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RE: How come all BIG women are "BEAUTIFUL"? - 8/10/2007 11:11:49 AM   
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You just don't hear many men touting their guts and how cool it is not to be able to see their own dicks.


But if they were morbidly obese, and could still see their dicks..


Then it's all good big boy.  If you don't have to be down there pulling back rolls to start "jerkin the gherkin" then you are on the top side of the curve.

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RE: How come all BIG women are "BEAUTIFUL"? - 8/10/2007 11:19:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		One more time people...if a woman wants to call herself a BBW she can. If YOU don't like it, move on with your life and avoid her. The overanalyis of this term is mind numbingly boring.

P.S. I call myself a BBW because I feel it is true and I am the only one I have to answer to. It is also a term that I first heard back in the day when I did plus size modeling. It was created by the media and then became utilized online, just as HWP, etc. is used.

Semantics can be argued until the end of the world and in the end, it is how an individual perceives of themselves and projects that perception. YOU can choose to agree/disagree with what is being projected, but you have no right to tell someone how to perceive and project their own image.

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RE: How come all BIG women are "BEAUTIFUL"? - 8/10/2007 11:22:58 AM   
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Status: offline 		Hey red, I agee its everyone's right to use whatever term they want...Im all for it...if they feel beautiful then damn im happy for them honestly...my only question is what acronym are those of us who dont fit the bill supposed to use?

No one has yet to answer my previous question.....

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RE: How come all BIG women are "BEAUTIFUL"? - 8/10/2007 11:26:04 AM   
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RE: How come all BIG women are "BEAUTIFUL"? - 8/10/2007 11:34:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		i'm fat however i use bbw to describe myself as a beautiful black woman ...don't need it to say big-breasted - i let my DDs do the talking.

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RE: How come all BIG women are "BEAUTIFUL"? - 8/10/2007 11:36:40 AM   
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ghita, you crack me up! i am still seareching for an appropriate acronym and Domiguy, you are just so bad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i want acroynms for everyone now otherwise it is just exclutionism! (is this even a word?)

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RE: How come all BIG women are "BEAUTIFUL"? - 8/10/2007 11:37:13 AM   
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It amazes me that the vanilla notion of BBW also is alive and well in the BDSM realm
Why?  Weren't we all vanilla at some point?  What makes you think the whatever good or bad happens in the "vanilla" sphere gets dropped upon entrance into wiitwd?

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When looking at the reality of life, not every woman is beautiful (and I am not bashing the female gender here...but you simply do not hear about a BBM..
You most certainly do.  Men on websites call themselves Big Handsome Men all the time, and let me tell you, most are not to me, but I take into consideration, the fact that not everyone is beautiful to me, and beauty really is in the eye of the beholder.   There is a huge disparity between what I find handsome/beautiful and even my own sisters/brothers find beautiful, so I can hardly expect to speak on what the standard of beauty should be for everyone.
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Now, I am not bashing big girls...I find them not only attractive and sexy, but also practical (a woman with more meat on her bones usually offers a much larger variety of practical applications in bondage, sexual use, etc. than an anorexic twig). But at the same time, please be real!! If you're just fat - then say so...and do not use the misnomer of BBW.
I'm all for being real, but I'm equally annoyed when an uuuuuuugly person describes himself as very attractive, but sends me the picture of a very ugly person.   Oftentimes, people call themselves attractive because they are thin, and that has about as much to do with beauty as the fact that all fat/big people are beautiful.    M

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RE: How come all BIG women are "BEAUTIFUL"? - 8/10/2007 11:38:21 AM   
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..don't need it to say big-breasted - i let my DDs do the talking.


ROFL!!!!!!!!! my girls are so small they are mute!

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RE: How come all BIG women are "BEAUTIFUL"? - 8/10/2007 11:39:33 AM   
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Not the one you have chosen IMO.


And why not? Everyone said anyone who wanted to call themselves a BBW was welcome to....and freckled overweight short chick turns into FOSC....just no where near as cool sounding.....

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RE: How come all BIG women are "BEAUTIFUL"? - 8/10/2007 11:43:42 AM   
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RE: How come all BIG women are "BEAUTIFUL"? - 8/10/2007 11:43:43 AM   
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ghita, i want acroynms for everyone now otherwise it is just exclutionism! (is this even a word?)


Yes, it is very exclusionary....and someone up there said I wasnt fat enough to be a BBW......yet no one could give me the weight limit for becoming one....at what point are you allowed to consider yourself a BBW and not just be your average overweight american? Damn it I wanna join the club! WAAAAAHHHHHHH

ghita~

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RE: How come all BIG women are "BEAUTIFUL"? - 8/10/2007 11:45:40 AM   
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Why do I want to kill myself right now?


I dont know but if you come over here Ill sit on your face for you.

ghita~

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RE: How come all BIG women are "BEAUTIFUL"? - 8/10/2007 11:47:13 AM   
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What makes you think the whatever good or bad happens in the "vanilla" sphere gets dropped upon entrance into wiitwd?


Because I like to think that in BDSM we (and that is a very generic "we" which is meant as a catch phrase) have dispensed with some of the crippling political correctness that stifles vanilla existence. That we have found ourselves in a "lifestyle" that allows the uninhibited expression of self. Because our needs are different than what can be satisfied by vanilla existence, we have congregated in a community (of sorts) that allows us to do away with ballast of PC and express ourself freely and without judgment.

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Men on websites call themselves Big Handsome Men all the time, and let me tell you, most are not to me


As I said earlier, this was the first time I had ever heard the term BHM and find it just as preposterous.


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RE: How come all BIG women are "BEAUTIFUL"? - 8/10/2007 11:48:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		Calling yourself a BBW is the same thing as me calling myself a gentleman - it is something that can only be determined by others.

If I kick a kitten in front of an old lady in a wheelchair, making her spin out and getting me the first spot in line, I can scream about how I'm a gentleman; no one will care.

Call yourselves BBW, HGBBW, JKWWBBBW, TEDGESTBBW, or whatever you want.  Some will like it, some will hate it, and some will tell you to lose weight.  If you let that affect you, you're not calling yourself a BBW anyway (Take that however you want).

Yours,


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RE: How come all BIG women are "BEAUTIFUL"? - 8/10/2007 11:49:38 AM   
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Why do I want to kill myself right now?


I dont know but if you come over here Ill sit on your face for you.

ghita~


Cool, death by SOMF.   I dig it.

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RE: How come all BIG women are "BEAUTIFUL"? - 8/10/2007 11:50:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		I would never describe myself as a 'big beautiful woman' or BBW.  I consider that I am big (as in broad, rather than tall) but certainly not 'beautiful'.  That doesn't mean that I necessarily regard myself as 'ugly' either, but certainly I don't regard my dimensions as particularly aesthetically pleasing.  'Short and stout' would probably capture it reasonably well, but the initials SS and SAS are already spoken for by other groups.

Laura

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RE: How come all BIG women are "BEAUTIFUL"? - 8/10/2007 11:52:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		My mom and dad gave me a name a little over 45 years ago, I am gonna stick with that for the most part........

The rest is up to others to figure out.


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RE: How come all BIG women are "BEAUTIFUL"? - 8/10/2007 11:57:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have never heard of the term BHM.....All of this time walking through the bathrooms and parks of Chicago shouting, "I'm looking for a "big handsome man!"....When all of this time I could have just been shouting "looking for a "BHM!".....I suddenly feel so empty....Someone hold me.

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RE: How come all BIG women are "BEAUTIFUL"? - 8/10/2007 11:57:32 AM   
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i know lots of BIG gurls who are not beautiful...they are just big.
i myeslf.....however....AM one of the beautiful ones.  ;)
so it is difficult for me to answer this question.



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RE: How come all BIG women are "BEAUTIFUL"? - 8/10/2007 11:58:00 AM   
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Acronyms are tricky. Big Ugly Girl is not good. Beautiful Overweight Woman (for those who can't yet aspire to BBW-hood yet) is just too cutsey. Big Ordinary Woman has the same problem. Weight Height Ordinary Redhaired Extremist just gets too much mail. Smartassed Loveable Unusual Twit has a nice ring, but again falls into the trap of defining MYSELF by adjectives that were not awarded to me by an organized committee. Who IS this committee that should judge me and what adjectives I may humbly lay claim to, and how do I contact them and get the official stamp of approval?

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