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MsSophie -> RE: To many Subs, not enough Doms (8/7/2007 2:17:01 AM)
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I think this may be a time in your life when you need to sit down and redefine your needs and wants. Make a list, for yourself, of what you are looking for and try to determine if anyone could possibly match those wants. Have you taken into consideration that this person has needs and wants of their own? You may not be able to find all that you want in one person, so define which is the most important!
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ORIGINAL: smoothcoco
I appreciate all the comments, positive and negative. I think some of you clearly either misinterpreted what I said or just made simple assumptions. I have been a sub for 16 years, so if you got the impression that I am a newbie then I am sorry, but I am not. I am WELL AWARE of what it means to be a sub, and I dont mean to sound arrogant at all but there really isn't anyone who can tell me about what it means to live the lifestyle.
Fair enough! I won't tell You what it means to live Your lifestyle, but kindly don't tell Me that Mine is not for real. You certainly dish it out, but you don't seem to be willing to read, and really take in, what people respond with. And, frankly, you do sound increadibly arrogant - in My humble point of view, of course.
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ORIGINAL: smoothcoco
I am here to serve, my feelings and satisfaction is irrelavent, but there are a number of FAKE FEM DOMS who are trying to hijack this culture and that is the truth.
Well, that's a bloody stupid thing to say! Obviously your own feelings are very relevant to You, just as they should be. But, along the same lines, please accept that other people have different views on things.
If you're here to serve, and your own feelings and satisfaction is irrelevant, why have you got such a bee in your bonnet about what other people want in terms of service? If they don't fit your mold, then just move on to the next one and stop whining about it!
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ORIGINAL: smoothcoco
Some of you assumed that I haven't been getting the responses I expect because of how I phrased my profile. On the contrary, I get a fair bit of responses, my question IS people if people are haven't the same experiences in their city as I am in mine... where their are clearly alot more subs than doms.
Oh, yes! I have heard people from almost every other corner of the world whine about the same thing. Problem is, it still doesn't change the fact that there are 50 preditory male subs on every to every dominant female.
I have had the same ad here for over a year now. In this ad I am very explicit about what I'm looking for. Do you know how many responses I have had? Thousands... Do you know how many of those actually seem to have read the ad and profile, and respond to what it is I search? Less than ten...
It's all "I want to lick your feet and then you may sit on my face and force me to lick you out for as long as I want"
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ORIGINAL: smoothcoco
Lastly, the comments about me wanting sexual domination were.... well lets just say they didn't make much sense. The lifestyle IS ABOUT SEXUAL DOMINATION!!!! Now, how one(a Dom) performs such sexual domination will vary and is strickly up to her(that could entail just spankings, humiliation, or whatever), but FAKE FEM DOMS are the ones who have tried to redefine the culture and make it about someone merely doing your household chores, or paying her bills, or trying to get a slave/sub to boost her own ego and justify her existance in the world.
This, of course, should read "MY lifestyle IS ABOUT SEXUAL DOMINATION!!!!", not THE lifestyle.
And once again you are the one hi-jacking, and redefining. This isn't all about sexual domination. That is just one aspect of it all. All forms of domination may give you a "kick" sexually, but it's not all about face-sitting and strap-on play... Some people actually do get a kick out of paying their dommes bills, ironing and laundry. Are you claiming these people are fake too?
Frankly, your post smells of "I want all the experience, toys, looks, services and charisma of a fetish-model/pro-domme but I don't want to pay for it".
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