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Politesub53 -> RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? (8/15/2007 1:22:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha quote: ORIGINAL: FitnessModel I think its enourmously wonderfull and generous of Pro's and so on to say "Well these sub guys are normal everyday folk, they arent pushovers" then come onto personals sites in their millions to offer the same helping hand. I commend you all. Oh no! Back with a new nick, d'oh! But sadly the same tired posts...... While i`m at it what does a fitnessmodel actually model ? i said this on another post, so it`s maybe the same tired post from me, " Any Domme i have sent a message too, pro Domme or not. has had the decency to reply to me.....For free " [;)]

goddessAVA -> RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? (8/15/2007 1:58:53 PM)
I think I am falling in love with you Pamela! Financial Domination like cyber is what I call a time soaker-it takes away from all those deliciously wicked realtime sessions We have-today was an OWK scene where I beat and abused this married man for 6 hours-You know how fun that is! If someone wants a girlfriend, great, if they want someone who has an autoclave, erostek, violet wand, singletail, floggers, paddles, straps, medical room, bondage room, every kind of restraint known to man, EXTENSIVE fetish wardrobe, humblers, 5 different sets of sounds, colon tubes, Disposable enemas small to large, more strap-ons then shoes and I can go on and on.........well often they come to a pro. NO knock on lifestyle dommes who have or have access to much of this, but for us it is a business that requires constant training, upgrading, new equipment etc... Either or, who cares! I love all Dominant women. btw are you on maxfisch?

FitnessModel -> RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? (8/15/2007 4:13:50 PM)
quote: online quote: Financial domination is a kink or is a fetsih and is different from Pro Domming by the way. Money represents power in todays society. Boys who seek financial domination are not looking to be victimized, they quite simply just want that POWER removed from them. They want to be forced in a position of sacrifice and humility by having to ask for things they need and want. It is not a license for the Domme to run off to with their walletst. It is a the hugest responsibility for a Domme ever. Thats an interesting way of putting it, seems to make sense. All to often it would seems FD is only about running off with someones wallet in terms of the "Domme" though. This may generate wariness amongst people considering it when considering the style of FD you mention because of possible association.

FitnessModel -> RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? (8/15/2007 4:25:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FullfigRIMaam and have no desire in serving a lady if it will cost you anything beyond use of your muscles. I think I explained quite clearly in my previous post what I have to offer apart from muscles, besides they can be used for storing buttons in the gaps between them while a Domme is repairing a Corset for example.

FitnessModel -> RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? (8/15/2007 4:28:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stef Precious, you shouldn't delude yourself into thinking that you matter enough to *anyone* here for them to hate you, especially me. and thus the "I hate you" "Yes I know you do" "No I dont hate you your not that important" continium continues in circular fashion. and yes it is working you are killing me............................of laughter

FitnessModel -> RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? (8/15/2007 4:39:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FullfigRIMaam Your previous rantings made you look like you don't understand the first thing about courtship, are basically cheap, and have no desire in serving a lady if it will cost you anything beyond use of your muscles. Seldom have I ever bought a woman a drink and I always go dutch, I prefer to use my personality. If it works for me and shes happy with it all then fair enough. I have no desire to give a woman anything in financial terms unless I wanted to do that as the manifestation of a "thought" that "counts" which feels great all round, not a pre-requisite in the arrangement.

LadyIce -> RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? (8/15/2007 5:49:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: goddessAVA I think I am falling in love with you Pamela! Financial Domination like cyber is what I call a time soaker-it takes away from all those deliciously wicked realtime sessions We have-today was an OWK scene where I beat and abused this married man for 6 hours-You know how fun that is! If someone wants a girlfriend, great, if they want someone who has an autoclave, erostek, violet wand, singletail, floggers, paddles, straps, medical room, bondage room, every kind of restraint known to man, EXTENSIVE fetish wardrobe, humblers, 5 different sets of sounds, colon tubes, Disposable enemas small to large, more strap-ons then shoes and I can go on and on.........well often they come to a pro. NO knock on lifestyle dommes who have or have access to much of this, but for us it is a business that requires constant training, upgrading, new equipment etc... Either or, who cares! I love all Dominant women. btw are you on maxfisch? GoddessAVA when I think about all the points you made, the question is "Why aren't more women professional's not less?" Thank you for explaining things well from your side of the fence.

FullfigRIMaam -> RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? (8/15/2007 9:31:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FitnessModel Seldom have I ever bought a woman a drink and I always go dutch, I prefer to use my personality If that is working for you, wonderful... But, if I were a betting woman, I would bet it isn't, because you seem plenty pissed off that some women don't have to go dutch and in fact will demand the man courting them serve however he is able, and to the best of his ability. Of course you didn't have to fess on the going dutch thing here, as most of us could have probably guessed you're not the generous type. M

FitnessModel -> RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? (8/16/2007 6:24:20 AM)
quote: Your previous rantings made you look like you don't understand the first thing about courtship, are basically cheap, and have no desire in serving a lady if it will cost you anything beyond use of your muscles. Seldom have I ever bought a woman a drink and I always go dutch, I prefer to use my personality. If it works for me and shes happy with it all then fair enough. I have no desire to give a woman anything in financial terms unless I wanted to do that as the manifestation of a "thought" that "counts" which feels great all round, not a pre-requisite in the arrangement. quote: ORIGINAL: FullfigRIMaam quote: ORIGINAL: FitnessModel Seldom have I ever bought a woman a drink and I always go dutch, I prefer to use my personality If that is working for you, wonderful... But, if I were a betting woman, I would bet it isn't, because you seem plenty pissed off that some women don't have to go dutch and in fact will demand the man courting them serve however he is able, and to the best of his ability. Of course you didn't have to fess on the going dutch thing here, as most of us could have probably guessed you're not the generous type. M When approaching a woman I feel that saying "Can I buy you a drink" is a cliche, a bit like "Do you come here often". I also try not to do this because it is too easy while there are plenty of women out there who flirt with men just to get drinks payed for all night, thats their business not mine Im not interested in them and all is fair. I prefer the more human approach by saying something original or humorous then getting into an interesting conversation while being aware of the sexual body language at the same time. This perhaps more of a "challenge" (not to me) but I find that doing it this way really does sort the wheat from the chaff. I find your statement "You seem plenty pissed off because some women dont need to go dutch" very amusing. It is not a question of having to or not having to in any non material based partnership, it is a question of getting to know each other for who you both are, communicating and negotiating if and when it comes to the dealing of expenses. Infact the statement "Some women dont need to go dutch" is actually quite insulting towards other women who go dutch because it implies they are doing so becuase they are more desperate, this is not true in the slightest. Women who go dutch could even be argued as being forward thinking individuals that decide to have equal power to men. "Of course you didnt have to fess up on going dutch there, because most of us could have probably guessed your not the generous type". You are absolutely right I am not the generous type, I am just a man who doesnt give money to a woman then expect something in return because I want to see her for who she is as a person rather than base her on monetary terms which many women would find very insulting, any sexual interactoins being becuase we both wanted to for the fun of it.

MissRayne -> RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? (8/16/2007 6:44:04 AM)
I am a Domme who asks flat out what type of tribute /offering can a potential slave provide.Do I ask them to provide it before I will do anything?No. I ask what they have to offer.For me it is a quick way of finding those who are serious and those who arent. And on another note...Ive been sent many many emails from various slaves offering to be a finacial slave. Brightest Blessings, Miss Rayne

FitnessModel -> RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? (8/16/2007 6:58:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FullfigRIMaam you don't understand the first thing about courtship. There are plenty of lifestyle dominas in my opinion, seeking genuinely service oriented men, Again, I blame no one for stating and being the type of domina she is/wants to be. I'm not compatible with all men who call themselves submissives, and while I'm not a "money domme", I cannot stand cheap whiny men. M No of course I dont understand the 1st thing about courtship, you are welcome to tell us about courtship yourself to show everyone how its done. Yes there are plenty of Dominas seeking service orientated men indeed, infact it would seem a rather large amount of them. I myself am service orientated although that is just a part of my spectrum. I love to do the cleaning naked while she orders me around or while she is out coming back later to inspect, many different ways of doing it Im sure. Yet seldom do I come across a Domme who is into it for the same reasons I am. and you have no right to blame me for being the kind of submissive I am. If the kind of submissive I am causes me to not be interested in 99% of Dommes then so be it while if 99% of Dommes would never be interested in me based on the kind of Domme they are then so be it, I am very happy with this situation. Your last paragraph makes me wonder, often people on these boards will say "Money is the manifestation of power, to hand it over is to give over ones power" then again others will say "Paying money to someone is buying them with the power of your money" so nothing here makes sense really which is well known anyway. Having said that lets stick with the 1st phrase of "Money is the manifestation of power, to hand it over is to give over ones power" becuase I know thats the one you would choose. So yes you are not a "Money Domme" and you cant stand cheap whiny men, but money is not the only defening factor whithin people who have similar motivations yet in different styles and flavours.

FitnessModel -> RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? (8/16/2007 7:09:17 AM)
quote: says: Seriously, whose fetish is "financial domination"? I know of no one who says: "Yup, time to get myself a Financial Domme". I once applied to be a financial slave, my query was declined with a reply which went "You dont look desperate enough to me". I found this an insult. I cannot see how one "looks" has anything to do with their sexual procliveties?! Financial Domination being a genuine fetish it should have nothing to do with that. ahem

chiaThePet -> RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? (8/16/2007 7:39:22 AM)
Well MusclelyAndCute errrr FitnessModel, welcome back, have fun! chia* (the pet)

MistressSassy66 -> RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? (8/16/2007 3:08:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LifeAdventurer Seriously, whose fetish is "financial domination"? I know of no one who says: "Yup, time to get myself a Financial Domme". [sm=banana.gif] Please don't get me wrong, I have no problem making the goddess of my choice as happy and rich as I possibly can, but we better be sharing a residence if I'm going to be financially dominated. The endless influx of Nigerian scammers with their "am good lookin honest godfearing name Cindy Smith lokin honest man soul mate" profiles aside, this site is a bit too crowded with supposed lifestylers requiring tributes up front prior to further exploration/evaluation and/or "financial domination". Makes a sincere fellow with an unlimited offering of devotion to give wonder about the sincerity of many of the ladies here. Best wishes to all. :~) I didnt read the responses so I apologize if I say the same thing that anyone may have said Okay now on to the OP... I actually do have men who want to be Financially Dominated...I dont believe a single one of them. I refuse to do it and I'm a Pro-Domme/Lifestyle Domme.I dont require anything upfront and I chat for free with all My loyal subjects(and some others also) whenever they are around to chat and I'm not busy. While it may be hard to fathom some Pros are not all about making money. The money goes back into the dungeon and everyone benefits I'm sure thats hard to believe too. FYI...this site allows Pro's to advertise so hush up and deal with it.

FullfigRIMaam -> RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? (8/16/2007 8:23:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FitnessModel I once applied to be a financial slave, my query was declined with a reply which went "You dont look desperate enough to me" You may not look desperate, but they say looks can be deceiving. quote: I found this an insult. I cannot see how one "looks" has anything to do with their sexual procliveties?! Financial Domination being a genuine fetish it should have nothing to do with that. Oh puhleez captain obvious. I see your condemnation and judgement of those who don't share your kink are still in full effect, and you're just here to bitch, bitch, bitch, and rage against all the women who don't think you're worth a million dollars on looks alone, and therefore exempt from having to put forth any more effort in terms of work/submission/personality. Good luck with your looks babe, and if you're not a living testament to the fact that looks mean very little, I don't know who is. M

michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? (8/16/2007 8:28:35 PM)
the best occupation for someone into Financial Domination is the IRS. where else can you get someone else's money without much trouble?

FullfigRIMaam -> RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? (8/16/2007 9:42:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia Financial Domination is the IRS. where else can you get someone else's money without much trouble? Yes the IRS does financially dominate when they want to, but it's not exactly the same thing... No one voluntarily goes to the IRS saying "take my stuff, if makes my d*** hard when I'm powerless against you." M

michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? (8/16/2007 10:12:59 PM)
sure would open some eyes if that were to happen...will have to keep that in mind...LOL

ROPENHIGHHEELS -> RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? (8/17/2007 4:43:05 AM)
I agree with everything you say here. If someone does have a financial domination fetish then more power to them. I find it hard to believe though that there's that many guys out here that have that fetish. If there is that many out here that are "actually real" then the women here have hit the freakin lottery and those of us that aren't that lucky are screwed! lol *Wondering if there's any BDSM sites out here that have banned financial domination fetishes???* LOL And the Nigerian scammers out here...Yup, God am I ever tired of them and they have no clue as to this being a BDSM website or what it means...lol. I'm very cautious about the sincerity of the ladies on here. I hear ya LifeAdventurer! quote: ORIGINAL: LifeAdventurer Seriously, whose fetish is "financial domination"? I know of no one who says: "Yup, time to get myself a Financial Domme". [sm=banana.gif] Please don't get me wrong, I have no problem making the goddess of my choice as happy and rich as I possibly can, but we better be sharing a residence if I'm going to be financially dominated. The endless influx of Nigerian scammers with their "am good lookin honest godfearing name Cindy Smith lokin honest man soul mate" profiles aside, this site is a bit too crowded with supposed lifestylers requiring tributes up front prior to further exploration/evaluation and/or "financial domination". Makes a sincere fellow with an unlimited offering of devotion to give wonder about the sincerity of many of the ladies here. Best wishes to all. :~)

FitnessModel -> RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? (8/17/2007 9:08:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ROPENHIGHHEELS I agree with everything you say here. If someone does have a financial domination fetish then more power to them. I find it hard to believe though that there's that many guys out here that have that fetish. If there is that many out here that are "actually real" then the women here have hit the freakin lottery and those of us that aren't that lucky are screwed! lol *Wondering if there's any BDSM sites out here that have banned financial domination fetishes???* LOL And the Nigerian scammers out here...Yup, God am I ever tired of them and they have no clue as to this being a BDSM website or what it means...lol. I'm very cautious about the sincerity of the ladies on here. I hear ya LifeAdventurer! quote: ORIGINAL: LifeAdventurer Seriously, whose fetish is "financial domination"? I know of no one who says: "Yup, time to get myself a Financial Domme". [sm=banana.gif] Please don't get me wrong, I have no problem making the goddess of my choice as happy and rich as I possibly can, but we better be sharing a residence if I'm going to be financially dominated. The endless influx of Nigerian scammers with their "am good lookin honest godfearing name Cindy Smith lokin honest man soul mate" profiles aside, this site is a bit too crowded with supposed lifestylers requiring tributes up front prior to further exploration/evaluation and/or "financial domination". Makes a sincere fellow with an unlimited offering of devotion to give wonder about the sincerity of many of the ladies here. Best wishes to all. :~) Ironically it would seem as there are actually more financial Dommes than there are financial slaves. Quite ironic knowing that it is well documented that there are more male subs than Dommes. It doesnt take a genius to work out whats going on behind all that. I think some interesting points have been raised in this thread about these sites. Since having been around a few years I have learnt that there are Dommes looking for subs who have decided not to come onto here, infact many Dommes dont perceive these sites as worth using to find lifestyle relationships. I would put this down to the social envorinment that they witness. I once joined another site out of morbid interest I wont disclose the site its not neccessery and Im not sure I would be allowed but if somoene wants me to and its allowed I will. I got an initial contact from a Domme from the states and have been talking to her over skype voice for a while now, its been interesting to talk and make freinds. Of course I know Im in UK and she is in US but I only really get contacted by Dommes from other places as there arent really any Dommes in the UK on here it would seem apart from tribute Dommes etc, some of these Dommes I heard decided not to come onto CM after seeing it like I mentioned as above. After a couple of months she told me that the site had become totally useless for her, she had to make way loads of effort and get nothing out of it. Suddenly the guys either where not interested, wherent around anymore or the ones that where there just wanted to be served sexually by her with a whishlist etc. At first the site was usefull to her but since the word got around the place became festooned with FD's and Pro's then suddenly the social environment changes and it becomes useless for her. I think the problem is that there isnt actually 1 single personals site in existence for people looking to get to know each other in this lifestlye in terms of Femdom, for instance everysingle personals site for others like Vanillas is actually for likeminded people and so on but not really anything for Femdom. The social environment of these places gets so diluted by whatever way they are taken so in essence they become like trying to find a partner in a busy airport terminal on easter weekend. I know that there are personals sites specifically for Pro's and FD's and that someone like me would not be allowed on there seeing as Im not looking for that and it would be a waste of their time. However with all the BDSM personals sites that ever existed since the dawn of their inception, they have always been taken over by Pro's and FD's etc. I think it would be nice if there could actually be personals sites for a change, while Pro's and FD's continue on their sites. This would make it easier for everyone including Dommes looking for relationships, subs looking for Dommes for relationships and the like. I dont feel this is going to happen though because any personals site that was evermade will end up with a vast majority of Pro's FD's amd tribute Dommes on while the other Dommes get peterbed and dont bother and as a result the sites become less usefull for subs too and they end up essentually as little good for anyone unless you are a sub looking for a fix or a Domme looking to make a profit. Once when speaking to a Domme from CM she complained at me about how she gets so much do me crap from guys who see her as a whore (just over 90%), then she got annoyed about how the decent guys she is actually interested in and talk to all seem to have a chip on their shoulder about Pro’s and FD's etc arguing how Pro’s etc are there for a good reason to service guys who are after that kinda thing. Yet a parallel stance to that would be to say that guys who want a quick fix are there for good reason to supply money to women who are after that kinda thing. Unfortunatly however there is a double standard in that guys who are timewasters after a quick fix etc will be met with much derision in the eyes of the Dommes looking for relationships which in all seriousness I find is a justified complaint from these Dommes. unfortunatly however a male submissive will not be met with the same response when taking issue with something that is actually the exact parralel of the Dommes complaint in that he comes across and inordinate amount of people that dont want to get to know him for who he is, the only variable between the 2 issues of the Domme and the sub being that of sex and money.

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