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ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne

Sorry to state the obvious, but Dominas love power and often will fight for the position of alpha female in the pack.  Cruising other women's subs makes them feel very superior.  Afterall, if the other Mistress was worth her salt, she would be able to "keep her dog on the porch".

I have found that when you get a smart, handsome sub, unless he is an absolute newbie, he will have other Domme "friends" hanging around sending email, on MSN, texting etc. 

It is really important to assert yourself as the alpha female and direct your sub that he must tell the other women they need your permission to speak to him.  That tends to make these other women throw a tantrum and disappear in a huff, which is what you want :)

If your sub has a problem asking his female Domme friends to respect your wishes, you will have problems with your sub.

Face power struggles like this head on.  Its not jealousy or insecurity, it is exercising proper authority over your domain

But in answer to the OP, you cannot expect other Dominants to automatically show you respect.  You haven't done anything to earn it.  Slapping down unwanted attempts to top you (by cruising your sub) will earn that respect. 

The only person you can dominate in the whole world is your own sub - nip the problem in the bud starting with him.

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ORIGINAL: Ericus1

Just a quick observation:  as a male sub i gotalot more emails from Dommes when my profile said i was collared.  I am not sure why that happened.  But i always thought it was disrespectful to my Mistress and always directed the other domme to contact my Mistress.

ericus