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RE: Invite to the under 30's crowd - 9/6/2007 7:59:59 PM

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Let's see...

I'm twenty, almost twenty-one. I have been perving over information on BDSM since I was 14. I was in my first D/s relationship at 16 with someone much older than myself. I've had about four relationships involving some form of BDSM, including my current one.

I've topped someone all of three times. While the scenes were enjoyable, there wasn't a plethora of technical skill involved. My skill sets are not all that impressive. I can throw a flogger, because my Dominant taught me how. It is really fun and I tend to pretend I'm going ninja on someone's ass instead of actually beating it. I can also do some basic tying people up stuff. I know a little bit about a lot of things, because I've read about them on the internet. I have never taught a workshop. I can probably name the people in the scene I know on my hands.

When I look at older people who having 300 dollar whips and corsets and really cool shoes and a million years worth of experience, I pretty much expect them to overlook me as I have nothing that says, 'HEY LOOK AT HOW UBER KINKY I AM!' I think what I am most proud of is my relationship. I love my dominant. I love the path on which we are walking. I love the way we interact and the structure he provides. I love submission. I love opening up to him in ways that were impossible for me before.

So I guess if I had any wisdom to impart to the older generation it would be this...relationships are important, so build them well. :) It isn't quite as interesting as it doesn't involve leather in any form, but it's all I got for you old folks.

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RE: Invite to the under 30's crowd - 9/6/2007 8:36:22 PM

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Well I'm well under 30, and pretty new to actively seeking all this. I've had friends who were significantly older than 30 some who were a little older and some who were younger. I actually just had my first play with a very good friend who's 32, we know we're not right for each other for a relationship but had a great weekend together. I do sometimes feel a bit ignored and there's always the problem of, if you don't have expierence how do you convince someone to let you get some. Although I guess I have a bit now. I've been to a few munches and felt quite welcomed at them, I guess it's harder to be dismissive face to face. Met a few online friends for just meet and greets. Talked with a few subs even was supposed to meet a couple but they have thus far all pulled away before the meets got fleshed out.

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RE: Invite to the under 30's crowd - 9/6/2007 8:40:10 PM

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So I guess if I had any wisdom to impart to the older generation it would be this...relationships are important, so build them well. :) It isn't quite as interesting as it doesn't involve leather in any form, but it's all I got for you old folks.

Wise advice coming from any age and going to any age.

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RE: Invite to the under 30's crowd - 9/6/2007 9:26:41 PM

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Whats considered 'old' now??

I got called 'Young Lady' today, that poor rep looked like I head turned him to stone after I told him I had a 7 yr old at home.

You are only as old as you feel. I'm not 30 yet, and I don't get along with many people my own age. Can I go and play on the 'over 30' thread now?!

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RE: Invite to the under 30's crowd - 9/6/2007 11:56:26 PM

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Extreme and technically difficult are not synonymous. How about face slapping?

Let's go back to the part about "dangerous". Any blow to the head is decidedly more dangerous than to most other parts of the body, even just from a physical perspective.

OK.

So what would one do to learn faceslapping?

Bitchslap canteloupe? Or talk to a submissive who likes it or wants it and then, paying reasonable amounts of attention and being aware of the risks and having a game plan in mind if various eventualities go down, DO it?

i attended a class on faceslapping in Chicago, it was very interesting, but i don't remember any canteloupe......

I'm curious how long that class lasted.

Dude, you could do a few hours on it, seriously, if you really want to cover the psychology. For some people this is no biggie and for others this is a loaded gun - it's got a mountain of considerations and you can do it in millions of ways for millions of reasons.

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RE: Invite to the under 30's crowd - 9/9/2007 5:54:52 AM

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Thats interesting. I've always thought of face slapping as one of those kinks on par with candle wax play. I wont have ever thought there would actually be a class on it.

So does this mean you have never been to a wax play demo either...hmmmm, what about pussy licking. Now that was a class i would like to repeat a few dozen times just to see the teacher licking things <weg>

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RE: Invite to the under 30's crowd - 9/9/2007 9:37:54 AM

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God I love you. Lol

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