slaverosebeauty
Posts: 1941
Joined: 12/12/2004 From: Cali Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: MissIsis Do dominant men really think they are causing us females to swoon? Do submissive men, really think they will win a woman's heart that way as well? I will 'swoon' in the opposite direction. I prefer a to see a picture of a man in a setting where he is comfy and at ease, if he likes being naked, great, all the more power to him, yet, lets be honest, thats a HORRIBLE first impression. If I want to see porn I will search it out. Its cheap. If you are cheap, then more power to you. MJ's [former] main pic, caught my attention, He was very relaxed and comfy, now, I have seen Him in similar situations and nothing has really changed, just how I feel and what I see in Him. As for judging a book by its cover, be honest, EVERYONE does, if you say you don't, then you are lieing to yourself. Do I, yes. I have NOT added people to friends lists on various sites because of their picture that they have up, smoking, drinking, middle finger up, etc. I have my own 'criteria' as to what I consider acceptable; its a first impression, and a lousy one at that for a decent number of people. Like darchylde, when I go to a book store, I look at the name on the spine, and the cover and read the back, to decide if I want to buy it or not. I have not read books becuase their covers were unappealing, then years later, found the same book with a different cover and read it, and enjoyed it. Why? Because the 'cover' had changed and it was appealing. First impressions are make or break for the most part. You rarely get to make a second first impression, so make the best FIRST impression you can. I am not shallow, when it comes to relationships, and friends, I base things on what is on the inside as well as outside; I see beyond the wrapper and the cover.
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