have you tried praying to Cthulhu? Since you are asking questions, I have to wonder if you are honestly seeking to fill that void in your heart that only Cthulhu can fill. You might think about attending one of our sacrifice/barbecues. You will find the coven friendly, helpful, and willing to answer any of your questions concerning the Great Old One, and how your life would be greatly enriched by embracing Him. And the alternative to embracing Cthulhu is being fed to a Shoggoth, and you don't want that to happen, now do you?

Oh Great Cthulhu, please improve the spelling of those whom would debate in favor of prayer working. Should You in Your infinite, world consuming wisdom see fit to not grant this prayer of me, Your humble servant, then please teach them to use spell check.

Owner of slave L




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