Durus
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ORIGINAL: caitlyn I'm not trying to say you are wrong, just that not everyone feels the way you do. Accusations are made knowingly. Releasing records will not stop these accusations, it will only move the accusers to another area. Someone that wants to spread false rumors, will find something to fill their need ... by default, a false rumor is false, so you can find them in thin air. As for your scenario, if he wanted to know what was going on, he should ask, and I will give him an honest answer. If that isn't acceptable, I know where the door is. Maybe I'm being simplistic, but hyper-controlling, overly paranoid men are a dime a dozen ... sort of like political hatchet men. Again, not trying to prove you wrong, only pointing out that not everyone feels like you. I don't see Senator Kerry as hiding anything because he won't release these records. I don't see President Bush as hiding anything because he won't answer these National Guard accusations. In both cases, some of the accusers have been proven to be liars. The rest ... are only people that throw their lot in with liars, in my book. To me, neither one has been proven, so neither one exists. They aren't required to answer accusations that don't exist. That's just how I feel. You keep calling them false rumors but they are based on facts. This is more then just a matter of unfounded speculation. Kerry, if he wanted to be president, had the obligation to be as forthright as possible to the public. If he valued privacy more then the office he could have not run. Trust is something earned and certainly we, as voters, should not blindly accept anything a candidate tells us. In my scenario I attempted to make the SO's suspicions reasonable, not paranoid and controlling. I suspect that you would prefer it to be unreasonable so that you don't have to answer the question, but the truth of the matter is that trust is broken all the time and unwavering unquestion trust is going to get you fucked over. Reasonable suspicion based on hard fact is going to help you.
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