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RE: bimbofication - 8/15/2007 11:40:27 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Padriag

It is interesting though, to watch how much people are governed by ideas, what those ideas may be, and how close this "lifestyle" actually is to the "vanilla."  Absolutely fascinates me sometimes.


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RE: bimbofication - 8/15/2007 11:46:59 AM   
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What i take issue with is the word bimbo...UGH YIKES and EWWW to that word.

Just because a woman is willing to adopt that look, or has that look, doesn't make her a bimbo. Bimbo has a conotation of being brainless and although there are some who fit that sterotype there are alot who don't.

This is another one of those things that I find peculiar.  Why should this word be given that kind of power?  Clearly it is judging from the reactions of so many, but why?  Why is that within this lifestyle many use terms like "slut", "bitch", "fucktoy" and even "whore" as terms of endearment, some even use them as badges of honor, and yet "bimbo" is still apparently universally offensive?  Its interesting to me that in some ways we've broken free of certain kinds of thinking, while in others we're still very much stuck in a very old rut.  I've encoutered those before who want "living dolls" which isn't that much different than what this guy seems to be after.  And there are those who very much can afford the pricetag attached... just as there are those who can afford to keep ponygirls with full tack and harness, sulkies and private ranches.  I wonder, if the guy had said he was interested in learning more about keeping a submissive as a living doll, would the reaction have been very different if he'd simply said that instead of bimbo?  I'm thinking it would have.

Lot's a knees jerking out there, and yeah, I know I'm at it again, bashing down people's carefully constructed realities with a 15# sledge hammer... I'm a bastard that way.

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RE: bimbofication - 8/15/2007 11:58:04 AM   
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Hi Padriag,

I'm enjoying your posts on this thread.  I think people take offense to any negative connotation against their intellectual ability.  "Bimbo" elicits a strong response, as does "Doormat."  I don't quite know where it stems from, although I see it as a defensive and protective nature.  Perhaps in a world where the female species often feels condescended by the male species, we have created a knee jerk backlash to anything that comes close to touching upon such opinions.

And yet, in an environment such as this forum, where we all like to say "As long as it makes you happy and doesn't harm anyone - do it!", we actually tend to say, "As long as it makes you happy, doesn't harm anyone, and doesn't threaten my beliefs on how things ought to be - do it!"

I've watched this thread with interest.  I found it interesting to see how many jumped on the ridicule bus from the get go, and how many used this as an opportunity to visit what we find acceptable and what we don't.  I've always said I loathe ridicule and mockery (except when Master does so to humiliate me, heh), as I find laughing at another for amusement - even if the other is a fool - to typically be revealing of a weakness in those who are doing the laughing.

Since the OP has not returned, we can't know what his intention was for the thread.  But regardless of what it was, the discussions that have come from it, I believe, have been important.  I don't think they are likely to change anything, but it's good to see the various opinions discussed, none-the-less.

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RE: bimbofication - 8/15/2007 12:07:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: givemyall

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LOL I thought that I recognised him - I got the message off him asking if I was interested.  I remember being rather pissed off and on checking my sent mail, it would seem that I let him know that too....ehhhh it takes all sorts


Me too. He wrote me a few months ago and I told him I already have great boobs, and act like pornstar so no thanks.

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RE: bimbofication - 8/15/2007 12:07:25 PM   
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I don't look at those having cosmetic surgery any different than those going to the dentist to keep their teeth looking perfect which is something most of us do. In addition, generally speaking and all that, good looking women are smarter. Matter of fact, good looking people are usually smarter, healthier, wealthier and happier. So the odds are the bimbo can beat you at trivia and out think you in all things.

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RE: bimbofication - 8/15/2007 12:12:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: supernovared99

Hi everyone,

i am here on collarme since some month. I try to find a girl i could transform to a perfect bimbo, with huge silicon tits, full lips, beautiful as a pornstar.
i don't know if there are a person on this site ready for that.
I would like some testimonies of slaves, subs and masters.
Thanks.

Supernovared99



And after you have done this,  what responsibility are you prepared to take for the rest of her life?
 
This is one of these fantasies that are best left in fantasy.  Think things through.
 
I may take you on for HIMbo modification.

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RE: bimbofication - 8/15/2007 12:57:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ExSteelAgain

In addition, generally speaking and all that, good looking women are smarter.


Really?

I suggest you look these women up:

Eleanor Roosevelt
Julia Child
Madame (Marie) Curie
Tanya Reinhart
Abigail Adams
Susan B. Anthony
Molly Brown
Emily Dickinson
Annie Sullivan
Mary McDowell
Elizabeth Helen Blackburn
Mary Baker Eddy
Margaret Thatcher
Harriet Tubman

To name a few....

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RE: bimbofication - 8/15/2007 1:10:10 PM   
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All the OP needs to do is come out here to Coastal So CA...plastic surgery is practically mandatory out here, I rarely see a set of tits that are real on a hot chic. So far I have been able to keep that body type and look through diet and exercise but I know at 35 it won't last much longer, I'm fully prepared to turn this bod plastic. He could find a chic that has already had it done and save him self some cash.

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RE: bimbofication - 8/15/2007 1:12:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

You lot are rotten, you know?

Hey Supernova, I'm up for it.

Great new bod; USD 100,000-00

Showing him the results of my chromosome analysis afterwards; priceless

E


*cleaning the cookie crumbs off the monitor and keyboard*

oh gawds that was the highlight of my whole day!!!!!  thank you LadyEllen!!!

kitten, still giggling

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RE: bimbofication - 8/15/2007 2:16:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

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ORIGINAL: ExSteelAgain

In addition, generally speaking and all that, good looking women are smarter.


Really?

I suggest you look these women up:

Eleanor Roosevelt
Julia Child
Madame (Marie) Curie
Tanya Reinhart
Abigail Adams
Susan B. Anthony
Molly Brown
Emily Dickinson
Annie Sullivan
Mary McDowell
Elizabeth Helen Blackburn
Mary Baker Eddy
Margaret Thatcher
Harriet Tubman

To name a few....


Actually, I don't think of them as being unattractive as older women. Older women can be beautiful. When most of those women were younger, they were very attractive in my eye.

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RE: bimbofication - 8/15/2007 2:21:55 PM   
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Actually, I don't think of them as being unattractive as older women. Older women can be beautiful. When most of those women were younger, they were very attractive in my eye.


I wasn't listing them as "older" women, just as very intelligent women in their day, whose faces may not quite fit society's norm as physically attractive.  Yet, beauty is in the eye of the beholder isn't it?  Perhaps it's that you find intelligent women to be attractive, as opposed to attractive women to be intelligent?

Mind you, I'm gorgeous AND smart, so I fit your theory, hahahahaha 

(kidding, folks)

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RE: bimbofication - 8/15/2007 2:24:49 PM   
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And let's not forget how much of a hot sexpot Ruth Bader Ginsburg is.

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RE: bimbofication - 8/15/2007 2:25:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ExSteelAgain

Actually, I don't think of them as being unattractive as older women. Older women can be beautiful. When most of those women were younger, they were very attractive in my eye.


I wasn't listing them as "older" women, just as very intelligent women in their day, whose faces may not quite fit society's norm as physically attractive.  Yet, beauty is in the eye of the beholder isn't it?  Perhaps it's that you find intelligent women to be attractive, as opposed to attractive women to be intelligent?

Mind you, I'm gorgeous AND smart, so I fit your theory, hahahahaha 

(kidding, folks)


Ah, OG, you are definitely smart and beautiful. I remember the pic you used to have up and have often read your words here.

I suppose we can say as a logic matter that smart women don't have to be beautiful and beautiful women don't have to be smart. Deal?

< Message edited by ExSteelAgain -- 8/15/2007 2:26:30 PM >


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RE: bimbofication - 8/15/2007 2:28:36 PM   
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I said the magic word "logic" and there is LA..in front of my post no less. Friggin magic. Now there is another beautiful and smart one.

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RE: bimbofication - 8/15/2007 2:29:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ExSteelAgain
I suppose we can say as a logic matter that smart women don't have to be beautiful and beautiful women don't have to be smart. Deal?


Deal! 

But you might have my looks mistaken with someone else...I don't recall ever having my photo posted here.  Perhaps I mailed it, though.  In any case, I'll take the compliment and thank you for it!

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RE: bimbofication - 8/15/2007 2:35:22 PM   
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If she can't read how is she going to log on and run a pc and know how to even?

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You are forgetting she COULD get on to AOL irrespective of the quantity/quality of her brain cells..

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ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion

there's one major flaw in his plan. if he was seeking her online, he'd be waiting a looooooooooooooooooong time, a slave who can't read and had no brains, wouldn't be online looking for a dom lol.


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ORIGINAL: Lashra

I've actually heard of this before and in fact knew of a Dom who wanted a slave who was into bimbofication as well as uneducated and could not read. He wanted to transform her (in his words) into the "perfect vision of feminity" not only would she look like a Barbie doll, but she'd have the brain of one (empty). I guess whatever floats your boat.

~Lashra 




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RE: bimbofication - 8/15/2007 3:35:23 PM   
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hi am heree is  collarme looking for a lady but could't find one
can someone tell me why


There are no ladies on this site.  All posts pretending to be women are actually written by a 43-year-old computer sanitiser who lives in his mum's house and has a pet gerbil called Horace.


You are mistaken my dear.  The gerbil's name is Spanky.

Stephan


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RE: bimbofication - 8/15/2007 3:39:26 PM   
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Everyone knows I'm a 55 year old male, I deliver pizzas for a living, the only thing I sanitize are my shoes once a year, I live in my moms basement and I don't have a pet, I have asthma.


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There are no ladies on this site.  All posts pretending to be women are actually written by a 43-year-old computer sanitiser who lives in his mum's house and has a pet gerbil called Horace.



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RE: bimbofication - 8/15/2007 5:38:27 PM   
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Its not like this is actually virgin territory or a new idea.  There have been and currently are those women who seek out wealthy men and/or plasctic surgeons in the hopes they will make them over.  There are also these same men who have selected partners that they have "made over".

Somehow I have the feeliong everyone ran with the "bimbo" comment in a negative way.  I am not sure he was actually looking for someone who couldn't put one foot in front of the other but rather someone he could make into his own little doll. 

I can tell you as  a dominant male who has talked to his share of sub/slave females around here, there are those who would love the chance to be made over like that.

K

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RE: bimbofication - 8/15/2007 5:44:05 PM   
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Only thing that comes to my mind is to quote a few lines from an old Aldo Nova song....

"Neon lights shining brightly make your brain ignite
See the girls with the dresses so tight
Give you love if the price is right
Black or white
In the streets there's no wrong and no right
so forget all that you see
It's not reality
It's just a fantasy
Can't you see...."

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