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psynymph -> RE: The Ever Tiresome Age Card (9/5/2007 5:41:17 PM)

maybe you didnt pay enough attention to the clit...... which i have been told is the number one mistake

*nods wisely*








*cough* lmao *cough*




domiguy -> RE: The Ever Tiresome Age Card (9/5/2007 5:43:03 PM)

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ORIGINAL: fairerthanshe

You know what I really hate in terms of ageism is right after I've gone down or fisted some young hottie and we have to have the obligatory "talk" and then we figure out that her mom and I lived in the same dorm in college and graduated together...Of course, the only question I can possibly ask in that moment is "So is she still hot?"

chicks get so pissed when they find out you were their moms "experiment" in college.

well wishes ~ fairer than she

to the OP: Send gash shots...



Now that is fucking hawt!!!....I've done much in this life that would make even Jesus hate my ass....The coveted mother and daughter reunion has always eluded me....Does it really exist?  The true test is getting them together...Not decades apart....

Anywhooo, be a champ and forward the op's gash shots upon their arrival.




psynymph -> RE: The Ever Tiresome Age Card (9/5/2007 5:43:15 PM)

ok.... *yells* Godsdamnit i NEVER said i knew ANYTHING!!!  geez people seriously you need to actually read the words!!

*sigh* ok back to the T and A.




bandit25 -> RE: The Ever Tiresome Age Card (9/5/2007 5:44:42 PM)

Um, psy?  If you don't know anything, then why would anyone listen to you...no matter how old you are.  Just kidding, my dear.




hardbodysub -> RE: The Ever Tiresome Age Card (9/5/2007 5:44:43 PM)

Age doesn't necessarily impart wisdom. It should, but it often doesn't. Youth almost never does, although there are some who are wise beyond their years.

Likewise, there are some retain their youthfulness well into their later years, and I'm talking about physical appearance and health as well as spirit.




goalie62 -> RE: The Ever Tiresome Age Card (9/5/2007 5:44:59 PM)

Well, if we're going back to T & A with this, I would like to compliment you on some seriously gorgeous "T", LOL




burningdesires47 -> RE: The Ever Tiresome Age Card (9/5/2007 5:45:48 PM)

I think what you (the OP) is saying is that just because I am only 23 years old doesn't mean I can't, for example, be a better spanker than someone in their 40's. In fact I'm positive I am. I don't care how old you are; talent, skill, willingness to learn, AND number of hours of experience with one particular activity ALL are factors in experience.

I get sick of people assuming that because I am only 23, and new to a particular section of the BDSM community/play party, that I am inexperienced. Thanks, I have more experience under my belt than half the people there, including (and especially) the ones over 50.

I guess I just get sick of the proverbial patting of the head when people see I'm 23, and of getting told that at 23 I cannot possibly have as much experience as I claim (~4 years, if we don't include the couple years of soul searching and denial with few play dates in the middle of it). I lost my virginity at 16, but was Domming at 14 though I didn't know what it was called then.

However... I also agree with Celeste that being with people close to my age-range is important to me, from the world-influences angle. I don't assume that someone my age is more or less experienced than the guy 10 years older, but despite the fact that I get along great with people 20 years older than me, I'd rather not date them. Just a personal preference.




sweetnurseBBW -> RE: The Ever Tiresome Age Card (9/5/2007 5:45:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: goalie62

I think I understand her point though, she just wants people to listen to her viewpoint and show a bit of common respect.  How she said it may have been a bit touchy, but I think I get the point.


She also stomped her foot and got mad when no one agreed with her. Shows alot right there. There will always be the 20 somethings thinking they have lived a full life. Experience comes with life experiences and no one can change that. I always listen and respect anyones opinion but its hard to take someone seriously when they post something on the internet and then get mad a people for actually expressing their own opinions. Go figure.




celticlord2112 -> RE: The Ever Tiresome Age Card (9/5/2007 5:46:35 PM)

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ORIGINAL: psynymph

ok.... *yells* Godsdamnit i NEVER said i knew ANYTHING!!!  geez people seriously you need to actually read the words!!

*sigh* ok back to the T and A.


quote:

ORIGINAL: psynymph
but i also know, for a fact, that i have experienced ALOT more than some people twice my age.


Well...you kinda sorta did...[:D]




domiguy -> RE: The Ever Tiresome Age Card (9/5/2007 5:46:45 PM)

Well, hopefully you know enough to forward some gash when politely asked...I would hate to have to cyberstalk you. 




fairerthanshe -> RE: The Ever Tiresome Age Card (9/5/2007 5:46:56 PM)

Greetings DG,

I was thinking of you when I asked for them...

I have been invited to a couple's house to teach him how to fist his slave.  Now I have Dom's lining up dates for me - how cool is that!

well wishes ~ fairer than she




goalie62 -> RE: The Ever Tiresome Age Card (9/5/2007 5:47:54 PM)

OK, OK, I quit, LOL




SirSRussell -> RE: The Ever Tiresome Age Card (9/5/2007 5:48:09 PM)

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It gets better...and WAY better when you hit your forties...
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I agree whole heartedly.....If I'd known then what I know now...




domiguy -> RE: The Ever Tiresome Age Card (9/5/2007 5:48:52 PM)

Have you ever fisted someone's slave when they were ....You know...Ummmm.....Not so fresh?




psynymph -> RE: The Ever Tiresome Age Card (9/5/2007 5:49:28 PM)

ok i dont recall stomping my foot...... plus i dont recall getting angry.... though in my last ppost i did yell... so that could be seen as angry.....

in fact.... i spent this entire thread defending my opinion against other's...... i in no way bashed anybody else's.... again feel free to quote me though. these forums make that possible you know. to directly quote someone.

oh and bandit... bite me! :p




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: The Ever Tiresome Age Card (9/5/2007 5:49:35 PM)

I miss the days when people told me I couldn't have any idea what I was talking about.  Kinda like getting carded at a bar- makes you feel young. 

Oddly enough years later I'm saying the same things, when, years ago I was an uppity know it all, and now somehow I'm a "wise for my age" chica?

It is what it is.  Everyone kept saying I thought I knew everything which was hysterical considering how often I said I didn't know things or that they needed to figure things out for themselves.

I loved the double standard- when you're young, you can't know anything but you think you do, and when you're old, you're supposed to realize you don't really know anything.  Frankly, NONE of my friends in college thought they knew everything, we were pretty freaked out and worried growing up in a horrific world past generations had thrust upon us. 

So somehow, no one really is ever able to say "Yes, I know shit" and be taken seriously.

The fact is, the more you bitch and whine about people putting you down for your age, the more immature it makes you look.  I can get you the links for all the times people tried to get me shut down due to my age here.  IT DOESN'T MATTER.  People who resort to the age card simply have nothing to stand on.  The only way to win is NOT to play.

And I did get a fair bit of amusement when I became the chair of the board and all those peeps who said a younger person couldn't know anything suddenly had to ask my permission before speaking at meetings.




fairerthanshe -> RE: The Ever Tiresome Age Card (9/5/2007 5:51:31 PM)

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

Have you ever fisted someone's slave when they were ....You know...Ummmm.....Not so fresh?


Hasn't happened yet..."please dear lord, grant me fresh pussies to fist in thy name"...

winks ~ fairer




psynymph -> RE: The Ever Tiresome Age Card (9/5/2007 5:52:04 PM)

ack, you kinda got me!!! lmao....

ok well i probably DO know alot more about makeup than a 50yro mechanic..... just saying.....




ygraine -> RE: The Ever Tiresome Age Card (9/5/2007 5:52:18 PM)

miss you and fairer on the Gorean boards DG....
Take care of you.
Y




fairerthanshe -> RE: The Ever Tiresome Age Card (9/5/2007 5:53:15 PM)

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ORIGINAL: psynymph

ok i dont recall stomping my foot...... plus i dont recall getting angry.... though in my last ppost i did yell... so that could be seen as angry.....

in fact.... i spent this entire thread defending my opinion against other's...... i in no way bashed anybody else's.... again feel free to quote me though. these forums make that possible you know. to directly quote someone.

oh and bandit... bite me! :p


Relax, don't let it get you down, you wanted to burn off some steam and you did.  Just roll with the humor that has developed and don't try to defend your previous posts.

and send gash shots...

winks ~ fairer




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