RE: Doms are people, too. Wise up already subs. (Full Version)

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Rover -> RE: Doms are people, too. Wise up already subs. (8/1/2007 10:39:49 AM)

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ORIGINAL: happypervert

Doms would be far happier if subs said they just want to suck cock and fetch beers while the dom watches football; 


Whaddaya say we grab a six-pack of submissives and you come over to watch all the games on satellite?
 
John




ThunderRoad -> RE: Doms are people, too. Wise up already subs. (8/1/2007 11:23:40 AM)

As much as I love the talk about football and beer and blowjobs, I much echo LA's original position.  Ultimately, everyone, Dom or sub, is responsible for their own frackin' lot in life.  Anyone who comes to collarme or any other forum, online or real life, and put forth a persona full of lies and half-truths, had better not be surprised when things don't work out the way they imagined.

Why is it so damn hard for people to just be honest about shit?  I've known so many subs who come carrying a while crate of baggage, from debt to intense drama to even one who never disclosed she had a 7 year old daughter (but eagerly "offered" her to me when I balked at moving ahead because of the deceit).  Jeebus, just be honest!






LATEXBABY64 -> RE: Dom's are people, too. Wise up already subs. (8/1/2007 12:30:57 PM)

you know one thing that i always see is everyone redefining the labels.. As people or humans beings  we need those labels in order to identify some kinda of order or structure for balance. so while we agree that Dom's Dommes are people to I saw one term that said it best responsibility for your self.. I saw another post and it talked about being honest everyone lies yes everyone.. so i guess its about a persons character that our have to decide. wither its a abusive person or someone with passive aggressive disorder. or what other mental illness they come up with to excuse away why they are that way. It is one the reasons i love the military it structures and organizes. you always come out a better person..so take a little pride in your self and in who you are take responsibility for the person you are and the choices you make... after all its no ones life but yours.  




chey -> RE: Dom's are people, too. Wise up already subs. (8/1/2007 12:35:20 PM)

LOL...um...John that is not in the works for this months discussion group is it? I might have to be busy that evening!




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