sub4hire
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ORIGINAL: BIllCT How many have actually been in a BDSM or D/s Relationship in real life and understand that it is not all about the play, or sex, it is all about the actual relationship and making it last?. How many realize the all that is included in a vanilla relationship also applies to a BDSM or D/s Relationship in full with the additional responsibilities of the kinks, needs,desires, wants, of said relationship? Well, hopefully everyone who has been in any lenghty successful relationship understands that. Sure, some people don't understand and never will. They will just have a high divorce rate. I have had two lifestyle relationships so far. First one was ten year's. I'm still working on my second one...we are working on the 9th year. So, think I'd have to say yes to both of those questions.
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