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SusanofO -> RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? (8/11/2007 9:40:09 PM)
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I am not a BBW, and I am still offended at this kind of Q. It is a certain strain of question, even when it is cloaked in the guise of "intellectual curiosity" - and it usually comes from Dominant men. Some (not all) of them are usually:
1) Overweight to some degree themselves
2) Obviously fail to workout or exercise
3) Have poor taste in clothing
4) Lack manners generally
I am not saying the OP is in this category (I really am not). I just don't understand how a man who exhibits qualities above 1-4 (or 1 or 2 of them, even) - can reasonably assert he demands a female submissive who is:
1) Beautiful
2) "Stays in shape"
3) Is the "Epitome of grace" - And so on.
It's laughable.
***At times like these, I say to myself: *Give me a male submissive - who actually takes care of his own physical appearance, and also truly knows how to treat a woman. I know there are HOT, decent, trustworthy male Dominants out there who don't act this way, and I am a Switch. BUT-
There are more than a handful of male Dom profiles around that tout attitudes like the OP's, I just have to wonder if these men ever stop to ask themselves: Does saying this even make sense? Especially considering what I myself am offerring to a woman?
I am not saying it's not a fair or intellectuially intriguing question. But face-it: The "real answer" is still going to be a matter of opinion. And anyway - someone out there loves BBW's. If it's not you - then, Oh Well. Would it kill the OP to just not ask, and simply move on with his search, instead?
I am just really tired of seeing these kinds of comments. Thanks for listening to my rant. I rarely rant - but these kinds of threads have just really gotten to me. Everyone has their "breaking point". I guess I've reached mine.
- Susan
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