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“Baby?” I asked her as she licked my dick and smeared her saliva over her face with my it, eyes closed almost in rapture. Eyes still closed she answered her Daddy. “Baby," I said, " I need to hurt your cunt now. You’ve been such a dirty little slut that you need to be punished now.” Her eyes opened – she looked up at me. Her eyes shone bright – bright with some fear, lust, the raw desire that comes when I touch the core of our sexuality.

That core is this: to make her suffer and have her accept that suffering with love and gratitude. Every couple in D/s and SM has their own symbology of suffering and power. For one couple it might be domestic violence – him punching her out. For another, it might be stylized torture: a rack, St Andrew’s Cross, flogging and singe tails. For us it is simple, brutal punishment of her sex. The core for us is for me to whip her cunt with my belt until she is in agony, incoherent, sobbing and shaking in pain and the emotional release that comes with her punishment. Her sex: the soft, vulnerable place that in vanilla couples is treated with gentle reverence is in our relationship the way I can hurt her that blasts open her doors and makes her open to intimacy. We do other things – the service love manifested in her toilet status is equally important, and I hurt her tits, strap her ass until it is so bruised and sore moving is agony for the next few days, but this is the core and heart of the matter:
Brutal cunt punishment.

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Where is your core in D/s and or SM?

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ORIGINAL: dechala

My core- everything you just described and more.

i will endure any kind of pain,any kind of suffering,any kind of humilation, i will do all of this lovingly,anything to see that look of pleasure on his face.Knowing i've pleased Him makes me intensely happy and that is my core.i'm a pleaser

i suppose my definition goes a bit beyond the "core" that you were referring to,but it is who i am,as simple as it is.i can't think of any other ways to express it

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ORIGINAL: Faramir

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ORIGINAL: dechala

My core- everything you just described and more.

i will endure any kind of pain,any kind of suffering,any kind of humilation, i will do all of this lovingly,anything to see that look of pleasure on his face.Knowing i've pleased Him makes me intensely happy and that is my core.i'm a pleaser

i suppose my definition goes a bit beyond the "core" that you were referring to,but it is who i am,as simple as it is.i can't think of any other ways to express it

I think that is clear - for you, the core dynamic for you is suffering as an act of devotion, without a particular symbology.

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Every couple in D/s and SM has their own symbology of suffering and power.

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That core is this: to make her suffer and have her accept that suffering with love and gratitude. Every couple in D/s and SM has their own symbology of suffering and power. For one couple it might be domestic violence – him punching her out

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ORIGINAL: Faramir

This is from something I wrote recently:

That core is this: to make her suffer and have her accept that suffering with love and gratitude. Every couple in D/s and SM has their own symbology of suffering and power......

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ORIGINAL: dark~angel

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Every couple in D/s and SM has their own symbology of suffering and power.

In what way do you believe that to be true? Not all D/s or SM relationships exist for suffering and power - I would say that was an incredible generalization.

Peace and Love

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ORIGINAL: dark~angel

Domestic violence is NOT D/s or SM or any form of BDSM - it IS abuse. Symbology? Fuck, I hope not.
Whilst I believe I understand this thread, including Domestic Violence as a 'symbol' is an obvious flaw.

Domestic Violence is simply unacceptable - and the only symbol is not of a BDSM relationship but an abusive one. Do you not understand the difference?

Peace and Love

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ORIGINAL: Faramir
Yea - real domestic violence is ugly. But lots of people have a kink that looks like it. A person slapping their partenr non-consensualy as abuse is ugly. Me slapping my little girl across the face in D/s is *hot*.

Anyone with sense can differentiate between the two - going on about it is self-righteously is pathetic.

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Yea - real domestic violence is ugly. But lots of people have a kink that looks like it. A person slapping their partenr non-consensualy as abuse is ugly. Me slapping my little girl across the face in D/s is *hot*.

Anyone with sense can differentiate between the two - going on about it is self-righteously is pathetic.

No, it isn't pathetic - defending terminology that could be mis interpreted, is 'pathetic' - what I did, was pedantic - same P, jut different word

As perverse stated, your terminology was muddy - of course slapping someone around the face when it's their kink isn't abuse, but Domestic Violence is. If you desire something to be taken seriously, like face slapping, or breast slapping or fisting or punching - then it is always wisest not enable another to twist your words. You cannot just take a usage of such a definitive word and try and make it into something it is not.

Peace and Love

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twist your words.
Peace and Love

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i used to care... but now i take a pill for that

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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Where is your core in D/s and or SM?

Between my ears.

- LA

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ORIGINAL: zaynab


on the bright side, your gyn can reconstruct you in a manner that will make you a virgin again each time he does it...... which is always an added bonus.

no offense to anyone on this website, really, but i really dont think anyone would accept "any type of pain for their dom" after they've bled enough times, layed on the couch in severe pain for days at a time bleeding from their vagina too many times to count, scared to death that THIS time you have serious internal damage, and watchig the gyn sadly shake his head while he's examing you and thinks your not looking......

oh lets not forget that when the vagina goes.... so does the rectum and bladder, but they can tack that back up as well.....

arrgghhhh!!!! *scowl ~ z

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ORIGINAL: kisshou

Where is your core in D/s and or SM?

being owned

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Where is your core in D/s and or SM?