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RE: Online Psychologist? - 8/30/2007 1:46:37 AM

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ORIGINAL: Neala

I think you can get to know a person some what by their words online. I just...think over analyzing someone with their responses when they can not put the full depth of their feelings in to something (like they can in person) is not a good thing. People can't help but judge. I can see how someone typing "I like to drain the blood from goats and paint my walls with it" would be a good time to analyze someone and NOT meet them in person. Lol

The thing with the in person bit is just that. I can see their reactions. If someone appears to be calm and I ask them a certain question and it makes them very nervous...I can assume the answer makes them uncomfortable or they are going to tell me a lie. Online..I can not see this. I can not hear their voice. Maybe I'm just an old soul (so says the eighteen year old) I like seeing someone when I speak with them. I hate waiting forever to meet someone in person. I figure if I like you and you like me..then...we can't go further online then the liking stage. Let's meet in person!

So..all in all..I may have just rambled a lot. My point is....judging someone on line can lead to a lot of mistakes. I know often times what I say on the phone or type on the computer is misunderstood. My words only get me so far. I express a lot in facial expressions. So, I try not to analyze someone too much online. To a degree analyzing someone online is a good thing. Analyzing rather or not their hobbies, interests and stuff like that will mix with yours is very good. Getting to know someone beyond that (in my opinion) from a computer screen is just a waste of time.

There ya have it.

until this week I never posted to the boards. I am amazed at how many armchair Dr Phills there are here.

I have so far been analyzed and diagnosed as an opportunist, a victimizer and a child molester just using the boards to get laid. this was all based on my posts here. Mind you not one of theses well meaning Dr Phil wannabes knows me in real life or as even talked to me in the phone... ..... I started a thread here asking a question posed to me by someone and everyone analyzed submissives in general based on my post LOL it was so bad and to a point that one of my friends concluded because of the posts she must be unstable insecure and unworthy of a relationship with anyone all based on generalizations of submissives posted to the thread..

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RE: Online Psychologist? - 8/30/2007 12:56:12 PM

akisha

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ORIGINAL: Neala

I just had the lovely opportunity of meeting Mr. Shrink and was curious if you boys and girls have ever run into that type before?

Ya know the type when ya say something other than "Yes, lord of all things great and wonderful" they start to analyze you.

"Yes, I think you have deep seeded child hood issues because you like vanilla ice cream and have this weird thing...called...an opinion!"

What, what, whhhhat?! Slaves have an opinion...slander!

Okay..so...yes...have you lovelies run into this as well?

Yup had a couple of those.

My favorite still is the guy that said he was psychic and an empath and knew better then I did as to what it was I was feeling and what I needed. And suprise suprise, he was exactly the person that could give it to me.

Damn impressive from over 10,000 miles away lmao

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