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RE: unforgettable punishments - 8/22/2007 10:23:10 AM

slavegirljoy

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ORIGINAL: fungasm
However, you must do those tasks with one of the following:

a. A vibratring egg (or three) in various orifices.
b. A butt plug inserted, if anal sex is part of your paradigm... and that is how you will be taken that night.
c. With your mouth taped shut.
d. Nude.
e. Hobbled.

my Master has had me do all of these, except for taping my mouth (He just put a gag in it) and hobbling but, i would enjoy that, just as i enjoy everything on this list. These are not punishments to me. These are enjoyable activities my Master enjoys having me experience.

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ORIGINAL: gringuita
What I'm wondering is, does anyone have any ideas for a memorable and at least somewhat calculable punishment that doesn't involve bruised ass cheeks?

Daddy did say I'm quite willful so it would have to be something that will stick in my mind, but we'd love to hear any suggestions.

When my Master wants to punish me, He makes me sit in a corner for an extended period (1-2 hours usually) and do nothing. He knows how much i can't stand not being able to do anything and all i can do is sit there and think.

The worst punishment my Master ever used on me was to forbid me to serve Him, in any way, for 3 days. He wouldn't allow me to do anything for Him, not even make His coffee or wash His clothes. That was a long and horrible 3 days.

But, in my opinion, no punishment is really effective, unless you are motivated to learn and adjust your behavior. As long as you are truly wanting to accomplish what you Master assigns to you, you will be able to get it done and the only thing that any punishment or "retraining" will do is reinforce what you are motivated to do. Best of luck to you.

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RE: unforgettable punishments - 8/22/2007 11:50:17 AM

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Great new ideas and insights, especially understanding a bit of the psychology from my side.

I have felt a bit like I've lost my Daddy, between getting on with life in a vanilla way to get moved and not having Him home with me or His attention with adjusting to a new job and life that He's going through now.

Silence in a corner for a few hours or no interaction for several days wouldn't do much for me, as when I'm feeling down I tend to be quiet and isolate myself a bit.

I appreciate the idea of positive reinforcement, as, knowing that I'm pleasing is the best inspiration to please more for me. It's so easy when I'm already feeling down to get into the 'what's the point in trying?' mentality when I put in effort and can't seem to please.

So, with all this that's been in my head but now phrased in a way that makes sense, working through, getting back to 'normal' will be easier.

thanks all!

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RE: unforgettable punishments - 8/22/2007 12:02:39 PM

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Now as a Skinner believer, in positive and negative reinforcement, it works well if both are included. If it just negative reinforcement, and nothing as a reward system, well, IMO, that will just crush someone and will not be effective at all.

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RE: unforgettable punishments - 8/22/2007 12:22:58 PM

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If you're looking strictly at something to be punished, there are always a wide variety of things to do that do not involve spankings. While several people had mentioned silence--and I do agree with that wholeheartedly--I have known people that require a more physical sort of punishment. Not so they are really punished by me, but so that they can forgive themselves for the error and move on.

Depending on your personal acceptance (And health! Punishments must only be done when the submissive is in good physical health.), I have had a submissive stand in a bucket filled with ice and salt water--only around 3-4 inches deep. Once there for a minimum of two minutes, then she would have to explain the proper means to doing the task she failed to perform. It makes the point if you need a punishment that leaves no physical marks of any kind, but is still memorable an hour later. I would insist that you never stand in it for longer than 5 minutes, just to be safe.

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RE: unforgettable punishments - 8/23/2007 7:19:47 AM

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Plan something wonderful for the two of you together at the end of the week. Then if your point score goes over, you miss out.

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RE: unforgettable punishments - 8/23/2007 9:17:09 AM

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Gringuita;

First, take any advice you get from me or anyone else with that proverbial grain of salt. I have no idea how old your Master is, but experience has always taught me that a real Master is also a teacher. As such "punishment" should not be part of what he does. You clearly act out of love, and so love is what he should use to help you learn.

Now having said that, discipline is always good for the soul but one must be careful to let the punishment fit the crime. Many of the things suggested would not do that. For my part I am a true dyed in the wool sadist. BUT I never EVER do anythiing to a slave if I am angry. Torture for me is a pleasure and something that I take from a slave.

It may be difficult for you are young and have moved away from all that is familiar, you are to be commended for that. Perhaps one way of making things better is for you to work on him. Serve him with more fervor, you already, I am sure, know what will excite him and appeal to him.. Do do it. You know you can be an agressive slave and serve more than expected and not be toping from the bottom at all.

I have no idea if I have helped for none of us here know the two of you and what you were before you moved and what sort of pressures the two of you face. If you need a friend and/or advice from a somewhat experienced person feel free to write. Best of luck to the two of you

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RE: unforgettable punishments - 8/24/2007 7:21:47 PM

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I'm a masochist, so pain was usually part of any punishment..........pain just over my limits. The worst I have ever received was to have a buttplug coated with Icy Hot inserted into my rectum. The burning pain was just beyond anything I have ever experienced. She had me gagged and tied down, which was necessary because I was screaming like crazy and thrashing around all over the place.

I ended up with rope burns and cuts on my wrists and ankles. It was only left in me for a few minutes, but the pain just lingered for hours and I just cried and cried. A lot of that was because I disappointed her in a very serious manner, but it was also from the pain. So it was mental and physical pain. I most definitely learned my lesson and I never experienced that again fortunately.

But if you aren't into pain, being made to sit in the corner in slience is a good punishment. I did receive that on occassion and it was very effective. Caging is another good one. You could also do something where you are forced to stand naked in front of others as a form of punishment through humiliation - if that isn't something you normally do.

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RE: unforgettable punishments - 8/25/2007 11:51:01 PM

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well this may not be what you are looking for , as this was a severe punishment and not for fun at all, but one weekend Master and i spent some time with another Master and his sub. this other master decided to punish me for a percieved breach of rules on my part and decided to punish me. he had me lay down and blindfolded me, then he used a pickled pepper on my nether regions, rubbing the hot thig on my most sensitive areas and puttign it a bit inside before throwing it away.
OH THE PAIN!
never again will i even look at a bottel of this stuff without shuddering. Master was so sorry because if he had known the other Dom was going to do this he would have mentioned im allergic to these particular peppers and stopped him.
he did the same thign to his own sub though , since she had forgotten the rules an dnot greeted him properly when he came home from going to get some supplies, and she had no reaction whatsoever. said it stung a little but no biggie.
it was hours before the burning went away and i was able to stop crying and having hysterics. it was days until i was able to have anyone touch m ethere again, and i blistered really badly in the area around my outer bits. that is one punishment, undeserved as it was, that i will never forget. if your Master is particularly sadistic and you have a sensitivity to certain things i suggest you just forget i said anytign .

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RE: unforgettable punishments - 9/2/2007 2:50:38 AM

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greetings dear
i think to punish someone so bad they need to write here is way to much. there are so many ways to punish without leaving a slave so bruised she is sick and not feeling love. he has gone to far way to far. i am indeed sorry your home sick and then beaten way to hard he is a sadist

Mons ( i know you love him but he may beat the love you have for him out of you ) take dear master's take note beating if done to much will have a slave leaving you fast a true master finds ways that make the point and leaves a point taken . men huh

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RE: unforgettable punishments - 9/2/2007 3:10:51 AM

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I flogged Phoenix with gummy wormes following a harsh spanking with a Mr. Goodbar. I felt that in responce to her being a S.A.M. I Should be a Smart Ass Master in return. It was memorable.

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