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the tea cup - 8/27/2007 12:21:30 PM   
crouchingtigress


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The Tea Cup
The story is told of a couple who went to England to celebrate their 25th
wedding anniversary and shopped at a beautiful antique store.
They both liked antiques and pottery,and especially tea-cups,and so spotting
an exceptional cup,they asked "May we see that? We've never seen a cup
quite so beautiful."
As the lady handed it to them, suddenly the tea-cup spoke...
"You don't understand." It said, "I have not always been a tea-cup.There
was a time when I was just a lump of red clay. My master took me and rolled
me pounded and patted me over and over and I yelled out, Don't do that. I
don't like it! "Let me alone," but he only smiled, and gently said; "Not yet!!"
"Then, WHAM!
I was placed on a spinning wheel and suddenly I was spun
around and around and around. 'Stop it! I'm getting so dizzy! I'm going to
be sick!, I screamed.
But the master only nodded and said, quietly; 'Not yet.'
He spun me and poked and prodded and bent me out of shape to suit
himself and then.....he put me in the oven. I never felt such heat. I yelled
and knocked and pounded at the door. "Help! Get me out of here!"
'Not yet.'
When I thought I couldn't bear it another minute, the door opened. He
carefully took me out and put me on the shelf, and I began to cool.
Oh, that felt so good! "Ah, this is much better," I thought. But,after I
cooled he picked me up and he brushed and painted me all over. The fumes
were horrible.. 'Oh, please, Stop it! Stop it!' I cried.
He only shook his head and said. 'Not yet...'
Then suddenly he put me back into the oven. Only it was not like the first
time. This time it was twice as hot and I just knew I would suffocate.
I begged... I pleaded... I screamed...I cried... I was convinced I would never
make it.
I was ready to give up and just then the door opened and he took me out
and again placed me on the shelf, where I cooled and waited and waited,
wondering ' what's he going to do to me next?'
An hour later he handed me a mirror and said 'Look at yourself.'
And I did....I said, 'That's not me, that couldn't be me.
It's beautiful. I'm beautiful!'
Quietly he spoke: "I want you to remember, then,' he said, 'I know it hurt to
be rolled and pounded and patted, but had I just left you alone, you'd have
dried up.
I know it made you dizzy to spin around on the wheel, but if I had stopped,
you would have crumbled.
I know it hurt and it was hot and disagreeable in the oven, but if I hadn't put
you there, you would have cracked.
I know the fumes were bad when I brushed and painted you all over, but if I
hadn't done that, you never would have hardened. You would not have had
any color in your life.
And if I hadn't put you back in that second oven, you wouldn't have
survived for long because the hardness would not have held.
Now you are a finished product. Now you are what I had in mind when I
first began with you."


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RE: the tea cup - 8/27/2007 12:28:30 PM   
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That's a beautiful story, Tigress, and so very applicable to some relationships I've been in.

Thank you for sharing it.

on edit: just removing the quote for brevity's sake.

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RE: the tea cup - 8/27/2007 12:36:23 PM   
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Not my cup of tea personally.  I'm already a pretty well finished person, I'm not in need of refinement, molding, or coaching to be made into a better person.

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RE: the tea cup - 8/27/2007 12:40:44 PM   
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You always have wise stories.

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RE: the tea cup - 8/27/2007 12:43:46 PM   
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It's tough how much dominants have to go through in order to be capable of handling a serious relationship.  But gotta break a few eggs!

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RE: the tea cup - 8/27/2007 12:45:29 PM   
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But was it what the CLAY wanted?  Maybe it wanted to be mixed with straw and become adobe and made into a house for a family.  MAYBE it may wave wanted to stay in the ground and be hard packed and graded level to provide a solid foundation  for the house.

(but it is a nice story)  :)

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RE: the tea cup - 8/27/2007 12:50:56 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

The Tea Cup
The story is told of a couple who went to England to celebrate their 25th
wedding anniversary and shopped at a beautiful antique store.
They both liked antiques and pottery,and especially tea-cups,and so spotting
an exceptional cup,they asked "May we see that? We've never seen a cup
quite so beautiful."
As the lady handed it to them, suddenly the tea-cup spoke...
"You don't understand." It said, "I have not always been a tea-cup.There
was a time when I was just a lump of red clay. My master took me and rolled
me pounded and patted me over and over and I yelled out, Don't do that. I
don't like it! "Let me alone," but he only smiled, and gently said; "Not yet!!"
"Then, WHAM!
I was placed on a spinning wheel and suddenly I was spun
around and around and around. 'Stop it! I'm getting so dizzy! I'm going to
be sick!, I screamed.
But the master only nodded and said, quietly; 'Not yet.'
He spun me and poked and prodded and bent me out of shape to suit
himself and then.....he put me in the oven. I never felt such heat. I yelled
and knocked and pounded at the door. "Help! Get me out of here!"
'Not yet.'
When I thought I couldn't bear it another minute, the door opened. He
carefully took me out and put me on the shelf, and I began to cool.
Oh, that felt so good! "Ah, this is much better," I thought. But,after I
cooled he picked me up and he brushed and painted me all over. The fumes
were horrible.. 'Oh, please, Stop it! Stop it!' I cried.
He only shook his head and said. 'Not yet...'
Then suddenly he put me back into the oven. Only it was not like the first
time. This time it was twice as hot and I just knew I would suffocate.
I begged... I pleaded... I screamed...I cried... I was convinced I would never
make it.
I was ready to give up and just then the door opened and he took me out
and again placed me on the shelf, where I cooled and waited and waited,
wondering ' what's he going to do to me next?'
An hour later he handed me a mirror and said 'Look at yourself.'
And I did....I said, 'That's not me, that couldn't be me.
It's beautiful. I'm beautiful!'
Quietly he spoke: "I want you to remember, then,' he said, 'I know it hurt to
be rolled and pounded and patted, but had I just left you alone, you'd have
dried up.
I know it made you dizzy to spin around on the wheel, but if I had stopped,
you would have crumbled.
I know it hurt and it was hot and disagreeable in the oven, but if I hadn't put
you there, you would have cracked.
I know the fumes were bad when I brushed and painted you all over, but if I
hadn't done that, you never would have hardened. You would not have had
any color in your life.
And if I hadn't put you back in that second oven, you wouldn't have
survived for long because the hardness would not have held.
Now you are a finished product. Now you are what I had in mind when I
first began with you."


Beautiful...and i get it...thanks for posting this.


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RE: the tea cup - 8/27/2007 1:04:15 PM   
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A lovely story but I don't really believe in being "molded" by my dominant. I will grow with his encouragement and change as I grow. I love that he encourages me to grow, but I don't believe in being with someone for you think they can be as opposed to who they are. I wouldn't want to be with someone who didn't love the person I am now.

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RE: the tea cup - 8/27/2007 5:48:59 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

It's tough how much dominants have to go through in order to be capable of handling a serious relationship.  But gotta break a few eggs!

Yeah, but I don't mind... at least not until they start breaking the tea cups over my head!   I shoulda known when she asked if I wanted one lump or two... I don't take sugar with my tea!  Hard way to learn I tell ya... hard way to learn. 

On an entirely unrelated note, I once knew a lass who collected tea cups... still kinda miss that one.

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RE: the tea cup - 8/27/2007 5:54:00 PM   
xoxi


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And the moral of the story is Dom/mes are human and subs are inanimate lumps of clay with no thoughts, desires, or dreams other than to be molded into a very specific final product?  I don't see anything that says the clay asked to become a tea cup.

Yes I am reading far too much into this.  It's a cute story, although sort of reminds me of Houseplants of Gor - http://www.rdrop.com/~/wyvern/data/houseplants.html

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RE: the tea cup - 8/27/2007 6:06:24 PM   
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Beautiful little story................

To those that think they are fully moulded.................

Life has a way of..................

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RE: the tea cup - 8/27/2007 6:12:05 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: HCWT1

Beautiful little story................

To those that think they are fully moulded.................

Life has a way of..................


The point, to me, is not that I am a fully molded. I know for a fact that I still have growing and learning to do. But I'm not interested in anyone who only sees me as a lump of clay to mold into something beautiful instead of something beautiful already.

I don't need someone else to "finish" me. I am only interested in those who love me for who I am and want to be there so that we can grow together.

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RE: the tea cup - 8/27/2007 6:56:13 PM   
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I prefer my women like coffee beans: tied up in a sack and thrown over the back of a donkey.

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RE: the tea cup - 8/27/2007 7:14:04 PM   
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Ok....the thing is....who molded the dominant?  I can't *ahem* mold anyone unless I'm already molded and polished....  I really feel that my ward is not a lump of clay but we are two people growing and learning together to make each other better. 

I am quite tired of the suggestion that because one is submissive one is without ability to grow unless someone is there to water and shed light.  I am quite tired of the suggestion that because one is dominant he has the innate ability to help someone grow.  Bah.

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RE: the tea cup - 8/27/2007 7:18:29 PM   
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Am I the only one that feels the need to go to a china shop with a baseball bat after reading the OP?

Houseplants of Gor meets Hallmark Card with Footsteps on the Sand for good measure... I need to take a shower to get this sickly sweet treacle off of me...

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RE: the tea cup - 8/27/2007 7:26:38 PM   
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Beautiful story but sounds like abuse to me.  The tea cup needed a safe word.

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RE: the tea cup - 8/27/2007 7:36:53 PM   
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Amazing how BobKGin and a few others can see the beauty of the story and sooo many others take offense at a simple allegorical tale that personifies the story I've heard so many times on this site by subs and slaves who praise their owner for developing the into what thay have become! Sad that so many on this site have to twist the original intent of an OP and dash the lovliness of some statements and thoughts expressed here simply to bash and break and deny wondrous things said here George 

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RE: the tea cup - 8/27/2007 7:46:59 PM   
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Actually, my post was to point out that not all see the teacup in the same way. In fact, many zen stories are of the masters in the tradition achieving enlightenment when seeing impermanence illustrated by the smashing of pottery...

The fact that I point to this in an abrasive manner is irrelevant. The fact that I bluntly say that the sentiment involved is trite and derivative and leaves me feeling dirty is equally irrelevant. What is relevant is that there are other viewpoints that don't blindly agree with everyone else.

Welcome to America, where people die to protect our right to disagree with each other's views.

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RE: the tea cup - 8/27/2007 7:53:07 PM   
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How much did the tea cup cost (including tax)?

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RE: the tea cup - 8/27/2007 8:06:34 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: georgejames68

Amazing how BobKGin and a few others can see the beauty of the story and sooo many others take offense at a simple allegorical tale that personifies the story I've heard so many times on this site by subs and slaves who praise their owner for developing the into what thay have become! Sad that so many on this site have to twist the original intent of an OP and dash the lovliness of some statements and thoughts expressed here simply to bash and break and deny wondrous things said here George 


Since when is pointing out that not everyone agrees with this taking offense?

When you post something on the message boards, it is posted for comments. Not everyone is going to think it's a beautiful story. I think it's lovely in that "sure it's pretty but I wouldn't want it in my house" kind of way. The message doesn't speak to everyone. That doesn't diminish the beauty of the story for you.

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