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RE: I am only owned until........ - 8/20/2007 4:04:44 AM

Twicehappy2x

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As a slave/owned property, what (if anything) could terminate your position as such?

Not be who or what he wants me to be within reason. Not everybody is perfect, there are going to be some differences in what he wishes for me to do and what i am willing/able mentally/physically to do regarding certain issues.

Again what, if anything, could you as a slave do to end your slavery? As an owner, what could your slave do (if anything) to end his/her slavery?

Like Aquatic said best, leave, period.

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RE: I am only owned until........ - 8/20/2007 7:30:45 AM

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I am not a slave but a sub. Master said there is only 2 wasy i will be released one is if i ask to be (i don't plan on doing that) the other is one of our deaths. Othern than that he said he is never leting me go (and i don't want him to). Willful disobedience would be dealt whit and he had told me what would happen so i will not do that. Nothing i can think of except the above mentioned would end our relationship.

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RE: I am only owned until........ - 8/20/2007 7:59:19 AM

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quote:

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ORIGINAL: arayofsunshine55
We are each in it because we choose to be so. Should that really change for either of us we will not be. That is the bottom line. What could make that change? I've got no idea. We haven't laid out a list of consequences or bottom lines and the like. As to disobedience and such. We are not a high protocol or high rules kinda couple. In choosing to stay I also choose to surrender to him to the best of my ability. And he knows that I will often turn myself upside down and inside out to do that. Cause I choose him. Cause I choose us.

Beautifully and succinctly stated, rayofsunshine! We aren't high protocol or high rules either and, like you, I constantly do my utmost to please and satisfy Him. It's wonderful, isn't it? Thanks for your great answer............luci

I'll second that. My husband and I are together because we chose to be, we stood up before friends and family and made a vow to be together. Our marriage is in itself a life bonding contract taken very seriously by us. But I'll be honest and say that our marriage is not dependent on our dynamic. This is just my opinion, but if either one of us wanted a divorce because the D/s was no longer present, that would be foreswearing our commitment and vows.

My husband and I experimented with a Master-slave relationship in the beginning for a short time. In the end, we decided it didn't work for us, mostly because it interfered with our marriage. That being said, there are very few circumstances in which I would ask for divorce.. like if he developed habits that were destructive to our family ( drugs, gambling, etc. ) And even then, we'd work like hell to resolve the problem. So, in my particular case, no ... there is virtually no "release" clause. We're married, we swore oaths.. in his case, spiritual ones.... that's basically it.

I suppose the M/s experiment didn't work when my husband and I realized that in a sense, we're both "slaves"... to the well-being of each other, our family, our joint goals.

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RE: I am only owned until........ - 8/20/2007 8:02:35 AM

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in a sense, we're both "slaves"... to the well-being of each other, our family, our joint goals

Beautifully put, Stella

. Thanks for your contribution............luci

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RE: I am only owned until........ - 8/20/2007 8:12:47 AM

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I am not a slave but a sub. Master said there is only 2 wasy i will be released one is if i ask to be (i don't plan on doing that) the other is one of our deaths. Othern than that he said he is never leting me go (and i don't want him to). Willful disobedience would be dealt whit and he had told me what would happen so i will not do that. Nothing i can think of except the above mentioned would end our relationship.

Matt's littleone

In our D/s relationship, there actually isn't to much room for
willful disobedience". There are definitely expectations from him, however. But even he knows that sometimes Life Happens. For example... I'm expected to keep the chaos to a minimum when he gets home from work. With two school-agers, a rambunctious dog, a stream of kid-friends, just stuff in general, being the official peacekeeper is easier said then done. Sometimes I fail. LOL.

In our case, there are few actual orders for me to disobey. Just very general guidelines for how he wants things to be that for the most part I have no problem keeping up with. In the case that I fail, there's always a good reason. ( Usually, there's two short, active noisy little reasons).

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RE: I am only owned until........ - 8/20/2007 8:36:20 AM

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ORIGINAL: littleone35

there is only 2 wasy i will be released one is if i ask to be (i don't plan on doing that) the other is one of our deaths.

Willful disobedience would be dealt whit. Nothing i can think of except the above mentioned would end our relationship.

Death is what released me from my two prior collars.

And i appreciate and value your sentiments.

And like many here we really have no hard and fast rules, just general guidelines as to what he expects from me.

Yet i am also a realist, i know there are some boundaries i will not/cannot cross. Not that Scooter has tried to push me over them (not that he has not nudged at a few).

But i am aware that life changes, relationships change, people change. I cannot see the future, if something about either of us changed or if i was forced over those boundaries the possibility exists that either of us may end the relationship.

I hope that our(the three of us) bonds stays strong and grows, i am also intelligent enough to never say never.

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RE: I am only owned until........ - 8/20/2007 8:44:29 AM

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either one of us decides continuing the relationship is no longer healthy or desirable.

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