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RE: The relationship of facial hair and Mastership - 8/17/2007 7:07:06 PM   
xoxi


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Status: offline 		PS no offense intended to the guys here who have it.  It's just seriously a personal ick factor for me.  We all have them...and I just realized how mean I might have sounded.

Nothing personal intended, honestly.

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RE: The relationship of facial hair and Mastership - 8/17/2007 7:09:47 PM   
ehlovindom


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Status: offline 		The answer is quite simple. Masters have facial hair because it looks better on them than Mistresses.

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RE: The relationship of facial hair and Mastership - 8/17/2007 8:38:33 PM   
darchChylde


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Status: offline 		i can't help but wonder what this says about my personal relationships: Ma'ams Daddy/Husband is clean-shaven and i, Her submissive, have a goatee

if this means that i'm going to have to start dominating Her; i'm sorry, i just can't and won't do it

if it means i have to shave; i have to ask Her permission, and i don't wanna... She likes my goatee


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RE: The relationship of facial hair and Mastership - 8/17/2007 9:34:49 PM   
SirMIkeSD


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Status: offline 		It's in the handbook, did you miss that part

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RE: The relationship of facial hair and Mastership - 8/18/2007 6:54:11 AM   
arayofsunshine55


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I think it's just the modern style of the day, mixed with laziness, mixed with some crazy idea that a lot of guys think they look tougher and more dominant with facial hair, mixed with a lot of younger guys thinking they look more mature with facial hair.

I was thinking much the same things.   And because I don't like guys who swim with the pack I really notice dominant men who are clean shaven. 


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RE: The relationship of facial hair and Mastership - 8/18/2007 7:10:58 AM   
captainblack


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ORIGINAL: labrat18610

I thought I noticed that guys with facial tended to be Masters. So I did a little study of Masters who have their pics on Collarme. 60% of Masters had some form of facial hair. Of the 40% of clean shaven Masters, they tended to be young. 66% were under age 39. In fact, the majority is under age 26.
So my question is why do most Masters have some form of facial hair? Is facial hair a sign of dominace?
And yes, there are clean shaven Masters, but if you take away the younger Masters, only 22% are clean shaven.
And yes, it is kind of a dumb question. I'm a sub and love trying to understand the mind of a Master.


Sounds like someone has too much time on his hands and needs to find an owner that will better direct the use of his time.

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RE: The relationship of facial hair and Mastership - 8/18/2007 11:20:17 AM   
adoracat


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ORIGINAL: cabernet

This isn't quite the topic but it still has to do with hair above the neck.  I have always noticed that there seems to be a higher number of bald Dominant men in comparison to submissive men, and men in the general population.  (By bald I mean completely shaved head, not male pattern baldness.)


shaved head with a mustache and goatee.... *shivers*

kitten who misses Sir even more *sighs*

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RE: The relationship of facial hair and Mastership - 8/18/2007 1:37:44 PM   
KiandPhoenix


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Status: offline 		Well before I was into BDSM I let my girlfriends decide on my facial hair. For the first seven years I dated only two girls and one of them was for 6 of those years, so she liked me exactly how I am right now. The other year was with a girl who did not care. Then I spent three years with a girl who could not make up her mind, but would have me shave rare occasion. Now that I shave my head as well (a female friend said it would look good between girlfriends) Phoenix says if I were to let my head hair grow that she would shave my head in my sleep punishments be dammed. I shaved all my facial hair off once for shock value to her, but she likes the look better as I am. So for me it is not a sign of dominance, but rather a sign of trying to look good enough in my submissive eyes that she wants to show me off.
~Ki

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RE: The relationship of facial hair and Mastership - 8/18/2007 2:31:51 PM   
xoxi


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KiandPhoenix
but rather a sign of trying to look good enough in my submissive eyes that she wants to show me off.


Oh my God is it possible that there's actually a guy out there who realizes that we women want a man we can be proud to show off??   Be still my heart!

Rock on with your bad self...most guys seriously don't understand that women want to say "this is my boyfriend" with pride, instead of "that's my boyfriend, he usually looks much better" 

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RE: The relationship of facial hair and Mastership - 8/19/2007 6:59:38 PM   
CelticPrince


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Status: offline 		Mastership??

now there is a term to treasure.

CP

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RE: The relationship of facial hair and Mastership - 8/20/2007 2:30:03 AM   
came4U


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From: London, Ontario
Status: offline 		I've never known a man with facial hair (up close enough to touch it anyways) it is a ik to me too, a big no no.  I hope those stats are wrong lol. I'm gonna start looking at pictures closer I guess. 

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RE: The relationship of facial hair and Mastership - 8/20/2007 4:30:46 AM   
KiandPhoenix


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quote:

Oh my God is it possible that there's actually a guy out there who realizes that we women want a man we can be proud to show off??   Be still my heart!

While I think that I have much more to be proud of when showing off both the outer and inner beauty of Phoenix, she seams to take pride in me (as well as our relationship) and showing me off. I would hate to be an embarrassment, and I know for a fact that she knows what a good looking man looks like much better than I do. So she decided what my facial hair is.

A little known fact that goes with this is that when I am in the shower I have a standing order to have my clothing laid out for me, so that I may dress quickly. It serves three purposes. One it saves me time. Two it is something she can do that reminds her of her submissive side. Three, I don't know what looks good and what doesn’t. So I am letting her pick what she thinks looks good on me, so I can look good for her. Silly maybe, but it works.

~Ki

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RE: The relationship of facial hair and Mastership - 8/20/2007 7:33:13 AM   
MasterMataeo


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Status: offline 		first stop trying to understand the mind of a master,,,
i have had many differnt looks withmy facial hair,, and yes it is true that i prefer to have a goatee or full beard,, but as it is ,,it is a personal issue for each,,
just this last week i shaved clean  ,, just to do so ,, and was told i now look  like i'm in my mid 20's when i'm really much older than that,,
we shave or grow our facial hair for our pleasure ,, not the sub/slaves
it matters not what is growing on our face ,, but what we have working in our mind and hearts,,

MasterMataeo

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