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naked men & profiles - 8/2/2007 6:22:38 AM   
MissIsis


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For me, when I see a photo of someone who is obviously sitting in front of their webcam, with no clothes on their torso, & seemingly naked, I find it an incredible turn-off.  Of course,  not speaking for everyone here, but quite a few women, other than me, don't care much for the naked photos of men, or their cock pics, but are there many other women that find the naked top pics of men unappealing.  For me, it doesn't matter if they are good looking, or not.  When I see those pics, I always picture the man jerking off in front of his computer.  I don't give those photo's or the men behind them another thought. 

I realize men are visual creatures & enjoy that kind of thing.  But how many women actually enjoy seeing that on their first look at a man.  I have seen these pics on both male dominants & male submissives.  Do dominant men really think they are causing us females to swoon? Do submissive men, really think they will win a woman's heart that way as well?

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RE: naked men & profiles - 8/2/2007 6:32:15 AM   
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Nope, can't stand it, you won't get to first base let alone home plate----not the first pic nor even anytime in the relationship--nope, naked pics at the computer---ewwwwww

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RE: naked men & profiles - 8/2/2007 11:17:16 AM   
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When I see those pics, I always picture the man jerking off in front of his computer.



This appears to be your own misconception that being naked has to relate to some sexual act or other. I’m not obsessed with sexual acts and when I see a naked person I don’t picture them doing anything. Some people such as naturists just like being liberated from clothes. I think these people are brave and I would love to be half as confident as them.

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RE: naked men & profiles - 8/2/2007 11:19:56 AM   
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Furthermore why the sexist distinction between naked men and naked women? Naked men are doing something under the desk while women are doing it for artistic reasons?

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RE: naked men & profiles - 8/2/2007 11:34:24 AM   
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quote:

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ORIGINAL: MissIsis

When I see those pics, I always picture the man jerking off in front of his computer.



This appears to be your own misconception that being naked has to relate to some sexual act or other. I’m not obsessed with sexual acts and when I see a naked person I don’t picture them doing anything. Some people such as naturists just like being liberated from clothes. I think these people are brave and I would love to be half as confident as them.


A good point.

I wonder, how many are naturalists versus horny?  You do make a good point, too, about how men seem to get the "horny" side of this prejustice, while women tend to have it the other way around.

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RE: naked men & profiles - 8/2/2007 11:35:57 AM   
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so, let's not go into how disgusting i look; but, objectively is this pic

http://s5.photobucket.com/albums/y151/DarchChylde/?action=view&current=onMaamsfloorlookingforwardcropped2.jpg

really any less of a turn off than this one?

http://s5.photobucket.com/albums/y151/DarchChylde/?action=view&current=onMaamsfloorlookingforwardcropped.jpg


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RE: naked men & profiles - 8/2/2007 11:36:38 AM   
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If you're atlking about men alone I think you really need to say something like, I hate photos of men wearing no shirts at their computers. I mean really. How in the world do you know these guys are naked? Can you see they're naked other than their chests? 

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RE: naked men & profiles - 8/2/2007 11:55:40 AM   
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Oh my, I didn't mean to ruffle so many feathers.  I apologize.  I thought I was being careful as to what I said, was my opinion.  I said, "I picture them...."  Not that everyone would picture them as I do.  I suppose I should have stopped it with, "I find it an incredible turn-off."  They might be perfectly clothed underneath.  I don't know.   All I know, is that for me, when I see someone who looks like he might be naked underneath, regardless of whether he is or not, that is the thought & visual that comes to my mind.   In my apparently narrow mind, I equate those pictures in much the same way as I equate cock pics. 

I never meant to offend anyone. I know I was only speaking of the men, & didn't mean to exclude women. I only meant to say,  I find both equally unappealing if my first glimpse of someone, is seeing them in a way that appears to me, as if they are naked. Is that better?   Once I get to know them much, much better, I am much more appreciative of the naked pics, or the ones that are seemingly so.

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RE: naked men & profiles - 8/2/2007 12:01:09 PM   
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Regardless of my sexuality I enjoy seeing a nude male torso (only) and that is only IF they obviously take their physical fitness and weights seriously. Nothing more icky to me than a poochy belly with no muscle definition. I want to see six pack abs, biceps and triceps and whatever the hell those other spiffy back and chest muscles are called.

If you don't have them to flex, keep em covered.

That is the artist in me.

Now for neked women!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! line em up! (just no twat shots please)

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RE: naked men & profiles - 8/2/2007 12:14:04 PM   
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Men just look ridiculous when naked anyways.  This is not my opinion as a man, it's the shared opinion of myself and the five female friends I have.  With pants or shorts on, sure, then they can look good.  But not totally stripped.

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RE: naked men & profiles - 8/2/2007 12:28:14 PM   
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Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh I certainly do NOT want to see what is actually IN their shorts!!!! good grief no...........but that is just me, a wee bit biased.

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RE: naked men & profiles - 8/2/2007 12:29:40 PM   
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Men just look ridiculous when naked anyways.  This is not my opinion as a man, it's the shared opinion of myself and the five female friends I have.  With pants or shorts on, sure, then they can look good.  But not totally stripped.


i totally agree, what, with that "thing" hanging down and whatnot...LOL


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RE: naked men & profiles - 8/2/2007 12:57:52 PM   
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WOW. Am I one of the few women out there that LOVES the male body in it's nude form?! I will definitely agree that the body I'm looking at better be in good shape, no matter what age. But to think that men that partially nude MAY BE jerking off is a little close minded....Do you actually think that the men that ARE fully clothed in their pics ARE NOT jerking off??? I'd rather have a nude man (in good shape of course) that is not trying to hide the fact he's a sexual creature, than pics of an over-weight man trying to make the ladies believe he isn't sitting there spankin' it. Now, which one gives you the worse visual?? The one who is upfront about it, or the one that tries to hide it?

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RE: naked men & profiles - 8/2/2007 1:16:05 PM   
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Furthermore why the sexist distinction between naked men and naked women? Naked men are doing something under the desk while women are doing it for artistic reasons?


Well, I do it because it totally turns me on to take them... and It definitly turns me on to see a totally naked (fit) man with a hard on....

But, then again, I was trained to be a slut, so...

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RE: naked men & profiles - 8/2/2007 1:44:43 PM   
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I like bodies, period. We're all naked under our clothes, afer all, no matter what shape we're in or what organs (or orifices) we have.

I love men's bodies. I love women's bodies. I don't particularly care to be accosted by penises and vaginas in my mailbox (I like a little warning) but it isn't a source of great strife for me either.

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RE: naked men & profiles - 8/2/2007 1:45:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MissIsis

In my apparently narrow mind, I equate those pictures in much the same way as I equate cock pics. 



You've said that already.

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ORIGINAL: MissIsis

I never meant to offend anyone. I know I was only speaking of the men, & didn't mean to exclude women. I only meant to say,  I find both equally unappealing if my first glimpse of someone, is seeing them in a way that appears to me, as if they are naked. Is that better? 



If you didn’t want to appear to be singling out men then you named this topic wrongly in my opinion.

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RE: naked men & profiles - 8/2/2007 2:07:42 PM   
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i just added a pic to my profile last week and it's of my body standing up, shirt open (a torso shot with shirt buttoned up seems kind of stupid, IMO) and pants on!  i don't care to put my face on here, due to working for a large company. but, if i'm interested in somebody, i'd send them a face photo. so, without showing a face, i felt that i should show something about me and leave the rest up to your imagination at this point. i understand how the OP finds a naked torso sitting down in front of the webcam offensive, i was hoping to avoid that vibe. now, i'd like your opinion  to see if you find my profile pic disgusting? 

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RE: naked men & profiles - 8/2/2007 2:12:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: FullCircle

You've said that already.

quote:

ORIGINAL: MissIsis

I never meant to offend anyone. I know I was only speaking of the men, & didn't mean to exclude women. I only meant to say,  I find both equally unappealing if my first glimpse of someone, is seeing them in a way that appears to me, as if they are naked. Is that better? 



If you didn’t want to appear to be singling out men then you named this topic wrongly in my opinion.


Why?   Quite frankly, it is the pictures of men that look like they are naked that I was speaking of.  This was my opinion only.  Take what you want from my post, leave the rest.  I don't understand the over sensitivity I see on the boards sometimes.  If I have offended you in some way, it was never my intention & I apologize.  Actually, I quite like your picture.  It is pretty & tasteful. 

I really don't see this to be much of an issue with the women.   I can't remember seeing any women on this site that look like they are sitting naked on top in front of their webcams.  If I did, I am sure I would pass their profiles by as well. 

I would think some of these guys that are whining about how they can't find any women on here, would want to find out why they aren't getting responses to their ads. 

Honestly, I love men.  I don't think any woman can ever have enough of them.



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RE: naked men & profiles - 8/2/2007 2:20:05 PM   
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For what it is worth, I think your profile pic is quite nice, actually.  You look bathed, & there is just enough of your shirt on to make you look quite sexy.  You exude sexuality without coming across as trashy.  Your photo looks like you took the time to make it appealing.

I understand anonymity, especially, nowadays, when employers are including searching profiles as part of background checks of the people they want to hire, or maybe even to fire. 





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RE: naked men & profiles - 8/2/2007 2:21:44 PM   
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so, let's not go into how disgusting i look; but, objectively is this pic

http://s5.photobucket.com/albums/y151/DarchChylde/?action=view&current=onMaamsfloorlookingforwardcropped2.jpg

really any less of a turn off than this one?

http://s5.photobucket.com/albums/y151/DarchChylde/?action=view&current=onMaamsfloorlookingforwardcropped.jpg



I don't think you could be unsexy if you tried, in my honest humble opinion.

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