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RE: Competition in the 'community' - 8/30/2007 4:37:07 PM   
Aileen68


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Edited to ask...Would he be considered cavemanish?

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RE: Competition in the 'community' - 8/30/2007 4:40:35 PM   
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RE: Competition in the 'community' - 8/30/2007 4:41:18 PM   
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RE: Competition in the 'community' - 8/30/2007 5:04:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Bobkgin

How do you view competition in the BDSM 'community'? Do you participate in it? Why or why not?



There is a competition???  what is everyone competing for ?  

Well if there is one.. I am obviously not participating in it since I didn't know there was a competition.

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RE: Competition in the 'community' - 8/30/2007 5:05:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Give me a guy who grabs me by the hair, slaps my face and pinches a nipple as he forces me to my knees.  He can whisper all the sweet nothings that he wants as he's shoving his cock down my throat, but I doubt I'll be listening.

Edited to ask...Would he be considered cavemanish?

Nah, the hair grabbing makes it cerebral!

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RE: Competition in the 'community' - 8/30/2007 5:09:42 PM   
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But in my travels I've met more than a few women who prefer a more cerebral approach over the troglodyte method.



I dunno. I'm a big fan of having my hair pulled while being dragged back to the cave, so to speak. Now if he can quote Shakespeare and have a discussion, including comparing and contrasting different approaches to producing it, with me about it while I'm being dragged back to the cave, I'm on cloud nine.

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RE: Competition in the 'community' - 8/30/2007 5:17:18 PM   
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RE: Competition in the 'community' - 8/30/2007 5:39:18 PM   
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RE: Competition in the 'community' - 8/30/2007 6:01:01 PM   
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Anyone know which dictionary the mods use when interpreting this clause?


If you put on your big boy pants before heading out to play on the internets you won't need protection from meanies like Aileen.


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RE: Competition in the 'community' - 8/30/2007 6:48:51 PM   
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RE: Competition in the 'community' - 8/30/2007 6:55:05 PM   
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From the "Section Guidelines - General BDSM Discussion":

"Criticism - Please keep criticism to a minimum. While disagreement is okay inflammatory comments aka flaming, humiliating and belittling other users is not acceptable."

Anyone know which dictionary the mods use when interpreting this clause?

Just curious.


I don't think you can say that about her, Bob might tell on you.

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RE: Competition in the 'community' - 8/30/2007 7:02:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		Reading through this, I was wondering to myself if there's any money to be made in renting timeshares for the limelight.

I suppose all it takes is a few large green lamps, some nipple clamps, a large heavy bible (from the barehanded implements thread) a generous amount of rope, some heavy straps of leather, a stop watch, and a cash register.

I don't suppose that would put me in the Pro Dom category though, would it? 

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RE: Competition in the 'community' - 8/30/2007 7:10:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Bobkgin
How do you view competition in the BDSM 'community'? Do you participate in it? Why or why not?


I love it, personally.  Competition gets the juices going.  Competition sharpens the wit and the intellect.  Competition inspires me to look critically at what I do and find ways to improve.

Competition?  Bring it on!


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RE: Competition in the 'community' - 8/30/2007 10:38:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Give me a guy who grabs me by the hair, slaps my face and pinches a nipple as he forces me to my knees.  He can whisper all the sweet nothings that he wants as he's shoving his cock down my throat, but I doubt I'll be listening.

Edited to ask...Would he be considered cavemanish?

What she said.....


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RE: Competition in the 'community' - 8/31/2007 6:38:36 AM   
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Why would anybody want to have a competition over anything?  Bet you could come up with a List of Reasons if you sat down at a Table using a Pen and Paper, away from the Computer and put some Educated Thought and Guess work into it...

Hell Bob, you think Submissives are not into Competition as Well?  You only Mention Us Dom types?  Do you Believe the Submissives Play Nice Nice too?  Woman Can be just as Bad if not Worse than Men when It comes down to this! Plus Woman have the Art of Backstabbing Down to a Science, Men just rather Piss on Each other Out in the Open!





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RE: Competition in the 'community' - 8/31/2007 9:00:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Owner4SexSlave

Bob, a lot of People Do this in all walks on Life just not Here on CollarMe!!!

Why would anybody want to have a competition over anything?  Bet you could come up with a List of Reasons if you sat down at a Table using a Pen and Paper, away from the Computer and put some Educated Thought and Guess work into it...

Hell Bob, you think Submissives are not into Competition as Well?  You only Mention Us Dom types?  Do you Believe the Submissives Play Nice Nice too?  Woman Can be just as Bad if not Worse than Men when It comes down to this! Plus Woman have the Art of Backstabbing Down to a Science, Men just rather Piss on Each other Out in the Open!



As I see it, there are three choices: Competiton, Isolation, or Cooperation.

In the absence of those with whom cooperation is possible, I choose Isolation, as competition (and by that I do not mean friendly competition, such as one finds when playing games with friends) seems to me to be an inherently immature choice.


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RE: Competition in the 'community' - 8/31/2007 9:29:04 AM   
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RE: Competition in the 'community' - 8/31/2007 9:30:22 AM   
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RE: Competition in the 'community' - 8/31/2007 9:43:07 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Bobkgin


As I see it, there are three choices: Competiton, Isolation, or Cooperation.

In the absence of those with whom cooperation is possible, I choose Isolation, as competition (and by that I do not mean friendly competition, such as one finds when playing games with friends) seems to me to be an inherently immature choice.



No bob is an island!  Oh wait, that would make all islands a bob and that won't work either.  Never mind.

I finally figured you out (more or less).  When you speak of competition, you do so in the limited context of your own personal agenda.  You are here to find love.  All things revolve around this strong driving force for yourself, and you seem to have a hard time separating any one topic from this driving force.

When I think about competition in BDSM, I respond with a post:
1)  As it relates to the discussions on this forum.
2)  As it relates to my experience with things
3) As competition relates to my personal philosophy of things in general.

It seems to me that because you cannot separate what you are looking for, from the larger picture, you are limited to just those three choices (competition, isolation, cooperation).

edited to correct typos and add:  I'm not, in the least, criticizing you for wanting to find love.  I am just seeing a repeating theme here, that is driving your responses/posts.

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RE: Competition in the 'community' - 8/31/2007 9:45:07 AM   
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