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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 3:06:43 PM   
came4U


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but if my 'ONE" was like Rock Hudson and marilyn monroe, he would 1. like men just as much or more than I do, 2. have better shoes 3. die too young.

so, no thanks.  I like em tall n ugly.

oh oh, Bill is gonna give me a nervous breakdown with these questions.

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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 3:56:34 PM   
KiandPhoenix


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Status: offline 		I got it all! My lady is just over 5ft tall. She is 90-100lbs, and because of her occupation she is fairly strong for her size. She has long red hair, and over all I can't keep my hands off her. I have to keep even with the slightest touch here and there. She is absolutly and totally beautiful.

The flip side of that is that she is just as, if not more, beautiful inside, as outside. She is smart, intelligent, funny, giving, honest, careing, wonderful personality and so much more that I just can't put into words.

I am not superficial, and only go after exotic danceer types. My longest relationship was with a larger woman who I think is also beautiful. In fact the night I met Phoenix, I said I would never consider being with someone who treated me like she treated me (like a piece of meat for fucking), and that I would not even think of sleeping with her. She came after me, and I ended up a very lucky guy.

She has to have both looks and personality to think about dateing them. Looks to just sleep with them, and if you are perfect in personality, but have no looks with her then she wants to be friends.

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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 4:01:23 PM   
Jinger


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I'm a catch.

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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 4:19:37 PM   
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Why do people assume that if someone is really good looking then their personality is awful? 

Simple... insecurity about their own attractiveness which leads to envy which leads to denigrating the object of that envy to make themselves feel better.  Probably stomped on a lot of toes with that... tough and be glad I wasn't wearing my work boots when I did it.

Looks, personality, integrity, intelligence, etc.  Why choose or trade off any of it?  Simple truth of life is you can have anything you can go out and get for yourself.  Want it all, then go get it... all you gotta do is figure out how, and the only person stopping you is you.

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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 4:21:16 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Well personality is first for me.  I never even saw a pic of Master before we met.  I already liked him because of our long phone calls.  When i saw him i was like wow he is handsome too.  So i got the whole package.  I am a lucky woman.

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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 4:55:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Why do people assume that if someone is really good looking then their personality is awful?  My goal in searching was to find the best looking person I could snag who had the personality that I liked.  Why is there a need to choose either/or when there are many out there who have both qualities.


Exactly. One can be a babe and have a personality that rocks . Even better: one can be a babe, have a personality that rocks AND be stupendously spiritually enlightened. Even even better: one can be all those things and rule at going down.

PS: sluurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrp.


Yeah! What they said...that's what i am saying too!LOL!

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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 4:58:03 PM   
michaelOfGeorgia


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Status: offline 		unfortunately, such individuals are a unique rarity. alot of times, those that have the looks and the body, have an arrogance to go along with it. the "I'm all that" attitude usually pops up and spoils the whole package.

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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 5:06:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: came4U

oh oh, Bill is gonna give me a nervous breakdown with these questions.




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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 5:16:57 PM   
littlebitxxx


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Status: offline 		Looks "OR" personality?  Who says you can't have both?  Want it all and don't just settle.  After all, you're worth it....aren't you?

I wanted it all and the patience and perseverance drove me nuts, but I got it all...and in one man too ;)  

Love and light,
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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 5:28:42 PM   
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sage
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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

unfortunately, such individuals are a unique rarity. alot of times, those that have the looks and the body, have an arrogance to go along with it. the "I'm all that" attitude usually pops up and spoils the whole package.




Honestly, don't you just LOVE to 'break' them?  Destroy their arrogance, and turn them into the good little slutpuppets that they were meant to be?  :P



And, in response to the actual thread topic....silly people.  "Life will pay any price you ask".   And if you know who said it, bonus points!!! 

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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 5:31:31 PM   
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Honestly, don't you just LOVE to 'break' them? Destroy their arrogance, and turn them into the good little slutpuppets that they were meant to be? :P


nah, just tellin' it like it is.

"beauty without personality is like a sports car without an engine"


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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 7:40:57 PM   
Viridana


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Status: offline 		I need both. I need my spouse to have the personality that turns me on, but on the other hand if I find that person to be physically repulsive to me, no amount of personality can overcome that. 

That does, by no means, mean that I have a tight criteria for what I find physically attractive.

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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 9:51:19 PM   
slaverosebeauty


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Looks, brains, personality, etc. Why settle for one or two?? I want the combination plate please. Oh, thats right, it was in my backyard already.  

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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/10/2007 12:01:55 AM   
SDFemDom4cuck


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ORIGINAL: TallDominantMast
And, in response to the actual thread topic....silly people.  "Life will pay any price you ask".   And if you know who said it, bonus points!!! 


Peter Drucker  The Father of Modern Management. Author of several books including...

Concept of the Corporation, The Effective Executive, and Men, Ideas and Politics. Along with about 30 other books and many articles in the Harvard Business Review. He was also a regular columnist for the WSJ from the 70's through the 90's. His autobiography Adventures of a Bystander is a fascinating read.


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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/10/2007 3:40:02 AM   
MissOchistic


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Status: offline 		I need both.

Incredible looks but shit personality? I might hook up once, maybe even twice, if it's good. But there's no potential for a relationship.

Amazing personality but no sexual attraction? Then an amazing friendship :) And there's always room for growth, there. I have dated men* I did not find very physically attractive, but it always got to me. Then again, their personalities weren't that great either, lol.

I need to be attracted to them, but ultimately personality is the winner. I usually want to do a lot more talking than fucking.

*I specifically said men because I've never happened to date a woman I didn't find stunning. Personality is much more important to me in a woman; most likely it's because I prefer them in relationships. Men gotta earn more points!


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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/10/2007 3:43:56 AM   
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Status: offline 		I want both.  However, if I have to make a choice, it would be that personality is much more important than looks.  

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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/10/2007 4:54:47 AM   
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To the men....if a woman was ugly as a mud fence, but gave the best, deep-throating, cumsucking head you'd ever had, would you keep her? 


That would have been my first wife.

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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/10/2007 5:07:23 AM   
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How many people have to have the person who looks like Marilyn Monroe or Rock Hudsn for a partner?
 
I think the hell with looks within reason now I mean of course, but, personality, a sense of humor, intelligence, and neat and clean is what I like.



I want the whole package.

That's right, I'm a demanding little imp.

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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/10/2007 5:19:25 AM   
UR2Badored


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Status: offline 		Not reading through the whole thread, forgive any redundance.

Attraction for me is a combination of both and for good measure throw in my personal and innate (subconcious) preferences and my idiosyncrasies......Although, I may not be attracted to what society necessarilly calls an ideal model--attitude and being at peace with someone is paramount.  What I am not attracted to is arrogance.  Someone who list or labels him/herself excessively as "good looking".  Submissive or not, I think I can tell what I am attracted to without that handy bit of knowledge.  Sometimes, I think thanks for telling me I would have never known it without the person insisting they were good looking (though that type of ego is fascinating to observe from a distance).  I dont purposely contain my preferences in a list.......because when I meet the right person with that "special--something something", it all goes out of the window.  Chemistry and pheromones play a part and heck.....sometimes I  am left scratching my head because I cannot always figure out what exactly it is I see in a person but when it is there--there is no denying it and curiosity always gets the better of me.

PS........I think mud fences are hot!

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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/10/2007 5:29:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		I dont care what they look like, (within reason, ie all limbs) it's not as if I am going to have their babies!  *Shrugs*



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