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RE: Why isn't a Mistress interested? - 7/14/2005 8:45:32 PM   
Euryanx


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyKim

Educated, confident, self assured submissives that seek more than just a kinky roll in the hay are what most of us look for in a sub boy. Submissive men that just want sex are a penny a pound, but finding someone that realizes it isn't just about their masterbation fantasies and what can be done to and for them is a bit more difficult.


Well said Lady Kim. A word often overlooked in relationships is "mutual." I realize that a lot of Domme's here come on very strong, and seem to have the attitude "It's all about me." They're the Domme. Everything in the D/s relationship should be meant for their benefit. To a degree, yes, if a person enters into a D/s relationship, that's part of the dynamic.

But how much better would it be if two people came together, one Domme, one submissive, and they both fell into their roles quite naturally... and they both sort of fed off each other... both got what they NEEDED from each other. It's not all about the sub trying to get his little kinky desires met, and it's not all about the Domme issuing demands. It's about two loving spirits, who complement each other perfectly... coming together... fitting together like two pieces of a jigsaw puzzle.

For me, that's where true happiness lies. In something very compatible. In something very mutual.

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RE: Why isn't a Mistress interested? - 7/16/2005 7:39:09 AM   
sissybri76


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Status: offline 		I agree with LadyKim. My gf and I are entering into this world and sure the sex aspects are GREAT, but the respect, love, and admiration I feel for her when I look into her eyes and know...actually realize my new place in this relationship excites me more than any sexual encounter. I guess it is a little different in our case since we have a primarilly vanilla history together and are new to this lifestyle (although she was aware of my many kinks just about from the beginning lol).

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RE: Why isn't a Mistress interested? - 7/16/2005 8:09:45 AM   
femshiteater


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Status: offline 		i am also not get any reply for my question and even my question is not seen when i search my question for the next day
what should i do to get my post noticed and get a good femdom for online humiliation
kindly reply me

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RE: Why isn't a Mistress interested? - 7/16/2005 8:58:37 AM   
perverseangelic


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ORIGINAL: femshiteater

i am also not get any reply for my question and even my question is not seen when i search my question for the next day
what should i do to get my post noticed and get a good femdom for online humiliation
kindly reply me


First. Be patient.

Second. Read the forum threads on "how to get a mistress to notice me."

Third. Be patient.

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~in the begining it is always dark~

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RE: Why isn't a Mistress interested? - 7/17/2005 8:13:21 PM   
ManOwner


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Status: offline 		What the others said about "play partner" vs. "sub" is correct. Most of us Dommes want either a partner or a friend with benefits, not a perv that's too cheap to pay a pro. The only way I would feel satisfied, rather than used, in a relationship that was strictly play, would be if I call the shots. This means that slaveboy comes running whenever I snap my fingers, not whenever he feels like it.

And about the spelling, yes, there are lots of smart people that can't spell. But when text is the only medium of communication, you had better come across well with your words because you've got shit else.

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RE: Why isn't a Mistress interested? - 7/18/2005 4:08:42 AM   
kc692


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quote:

ORIGINAL: perverseangelic


quote:

ORIGINAL: femshiteater

i am also not get any reply for my question and even my question is not seen when i search my question for the next day
what should i do to get my post noticed and get a good femdom for online humiliation
kindly reply me


First. Be patient.

Second. Read the forum threads on "how to get a mistress to notice me."

Third. Be patient.


perverse, I believe he is talking about a troll thread he posted recently that I believe was pulled that NONE of the Dommes responded to.

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