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Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was a g... - 8/7/2007 5:21:44 AM

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Even if you are married and she is a widow

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/7/2007 5:24:35 AM

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you looking to get some pussy, or what?

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/7/2007 5:47:17 AM

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Something about a woman calling me, and telling me she wants to cheat on her husband...when I've just buried a wife I loved... doesn't strike me as hot.

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/7/2007 5:59:41 AM

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I don't know, dress the bitch up like elvira---

It rather soars in my imagination.

Of course, I try to pick up chicks right at the funeral...they don't usually see that coming.

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/7/2007 6:09:55 AM

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I prefer till after the funeral. Then I get to 'ghoul' all over her, alone!

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/7/2007 7:33:41 AM

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husband has been dead for 6 years

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/7/2007 9:52:12 AM

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What are you seeking if you contact her? What would the consequences be to your marriage if your wife found out, or is it an open marriage? These are things you need to think about...do you think she wants you to contact her?

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/7/2007 11:11:44 AM

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Uhmmmmmm, I suggest you ask your wife this particular question. I guarantee you will get some really informative advice from her.

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/7/2007 11:15:44 AM

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I take it it would be some one on this site that I knew but did not know of their kink. Yes I would it would add to the humiliation of being a slave and since i knew them already I would hope safety would not be an issue.

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/7/2007 12:19:49 PM

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i dont know what i want but it feels like my marrage is on the rocks and al i am is a good paycheck and someone tht is doing constant chores around here

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/7/2007 12:43:43 PM

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Again I say...........TALK TO YOUR WIFE!! NOT US!

And for crying out loud, don't bring another woman into that!

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/7/2007 12:44:10 PM

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If you listen to anyone’s advice based on the little amount of information you have given to them here you may as well toss a coin. The only advice I can offer is to make sure your marriage is over and that you won’t ever miss your wife because this kind of thing is beginning of the end in most cases. Maybe you’d like your wife to find out somehow so that when you look back on your break-up and divorce etc. you can say to yourself. “I was a victim of circumstances and it was always going to work out that way in the end.” Sometimes in life when we are too scared to leap it’s nice to be pushed. It’s nice if we can blame loads of other people for the choices we make instead of ourselves right? It’s your wife’s fault for working you like a donkey or it’s this other woman’s fault because she was there in your moment of weakness. Do what you want in life but don’t blame others for the results of your own actions. A marriage involves communication it seems you and your wife have lost this somehow. Maybe try to see her as you used to and remember what it was that first attracted you to her. The other woman is lonely she can offer something your wife can’t; a place to moan about your life. Maybe the attraction will wear off once your start a serious relationship with this other woman. This often happens and people end up floating from one relationship to the next looking for something to fill a void in their life they have created in the first place.

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/7/2007 2:18:50 PM

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I agree with the general direction of advice here.....before you even think about getting involved with someone else who will only complicate things, you need to figure out what the status of your marriage is. If, indeed, all you are is a paycheck and houseboy, then decide if that's the life you want.....and live with it. If it's not, then take the necessary steps to get out of the marriage. And staying together for the sake of the kids is all BS......been there, didn't do it, gave HIM the t-shirt! (Not knowing if you have any, that's just a general statement here.) Then, and here's a bit of unsolicited advice, learn to live alone, and enjoy your own company before you jump into something else. Having been the "rebound" relationship right after the divorce is final, I know of what I speak. They rarely last......she'd be the "something okay til something better came along". I have seen it happen more times than I can count.....and it sucks!

Good luck, I know it's a bitch of a decision to have to face, but doing it now will save pain in the future. Remember, you are not the only person who will be effected by this......and your wife would be an innocent victim, as would any kids you have.....think with the BIG head, NOT the little one!

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/7/2007 2:20:56 PM

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quote:

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husband has been dead for 6 years

oh the bitch is long overdue for a good poundin'.

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/7/2007 2:41:51 PM

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And like sooooooo many men out there in internet land, you keep your safe little life all around you, and the widow gives you that little sumthin-sumthin that will make your life complete.

Why do so many men think this is just a dandy arrangement for THEM?

If the marriage is a sham these days, take the hard knocks and get out of it, and THEN follow through on your crushes. It will make you seem more of a man, thus more appealing.

If you are talking about approaching the crush to see if it is a possibility so you can secure a safe place to go to before you get out of the unhappy marriage, well.......draw your own conclusion.

Also, if she's been a widow for six years, stop referring to her as "the widow". She's a woman.

< Message edited by windchymes -- 8/7/2007 2:45:55 PM >

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/7/2007 2:47:06 PM

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Wait one moment I forgot to add something from the magazine I copied my advice out of.

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/7/2007 3:06:32 PM

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innocent question here - thought you're looking to start a poly household ...now you're looking to start an affair? something about you doesn't jive too well.

like what the others have said - talk to your wife

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/7/2007 4:47:11 PM

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quote:

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Uhmmmmmm, I suggest you ask your wife this particular question. I guarantee you will get some really informative advice from her.

Agreed.

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/8/2007 6:15:44 AM

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Well i am not interested in a romp in the sack with her and yes she is a woman. At this point in my maarriage I dont know where things are or where things are going Life just changes day to day

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/8/2007 6:23:47 AM

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my hunch is you are not ready fo r this. put it back in your pants. believe my - for every biit as mondane as things may seem now- you will wish for it if the bomb goes off.

ild love to have a fling- but - never again will i light the fire that leads to hell for all!

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