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rewarded321 -> Being a slut (7/6/2005 2:10:43 PM)
It seems like sluts are not popular here at all. I wonder why not more Mistresses take any interest in sluts/male whores?

quietkitten -> RE: Being a slut (7/6/2005 2:19:36 PM)
This appears to be your first post, so I am not sure how you came to your conclusion. Anyhow, that aside... Welcome to the forums!

GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Being a slut (7/6/2005 2:34:54 PM)
A slut/whore male, to Me, means you are an exhibitionist bottom looking for someone to partner with so you can get your kinky needs met. This loose definition, which is My definition only, does seem to be supported by what you seek in your profile. I am sure there are some Dommes who are looking for just that. I am not one of them. Just be patient and keep looking.

Euryanx -> RE: Being a slut (7/6/2005 5:16:56 PM)
I'm not sure where you came to the conclusion that sluts are not popular here either... but that said... If they are not, I would venture to guess it's because a lot of women want a partner that they can develop some form of a relationship with, whether that means you're a friend, submissive, lover, whatever. To me, a whore is is only looking for a 1-nite stand. A slut only wants sexual gratification. You find it, and you move on. You don't develop any sort of emotional ties to your partner. I doubt that kind of approach would be very popular among women who want to make some sort of a connection with the people they are intimate with. Of course, I could be completely wrong. You could be defining a slut as simply someone who wants to be treated like a whore, or talked down to that way. If that's the case maybe you need to define your terms a little bit more.

AAkasha -> RE: Being a slut (7/6/2005 5:31:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: rewarded321 It seems like sluts are not popular here at all. I wonder why not more Mistresses take any interest in sluts/male whores? I can't speak for all, but for me -- I don't want a slut/whore. I want to TURN a man into a slut/whore for me. The whole instant slut, instant whore, instant groveling man is a turn off for me. I like the process of making him submit to my wishes. Akasha

lonewolf05 -> RE: Being a slut (7/6/2005 6:17:28 PM)
quote: The whole instant slut, instant whore, instant groveling man is a turn off for me. I like the process of making him submit to my wishes. Akasha ------------------------- instant slut? the it would seem You are not ready for an experienced one then. some of us, are lifestyle experinced and ready to please at a whim. it sounds as if You need to start training ffrom scratch if i read correctly. and good luck to You. i am sure, a Woman of Your standing will find Hers. the wolf 7 days to go.........wheeeeeeeeeeee

Lordandmaster -> RE: Being a slut (7/6/2005 6:21:07 PM)
WAHT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT I LUV SLUTS quote: ORIGINAL: rewarded321 It seems like sluts are not popular here at all.

Euryanx -> RE: Being a slut (7/6/2005 6:35:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster WAHT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT I LUV SLUTS Ding! Ding! We have a winner here! Wolfman, show the Lordandmaster his prize! Your new slut comes equipped with a year's supply of lube, Her Pleasure condoms, and Herpicin! Plus, we're flying you both to Hedonism courtesy of the Phizer Corporation! Have fun lovebirds!

quietkitten -> RE: Being a slut (7/6/2005 6:39:59 PM)
I must remember not to drink anything while reading these posts...... *wipes off her monitor

Lordandmaster -> RE: Being a slut (7/6/2005 7:23:29 PM)
Laughing...I hope it wasn't ginger ale. Snarfing ginger ale is the worst.

EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: Being a slut (7/6/2005 8:07:08 PM)
Depends on the person. I AM a slut and quite happy about it. SOme people don't like it because they think it somehow lessens the quality of who I am or my sexuality (which it doesn't). Some people don't like it because they think it means I lack self esteem or am needing something else (neither is true). And some people love it and love sharing it with me. Those are the ones I have relationships with. Just about preferences, be yourself.

quietkitten -> RE: Being a slut (7/6/2005 8:49:42 PM)
lol.. no it was just some very cold water.. I think I cracked the monitor with an ice cube though[:D]

GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Being a slut (7/7/2005 2:29:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lonewolf05 quote: The whole instant slut, instant whore, instant groveling man is a turn off for me. I like the process of making him submit to my wishes. Akasha ------------------------- instant slut? the it would seem You are not ready for an experienced one then. some of us, are lifestyle experinced and ready to please at a whim. it sounds as if You need to start training ffrom scratch if i read correctly. and good luck to You. i am sure, a Woman of Your standing will find Hers. the wolf 7 days to go.........wheeeeeeeeeeee lonewolf 05, Could you clear something up for Me? Because I am getting rather confused by your posts. I have followed your tidbits for some time now, and through several different personnas. you consistently claim to be self-celibate. you ask many questions about things you do not understand or have never heard of in spite of the fact that you say you have been active in this lifestyle for several years. you say you are service only, and expect no sexual gratification. you told us at one point, under another recent personna that you were a sissy taking natural hormones on your own, without a doctor's supervision. you insist you are a slave, yet in a very recent thread you questioned the idea of female supremacy (something you always list as an interest on your various collarme profiles) and said that you had been raised in a blue collar family where the man always wore the pants and you were taught to never kneel for anyone. And that opinion was offered wth quite a bit of contempt. And now you say "...some of us, are lifestyle experienced and ready to please at a whim." Since this thread is about the sexual side of a male slut and whore, we are discussing that aspect. I have to draw the conclusion that you are using the universal form of "us", as you could not be referring to yourself. No, you did not read it right. It is not that Aakasha is not ready for an experienced male slut. She does not want one. It is not that She "needs to start training from scratch. She prefers that process so the boy will become the slut whore that She wants. I am sure a Woman of Aakasha's standing finds all the boys She wants. I apologize for answering this Aakasha, but I can no longer follow this boy's line of reasoning or continue to ignore his off the cuff remarks that often are completely off base or have little to nothing to do with the discussion. garylee, it is My understanding that you have already been collared by a new Mistress, but you are not meeting Her for another 7 days. I do hope this time things go well for you. I just checked and I see that this latest profile is already MIA.

GentleLady -> RE: Being a slut (7/7/2005 6:33:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: quietkitten lol.. no it was just some very cold water.. I think I cracked the monitor with an ice cube though[:D] wipes tears of laughter from My eyes Gentle Lady

AAkasha -> RE: Being a slut (7/7/2005 9:41:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GoddessDustyGold quote: ORIGINAL: lonewolf05 quote: The whole instant slut, instant whore, instant groveling man is a turn off for me. I like the process of making him submit to my wishes. Akasha ------------------------- instant slut? the it would seem You are not ready for an experienced one then. some of us, are lifestyle experinced and ready to please at a whim. it sounds as if You need to start training ffrom scratch if i read correctly. and good luck to You. i am sure, a Woman of Your standing will find Hers. the wolf 7 days to go.........wheeeeeeeeeeee lonewolf 05, Could you clear something up for Me? Because I am getting rather confused by your posts. I have followed your tidbits for some time now, and through several different personnas. you consistently claim to be self-celibate. you ask many questions about things you do not understand or have never heard of in spite of the fact that you say you have been active in this lifestyle for several years. you say you are service only, and expect no sexual gratification. you told us at one point, under another recent personna that you were a sissy taking natural hormones on your own, without a doctor's supervision. you insist you are a slave, yet in a very recent thread you questioned the idea of female supremacy (something you always list as an interest on your various collarme profiles) and said that you had been raised in a blue collar family where the man always wore the pants and you were taught to never kneel for anyone. And that opinion was offered wth quite a bit of contempt. And now you say "...some of us, are lifestyle experienced and ready to please at a whim." Since this thread is about the sexual side of a male slut and whore, we are discussing that aspect. I have to draw the conclusion that you are using the universal form of "us", as you could not be referring to yourself. No, you did not read it right. It is not that Aakasha is not ready for an experienced male slut. She does not want one. It is not that She "needs to start training from scratch. She prefers that process so the boy will become the slut whore that She wants. I am sure a Woman of Aakasha's standing finds all the boys She wants. I apologize for answering this Aakasha, but I can no longer follow this boy's line of reasoning or continue to ignore his off the cuff remarks that often are completely off base or have little to nothing to do with the discussion. garylee, it is My understanding that you have already been collared by a new Mistress, but you are not meeting Her for another 7 days. I do hope this time things go well for you. I just checked and I see that this latest profile is already MIA. It's fine, GoddessDustyGold, you bring up the same inconsistencies I would have. I think he needs to seriously think about better articulating his own needs and desires, because they shift constantly it seems. Sadly I think he will be back with a new profile in a month or so, bitter and slamming all femdoms because of his own inability to connect. Akasha

FelinePersuasion -> RE: Being a slut (7/7/2005 1:34:53 PM)
I'm not a Femdom. But I can tell you my opnions. I don't want somebody who's a slut for just anybody. I want to be the only person he is aslut for and lusting over. It's a turn off to me when they'd drool and be slutty for just any woman who liked. Edited to add, That I ment during the period we were together, I'd want to have him be my slut and only mine.

MaitresseEden -> RE: Being a slut (7/7/2005 1:41:39 PM)
While there is nothing wrong with "consentual" slutting around. It is often very taxing on a relationship. Not to mention the physical health risks that are inherant with this behavior. Most people find that excessive slutty behavior crosses the line of "sane" and "safe" behavior. Having been in a LTR with a slut, I can tell you that while I enjoyed watching and participating and even arrangeing some of his encounters, I found that over time, the focus was more on his happiness, and his need to be a slut as opposed to my needs, and my happiness. The focus becomes on the "slut" and not on the couple, or the relationship. Hence while interesting and fun at times it rarely is lasting in my opinion. Ms. Eden P.S. and despite my active participation in ethical sluthood I never got my free trip from Phizer.

pleasureforHim -> RE: Being a slut (7/7/2005 5:42:11 PM)
quote: WAHT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT I LUV SLUTS Am wondering..is this syllogism true? If Lam loves you..are you a slut? pleasureforHim

EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: Being a slut (7/7/2005 6:08:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MaitresseEden While there is nothing wrong with "consentual" slutting around. It is often very taxing on a relationship. Not to mention the physical health risks that are inherant with this behavior. Most people find that excessive slutty behavior crosses the line of "sane" and "safe" behavior. Having been in a LTR with a slut, I can tell you that while I enjoyed watching and participating and even arrangeing some of his encounters, I found that over time, the focus was more on his happiness, and his need to be a slut as opposed to my needs, and my happiness. The focus becomes on the "slut" and not on the couple, or the relationship. Hence while interesting and fun at times it rarely is lasting in my opinion. Ms. Eden P.S. and despite my active participation in ethical sluthood I never got my free trip from Phizer. Interestingly enough Eden, that's pretty much how I feel about masochists. And overall I think you're correct when it comes to sluts...I simply have learned how to balance it being all about me AND being all about the Owner at the same time.

dominmd -> RE: Being a slut (7/7/2005 8:05:34 PM)
I think that if you will go to AAkasha's website you will indeed find your answers. Her site is one of the first I found when I was trying to figure out who I was. She does not need me to defend her as she can do so quite well for herself. Just wanted to give some respect where it is due. By the way AAkasha, I do love your site. It makes the sub in me purr.

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