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RE: May I ask Y/you all something? - 8/13/2007 9:32:11 AM

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If you want to be mean to him, I think you should say "Oh, yea!!! That means that all three of us can spend one weekend a month together at Master <insert name>'s house being his ass slaves!!! I didn't know how to bring it up before..."

If not, I think honesty is way to go.

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RE: May I ask Y/you all something? - 8/13/2007 11:49:33 AM

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I'd say..."Fuck you. You couldn't mention that you were poly four months ago???
Buh bye"

Ditto....

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RE: May I ask Y/you all something? - 8/13/2007 2:22:28 PM

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I see the op never returned....It si ekstreeemly difiphivcullt to tipe whean yur fas iz bariead in poosy.

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RE: May I ask Y/you all something? - 8/13/2007 2:37:08 PM

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you dont just get on your knees on kiss your master feet and said thank you for a sister slave

Unless of course your owner doesn't like you lying to him and just feeding him what he wants to hear.

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RE: May I ask Y/you all something? - 8/13/2007 2:39:06 PM

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ORIGINAL: sweetcreeangel

I am currently in a relationship with a Dom.He is a really nice,sweet person.i am currently under consideration by Him.the other day he called me up and told me that He might have a sister for me.Then asked me if i was the jealous type.The thing is i dont know how to tell Him that i dont want a sister nor do i know how to ask Him how this is going to work.So,how do i ask Him with out over steping by bounds?How do i tell Him that i dont want the sister?

Like the others have said - Be honest, brutally if you need to be. If you can't live with this, better to end it now than later.

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RE: May I ask Y/you all something? - 8/13/2007 3:00:43 PM

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having had sisters and this was to the tune of 3 other females in the household, i do not see the problem there...
the one girl does see is that it was not noted any thing about real time with this Master and yourself.....seems that He has not allowed any time to know you before adding a sister.....

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RE: May I ask Y/you all something? - 8/13/2007 4:07:38 PM

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There is no problem with concept of adding another, the only problem is that an owner should be clear and upfront about their desire to own more than one as quickly as possible. Some people are simply not suited to serving in mutiple slave households or this particular situation. If Valyraen just added another girl and told me to regard her as a "sister" we would have some problems.

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RE: May I ask Y/you all something? - 8/13/2007 8:52:25 PM

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If you would forgive this girl her opinion for a second this one would reply to you, sweetcreeangel, that it is always best to be polite. Always be honest in your feelings and never allow yourself to be truly uncomfortable in situations such as this. However, hind sight is 20/20 and this type of situations should have been brought up when Y/you first meet. Discussion of ones "Wills and Wont's" so to speak is one of the first things outline in a new relationship. In you defense my dear; He should have told you as well that He was interested in sharing you and Himself in multi partners. Best of luck dear and remember, politeness will get you far in life.

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RE: May I ask Y/you all something? - 8/17/2007 7:18:51 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetcreeangel

I am currently in a relationship with a Dom.He is a really nice,sweet person.i am currently under consideration by Him.the other day he called me up and told me that He might have a sister for me.Then asked me if i was the jealous type.The thing is i dont know how to tell Him that i dont want a sister nor do i know how to ask Him how this is going to work.So,how do i ask Him with out over steping by bounds?How do i tell Him that i dont want the sister?

Wow, must be some kind of relationship for a "Dom" to CALL you on the phone to tell you he might have a "sister" for you. Didn't you realize this is what you are looking for? Oh wait, you write that you don't want a sister but unfortunately your "Dom" doesn't know that. And you are worried about overstepping your bounds? I guess you now know what being under consideration means. You need to have a long serious discussion with your "Dom" as to what YOU are looking for and what he is looking for. Did you realize that YOU also have a say in what YOU want? If that isn't something you are willing to do than you are going to end up with a lot of sisters.

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RE: May I ask Y/you all something? - 8/19/2007 1:19:43 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetcreeangel

I am currently in a relationship with a Dom.He is a really nice,sweet person.i am currently under consideration by Him.the other day he called me up and told me that He might have a sister for me.Then asked me if i was the jealous type.The thing is i dont know how to tell Him that i dont want a sister nor do i know how to ask Him how this is going to work.So,how do i ask Him with out over steping by bounds?How do i tell Him that i dont want the sister?

Until such time as you agree to be his, then consideration is on both sides. You are certainly within your rights to consider if he is what you're seeking. Obviously not, since he's poly and you're not. So please don't be concerned about overstepping something that's not in place yet.

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RE: May I ask Y/you all something? - 8/19/2007 2:43:23 PM

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Be glad this came up now rather than 5 years down the road.

If poly is a hard limit for you, and it sounds like it is... I would inform him that you'd like to be removed from his consideration... and if he won't, then remove yourself.

If he wants to be poly now, it won't change... and denial is a dirty, refuse-ridden river in Egypt.

There will be others that will be happy with just you.

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RE: May I ask Y/you all something? - 8/19/2007 6:52:01 PM

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RE: May I ask Y/you all something? - 8/20/2007 7:02:21 PM

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Just ask him. Talk to him. If you cant just come out and talk to your dom/master about any topic at all, it's not a relationship anyway. I dont understand how many posts like this there are - where has communication gone, and why should it be any different to any relationship we have in life? If you have a question - ask, if you're uncomfortable with something, talk about it. If you're with someone you feel you cant talk to - get out of the relationship fast.

Communication - it's easy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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