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looking for d/s feedback on my haircut fetish - 8/27/2007 8:54:44 AM   
misterhappy


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Status: offline 		i am a middle aged straight, happily married guy with a haircutting fetish.  Seeing a beautiful woman shorn, or having my own hair cut, is a major turn on.   The more hair cut off, the more exciting.  For many years, mrs. happy has indulged my interest, but has gotten to a point in her own life where she feels the fetish is more of an imposition on our intimate life than a positive. 

However, it has been part of our intimate life long enough that she also does not want me to share it outside our relationship, so I am effectively closeted, even though I am at a point where I would like to be a bit more 'out' about it in the 'real' world as well as on-line. 

Thank god for the internet... for many years i thought i was alone in this fetish, at least I know now that I am not as weird as I thought. 

One issue is that a major haircut can happen only so often.  And for a professional middle aged guy, it is hard to justify radical appearance changes that would be perfectly normal for a woman.

The ultimate fantasy would be for my wife to take me to a barber shop with an attractive and domineering female barber, and telling her to shear off my thick (although now graying) curls.  Or to find a long haired woman who needs the same.  In the meantime, I would love to find people who would like to explore this kind of fantasy via chat or whatever. 

Any thoughts or advice?

Thanks

Mr. H




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RE: looking for d/s feedback on my haircut fetish - 8/27/2007 9:13:17 AM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		Buy wigs, put them on your wife and cut the wigs?

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RE: looking for d/s feedback on my haircut fetish - 8/27/2007 10:02:55 AM   
sweets4u


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Status: offline 		I share your fetish. I've found that as far as fetishes go......its pretty uncommon.

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RE: looking for d/s feedback on my haircut fetish - 8/27/2007 11:09:09 AM   
misterhappy


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Status: offline 		We've done the wig route.  It's fun play, but in a limited way.  While it definitely satisfies the visual, the tactile is all wrong, at least for the wigs we can afford.  

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RE: looking for d/s feedback on my haircut fetish - 8/27/2007 11:35:55 AM   
MizzElle


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Status: offline 		There are hair extensions made from human hair that may be more economical, but probably not by much.

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RE: looking for d/s feedback on my haircut fetish - 8/27/2007 12:15:40 PM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		When I am ready to take My boy under collar--I will be taking him to the barber to be shaved bald.

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RE: looking for d/s feedback on my haircut fetish - 8/27/2007 2:52:08 PM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: misterhappy

We've done the wig route.  It's fun play, but in a limited way.  While it definitely satisfies the visual, the tactile is all wrong, at least for the wigs we can afford.  


Given any thought to becoming a hairdresser? I'm only half-joking. Of course you wouldn't get to pretend it was forced through.

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RE: looking for d/s feedback on my haircut fetish - 8/28/2007 7:04:29 AM   
misterhappy


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Status: offline 		have you done this in the past?  i would very much like to hear about your experiences and/or plans.

thanks!

Mr. H

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ORIGINAL: MHOO314

When I am ready to take My boy under collar--I will be taking him to the barber to be shaved bald.

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RE: looking for d/s feedback on my haircut fetish - 8/28/2007 7:06:17 AM   
misterhappy


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Status: offline 		aside from a complete lack of "style" and a complete lack of physical coordination...

besides, this fantasy isn't about actually doing something for somebody else, it is rather selfish for my own enjoyment.

Appreciate the resonse.  thx.

Mr. H

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub



Given any thought to becoming a hairdresser? I'm only half-joking. Of course you wouldn't get to pretend it was forced through.

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RE: looking for d/s feedback on my haircut fetish - 8/28/2007 8:24:56 PM   
NewYorkCitysub


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Status: offline 		www.haircut.net
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RE: looking for d/s feedback on my haircut fetish - 8/28/2007 10:28:43 PM   
YesMistressIrish


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Status: offline 		I like to hear about fetishes and am glad you shared one of yours. I  wanted to ask you if you had thought about being a hairdresser, but Equaticsub asked first.

If you went to hairdressing school, maybe you could volunteer for the group (aack, what's it called?) that cuts long hair for cancer victims?

Then take your turned on self back home, and make your wife happy?

MI


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RE: looking for d/s feedback on my haircut fetish - 8/28/2007 11:11:35 PM   
sydneypig


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Status: offline 		Well you are not the only one with this interest.......although i prefer a dungeon type setting.I recently checked out YouTube and found some great clips.....

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RE: looking for d/s feedback on my haircut fetish - 8/29/2007 5:30:17 AM   
misterhappy


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Status: offline 		thanks for all the feedback.  i've been a part of the on-line hair fetish scene as long as there has been one, so those links are all things I am familiar with.  If anyone wants others I can provide them.  I came here looking for the d/s side of things.  I would be happy to be in contact with anyone who finds these ideas... intriguing.

Mr. H

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RE: looking for d/s feedback on my haircut fetish - 10/26/2008 7:17:52 AM   
DDdesires


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Status: offline 		I have a strong interest in this as well.  I often fantasize about being given a punishment haircut.

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RE: looking for d/s feedback on my haircut fetish - 10/26/2008 7:51:57 AM   
MsStarlett


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Status: offline 		One of my "Fave Four" has a hair cut fetish.  He has expressed how much he yearns to cut my hair off.  I told him he would never be allowed in my presence with a pair of scissors... or any other sharp instruments.  I don't trust ANYONE that much!  But then, you have to realize just how obsessed I am about my hair.

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RE: looking for d/s feedback on my haircut fetish - 10/26/2008 9:54:28 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Holy Thread Necro!    I've only met a few with this fetish, and I love shaving, so I am really sad that they enjoyed talking about the fetish more than actually engaging in it. 

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RE: looking for d/s feedback on my haircut fetish - 10/26/2008 6:36:18 PM   
cdclaireck


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Status: offline 		thanks for bringing up this topic misterhappy i feel as a hair anythign loving submissive that it is way overdue.

i too have a fetish that includes anything really to do with hairdressing and a salon. Currently i have a desire to be a personal hairdresser to a Domme however i have no official trainign, i would like some to be able to do things right.

thanks again for bringing this up.

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RE: looking for d/s feedback on my haircut fetish - 10/26/2008 7:24:53 PM   
Usako


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quote:

ORIGINAL: misterhappy

I came here looking for the d/s side of things.


I don't really see much D/s in your fetish though. You already stated that it's really a selfish one and you don't desire to do it out of service. I know you mentioned in the first post a "domineering" female barber. I don't know, it just sounds confusing. You enjoy the fetish soley for yourself and even in the stated fantasy the "domineering" woman is being told by you to to do the shaving.

I'm not knowing your fetish but I don't see much d/s in it. It just sounds like pure, unadulterated kink.

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RE: looking for d/s feedback on my haircut fetish - 10/27/2008 1:03:02 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		NOW... I get it!  All those hair stylist that loved to cut my hair too short! Damn I am a slow learner!  I say just an inch or two and they get four...  Now I just go in very determined and they behave... I have taken my hair down to a quarter inch and could carry the look when younger... even learned you never let your boyfriend cut your hair... well when he has a jealous thing... but anyone even suggesting I cut my hair now... is going to be watched like a hawk and bound while I sleep!

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RE: looking for d/s feedback on my haircut fetish - 12/23/2008 4:11:24 AM   
hircutluv


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Status: offline 		i love to be under hairdresser control as slave and cut my hair during bondage and tie to the chair in public or to be inbondage device and use to cut my hair while am in cross or any other device

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