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RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent - 8/29/2007 10:52:41 AM

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RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent - 8/29/2007 10:55:29 AM

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Newsflash!!!!!!! Oh my god-you are soooooooo right, I never heard it stated like that before-my business model IS bullshit, I think its time to put away the whips, chains and rubber and get a real productive job like being a sex therapist and helping people deal with their sexual issues and charging by the hour to do so.......wait, hmmmm I am confused.

And please, don't say such mean things about us pros-we really can't handle it, it hurts sooooooo deep inside-oh no thats my gorilla strap-on hurting the ass of the slut in front of me now, oops.

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RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent - 8/29/2007 10:57:08 AM

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shiiiiiiiiit...I think I just wet myself

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RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent - 8/29/2007 11:04:11 AM

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And please, don't say such mean things about us pros-we really can't handle it, it hurts sooooooo deep inside-oh no thats my gorilla strap-on hurting the ass of the slut in front of me now, oops.

gorilla strap-on?? isn't that agains TOS or something?

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RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent - 8/29/2007 11:39:11 AM

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Newsflash!!!!!!! Oh my god-you are soooooooo right, I never heard it stated like that before-my business model IS bullshit, I think its time to put away the whips, chains and rubber and get a real productive job like being a sex therapist and helping people deal with their sexual issues and charging by the hour to do so.......wait, hmmmm I am confused.

And please, don't say such mean things about us pros-we really can't handle it, it hurts sooooooo deep inside-oh no thats my gorilla strap-on hurting the ass of the slut in front of me now, oops.

-as I've noticed already in my short time reading this forum, alot of the anti-prodomme/finacial tribute posts are legitimate discussions about online scam artists and a false perception of the whole enterprise being niche prostitution. Oftentimes this isnt the case. these are popular misconceptions that arn't going to go away.

dispelling these myths and explaining that many pro-dommes are in fact well trained and well equiped and serve a purpose is completely different than sterotyping submissives by their orientation and saying they have no right to question the status quo.

When you make blanket statements about anybody even romotely questioning any aspect of domination for money, you come off to people as actually being insecure and hurt when people discuss the bussiness critically.

Ava, I've read a couple of you're posts explaining how some people in the biz are legitimate and shouldn't be lumped in with the cons. But when people lump all subs together as spineless, their going to feel attacked and be less willing to listen to what your saying.

As I've said before, thanks to those who take my own rants with a grain of salt.

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RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent - 8/29/2007 1:23:53 PM

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Thx for the confusion clarification. I had wondered about why MsKittyBlack seems to respnd to your threads and not leave actual messages. She is a lucky lady to have such a servant and apparently good at giving directions too. A switch activity, dominant servant - wow, sounds like a whole lotta fun.

BoiJen - you have a crystal clear view and way of communicating that begs appreciation and teaches both s and D types. Plus your just so damn cute and yummy you've managed to make many of us lust for a peice of the boi. Take care and thanks for your wisdom and direct posts.

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RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent - 8/29/2007 1:40:02 PM

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Thank you. MsK has done many many things for me as a person, a friend, and Her boi. I'm very lucky to have the opprotunity to serve Her. I do apologize about not clearing that up sooner I just thought I'd catch it ahead of time and seems I didn't. To give direction effectively you must have one willing to follow said direction. It's why I'm here...the willingness.

Now wouldn't that be a topic? How does willingness factor into D/s relationships? I wouldn't imagine that it would be much different from vanilla relationships but then again ....I dunno. I'm ranting now.

I greatly appreciate your acknowledgement. Be safe

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RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent - 8/29/2007 2:12:59 PM

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With a 2x4?

What should we charge, $50.00 an inch? Doing the math now.......a standard 8 foot 2x4 upside the head would cost them......$4,800.00. Sounds fair to me.

i cant take the credit for this, but i did see a thread where it was referred to as a clue by four.

Getting back to the OP jen is right, there are a lot of whiney posts about tributes ect. Then again there are whiney posts about everything, From D and s types and male and female types.
Its the nature of the beast.

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RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent - 8/29/2007 2:13:13 PM

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G'afternoon all:

cloudboy. Obviously, your powers of perception are flawed. One person's whine is another's point of view. You're unable to be be unbiased because you are male submissive. Step out of your box and look at discussions objectively then perhaps the light will dawn on you.

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RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent - 8/29/2007 2:24:33 PM

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G'afternoon all:

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Bella, you can believe what you want, but in some ways you don't have a clue.
I didn't question at all the dislike for whiny subs, and I understand exactly where all this ire is coming from. I just think this whole thing gets overblown, and some of the things that are said seem pretty hypocritical. Constantly whining about constant whiners. Get it? But you didn't see that, and decided to make it personal. Frankly, I don't really care what you think, but I'll try to explain something to you just this once.
You seem to love attacking me, and the "type" of sub I am, but you don't even seem to understand the meaning of the interests lists in a profile. Interests are just that - interests. Not demands, not things a sub requires from a dom/me, just interests. The fact that I won't sub to just any fart who calls herself a domme, that she has to be someone who has a special quality to make me want to submit, doesn't make me a "do-me" sub either. I'm not even close to that, but you're so blinded by your own prejudices that you'd never see it.

Oy vey. Let me explain something to you, since you seem to have gotten personal. You present a list of interests in your profile, not one of them vanilla. That screams "do-me" to anyone that's been into the scene for any extended period of time.

As to prejudices? Mine don't revolve within this lifestyle. What I do have is a lot of experience, first hand observations and opinions. I'm not blinded by these, rather I'm jaded. Realize, if you post on a semi-public forum, it's bound to be commented on. If you didn't care about my opinion, then why did you reply? You could just as easily ignore it. Food for thought.

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RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent - 8/29/2007 2:26:29 PM

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G'afternoon all:

cloudboy. Obviously, your powers of perception are flawed. One person's whine is another's point of view. You're unable to be be unbiased because you are male submissive. Step out of your box and look at discussions objectively then perhaps the light will dawn on you.

Stay safe, play nice, & share your toys w/ others...

Bella

To suggest a male submissve cant be unbiased seems silly to me. The flip side of this is that a dominant must be biased in the other extreme which is just as silly.
On the "ask a Mistress" board there are loads of posts supportive of Pro Dommes and tributes. Most of the objections are about the scammers.

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RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent - 8/29/2007 2:27:04 PM

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I have nothing vanilla listed in my interests on my profile. Then again I openly admit to being a "do me" kinda boi. Though I'm not really sure what that means.

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RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent - 8/29/2007 2:29:52 PM

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I appreciate your point of view and that you have read my prior posts. I however fully expect to be lumped in by some as a hooker with a whip or another money hungry lazy bitch-my reaction is I KNOW what I really am, I will communicate this on all the other threads and let people decide on their own what pro Dominas are about. This thread offers the rare chance to make fun of those streotypes because we ARE friends and do understand each others point of view. I am sure you will never find that I lump ANYONE in a group here.
And hey-why should all the sex workers be fighting with each other, lets ban together to legalize the shit with the kinky politicians many of us see so this is no longer an issue.

Go to a personals site and answer an ad for a 23 yo hot athletic blonde in great shape, 5'8, 36DD, 120 lbs and HORNY all the time, gasp you might just find out that she is a pro as well! If it looks to good to be true then..........

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RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent - 8/29/2007 2:32:22 PM

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Pro Dommes are hot...otherwise they'd be broke....hehehe...that's a fun joke to tell.

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RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent - 8/29/2007 2:39:53 PM

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G'afternoon all:

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53
To suggest a male submissive cant be unbiased seems silly to me. The flip side of this is that a dominant must be biased in the other extreme which is just as silly.
On the "ask a Mistress" board there are loads of posts supportive of Pro Dommes and tributes. Most of the objections are about the scammers.

Politesub53. Not all, just the one in particular. Fortunately, you brought up the other side of the debate which shows objectivity. Unlike the respondent in question.

Regarding the "Ask a Mistress" forums discussing Pro Dommes. It's generally just the same old hash, hence why I avoid most of those.

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RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent - 8/29/2007 2:47:51 PM

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G'afternoon all:

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I have nothing vanilla listed in my interests on my profile. Then again I openly admit to being a "do me" kinda boi. Though I'm not really sure what that means.

Jen, the fact that you cop to it makes all the difference in the world. Many disguise their fetish fulfillment as submission/servitude. Which is fine and dandy if you're honest about what you want and how you go about getting it accomplished. I find that much more admirable than covering it up with the pretense of posing as a submissive.

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RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent - 8/29/2007 2:51:45 PM

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I don't identify as submissive for a reason. I'ma servant. I serve. I get rewarded for my service. Givent eh chance to pick my reward I want play and I want sex. Fuck lettin me breathe these are the things I enjoy most. Then again so does She so even when I don't get a choice I tend to fair out well.

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RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent - 8/29/2007 3:48:16 PM

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G'afternoon all:

Amen Jen. Does she rent you out? I got some chores that I'd rather not do. I provide snacks and refreshments while you're here. She and I can haggle on price. Unless she barters your service for play? I'm heavy handed so I'd caution you.

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RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent - 8/29/2007 4:17:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: chellekitty

real golden coins or chocolate covered with gold foil?

Ohhhhh, now you have created a dilemma............decisions decisions

i cant believe i gotta say this but.....

EMBRACE THE POWER OF "AND"!

kitten, who is giggling

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RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent - 8/29/2007 5:13:44 PM

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Hit me! Hit me! i'll PayPal you a buck!

Okay........"BONK!"

Nowwwwww, how does that paypal thingy work? Can I set up an ebay account and auction clues off to the highest bidder? Ohhhhh, I see a new bidness opportunity opening up!

Hm... no boldface? No special colors or fonts? i might be able to go 75 cents, but i don't think i got a dollar's worth of utility out of that.
As far as sorting out PayPal, my tech consulting rate is $75/hour, 3 hour minimum... i do take checks

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ORIGINAL: Bella1965
You're unable to be be unbiased because you are male submissive. Step out of your box and look at discussions objectively then perhaps the light will dawn on you.

You know what they say... you can't fully understand a person's perspective until you've walked a mile in their shoes...
Um, do those come in a men's size 11?