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Bobkgin -> RE: How do Dominants keep "White Knight" syndrome in check? (9/30/2007 6:34:34 AM)
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ORIGINAL: susie
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ORIGINAL: Bobkgin
1. the double-standard you've established where others can feel free to post their opinions but I must watch what I say.
2. your apparent belief that bullies who hold kangaroo courts, witch hunts, and manufacture evidence can be mollified by the way I express myself, as if bullies -should- be mollified.
Consider the What has happened? thread: "To the elegance, refinement, class and rituals that SM once was 50 or so years ago? How did it get to the point of, blatant crudeness, vulgarity and disrespect for others?"
Compare the OP's question with the way that thread has been handled since it was revived.
The same is true of the Why is Punishment not seen as Abusive? thread. Several people tried to hi-jack it, Mod 11 stepped in, it went back on-topic for a while and then yesterday the same gang tried to hi-jack it yet again. Merc makes claims about what was said in another thread, but for some reason doesn't post those comments to the thread where the quote appears.
Why do you suppose he chose to do that? Would it be caused by the fact that his claims were made in the original thread and were argued extensively till he no longer had a leg to stand on, in which case he decided to try his luck again in an entirely different thread hoping his audience would be unaware of what transpired in the original thread? Would that also explain why he didn't tell anyone where to find the quote, so that others would not read how that debate progressed and see he is merely trying to smear me with false accusations that are obviously false if the original thread were read?
It is not by accident that the "white knights" are obsessive-compulsive, or that this trait appears in so many threads where the same gang tries to hi-jack one thread after another.
Just look at No Limits: How far would you go? for yet another example.
When bullies cannot chase an individual off the boards outright, they resort to a smear campaign. They are so image-conscious that they cannot imagine anyone staying while their reputation is torn to shreds by fabrication and invented 'evidence'.
I do not see bullies here. Sorry. I have been on these boards a lot longer than you have and have never encountered bullying.
This does not surprise me, coming from you.
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As far as I can see YOU are the only one that has ever brought up the subject here.
Perhaps because I'm the only one who didn't run away from it.
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I do not see double standards. Everyone is entitled to their opinions. What they are not entitled to do is to force those opinions onto everyone else here.
Double-talk. How do you "force" anything on anyone in a public forum on the internet?
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The problem comes when someone posts here with the idea that theirs is the only way. It can also become very clear when people are not consistent in their views. Those that appear to be inconsistent are often seen as being fake and here only to "stir things up". I am afraid to say that I have seen you be inconsistent in your views and postings so I am sure I am not the only one.
I am well aware that the bullies repeat these claims, and whenever I've explained apparent 'inconsistencies' they ignore the explanations and repeat the accusations.
Sometimes they even have to change threads in order for their accusations to sound credible.
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When someone disagrees with you on a viewpoint your immediate action is to attempt to put that person down in some way. Witness the way you have responded to Mad Rabbit and Merc in the past.
And the reader can take note of the fact that the two you mentioned are both bullies and both members of this gang of bullies.
Perhaps you've forgotten:
"The objectives of bullies are Power, Control, Domination, Subjugation. They get a kick out of seeing you react. It doesn't matter how you react, the fact they've successful provoked a reaction is, to the bully, a sign that their attempt at control have been successful. After that, it's a question of wearing you down. The more you try to explain, negotiate, conciliate, etc the more gratification they obtain from your increasingly desperate attempts to communicate with them. Understand that it is not possible to communicate in a mature adult manner with a disordered individual who's emotionally retarded."
http://www.bullyonline.org/related/cyber.htm
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Instead of debating and attempting to put your point across whilst also attempting to see theirs, you disregard their view totally. What I see is someone that lacks self esteem and who attempts to denigrate anyone who does not fall into line.
Or someone smart enough to know better than to reason with immature individuals whose obsessive/compulsive disorder renders them incapable of reasoning.
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