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domiguy -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 4:44:03 PM)

It's always seems a matter of convenience that psychics can never seem to "put out" when any type of testing is suggested....There is this town called Las Vegas...I have even heard it never sleeps....They seem to have a problem when someone counts cards....However, I believe that every person who has professed to having psychic abilities has never been refused a seat.....What does this tell you?




Tristan -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 4:49:23 PM)

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It's actually not that silly. That some people have pychic ability has been proven, over and over again. The problem is that hard-core skeptics don't like the "evidence" that is presented - because nobody can seem to explain why exactly it exists.


If this were true, then we would not have quantum mechanics.  Nothing could be stranger and harder to explain.  The theory of quantum mechanics exist because of the strange an unexplained data.  Pyschic ability is no where near as difficult to explain.

Tristan




pearlmoongirl -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 4:56:16 PM)

Steven King calls it "having an extra twinkle," and lots of people do have a lil bit ... more .. of something along psychic lines (myself included). I haven't read every entry in this thread, but I will say that I hope to find a Dom/Master Who is comfortable with my paganish spiritual beliefs and practices. It does seem possible that such a Man exists, if only from a logical point of view - D/s is just about as far away from vanilla as pagan spirituality is from Christian, so both shifts in lifestyle require a certain degree of independent, open-minded tolerance. Right?

Okay, that being said ... if there are any tall Doms between the ages of 35 and 50 in the Bostonish area, Masterly Men of any pagan persuasion .... pick me! It's not a dealbreaker, but it sure would be a Goddess-sent gift!

~ pmg




SusanofO -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 5:00:01 PM)

Tristan: I know - that's my point, basically. One man's "fact" is another man's (or woman's) "muddy theory". Pick your poison, and roll with it. String theory, physics, discovery of more planets, etc. - all are currently "under investigation" as well, if anyone bothers to notice, that is. And have been, for centuries. 

The thing skeptics have on their "side"' (or think they do anyway) is only that more people seem to accept their version of the (current) so-called "facts".

I love the selective re-iteration of "the facts" as well - that some hard-core skeptics love to cite. It can be noted that some psychics do this as well. I just don't want to "go there" - it is a viscious cycle. Either tend to believe, or don't - your (or anyone's) choice.

To me - this just doesn't prove there aren't other "facts" out there, maybe "proven", and maybe a lot left to be "to be proven" to anyone's particular satisifaction. And - So What?

- Susan




Remorseless -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 5:09:23 PM)

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

It's always seems a matter of convenience that psychics can never seem to "put out" when any type of testing is suggested....There is this town called Las Vegas...I have even heard it never sleeps....They seem to have a problem when someone counts cards....However, I believe that every person who has professed to having psychic abilities has never been refused a seat.....What does this tell you?


It tells me they are getting richer by charging $5.99/minute telling folks what they see in their crystal balls than if they would hit the big jackpot in Vegas.




tsherpet -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 5:10:42 PM)

"This is fun :) Perhaps we just haven't come up with a way to prove these things exist yet."

True, we haven't come up with anything that can prove the existence of psychic powers. But we shouldn't need some new fangled tool, psychics should be able to live up to their claims, if they really can do what they say they can do. It is not abuot what we can or cannot prove, it is about those who make extraordinary claims but who can provide no evidence, extraordinary or otherwise.

"There was a time that we couldn't prove that cells, bacteria or sounds waves existed. Did that make them any less real?"

But we didn't just make those things up, it was a logical progression, an accumulation of knowledge which lead to the inevitable discovery. Psychic powers have remained unchanged for thousands of years. We have not gotten better at using them, we do not understand them (in terms of real powers) any better than our ancestors thousands of years ago. So either we are incredible stupid and inept, or the psychic powers are stories. And while the psychic powers have not changed, our understanding of psychology and science has improved dramatically. In this way we do understand some of the psychic claims.
John Edward is the classic example. Here is a guy using well known psychological techniques, and who has a pathetic success rate when compared to psychologists, yet the mindless masses really believe he talks to dead people.

"There was even a time when we couldn't prove the world was not infact flat"

And that example proves my point. People made up simplistic, and wrong, explainations for why sea travel was unsafe. It was a mistake to make up answers then, and it still is now. unfortunately it's much easier to make up answers which appeal to us than to investigate and find actual answers, or admit the answers are for our descendants, not us.

"Yet the first ancient alchemists work wasn't based upon any known fact but the "wild" idea that there is a "magical" substance that had the ability to turn an invaluable substance (lead) into a valuable substance (gold)."

And why are you using alchemy? Try the scientific method. And be careful what you grab from the past, and what inspired it. If it's a wild magical idea, you are probably not dealing with much science. Funny how you are reducing science to alchemy, and ignoring the scientific method and the knowledge that alchemy doesn't work. No psychic came up with that.

"The end result of much of that work done by these alchemists is what we now know as Chemistry which is a science. "

Wow. Now apply that to psychics. People believe in psychic ability (alchemy), scientists investigate, psychic ability (alchemy) is found alcking, psychic ability (alchemy) is rejected. And from that we ahve quite a bit of modern knowledge about psychology and brain functions and memory and perception. So just as investigation disproved alchemy by allowing for the knowledge provided by chemistry, so investigation has disproved the psychic claims by allowing the knowledge of psychology to filter through the rose coloured lenses of the masses.

"tsherpet: Where do you think hypotheses come from?"

The application of knowledge to the next most likely step? Certainly not from the most simplistic idea one can drag from our ancestors thousands of years ago.
"Creationists make it sound as though a theory is something you dreamt up after being drunk all night." Isaac Asimov
While Asimov was referring to creationists, it works just as well for psychics.

"Let's face this: Without hypotheses, you would simply have none of your "facts", because there would have been nothing to ever investigate to begin with. This is my basic problem with hard-core skeptics - they don't ever seem to acknowldege this."

Rubbish. I have acknowledged this already. What you are conveniently ignoring is the trail and rejection part of the process. The hypothesis of psychic powers has been investigated thoroughly, more so than many other scientific dead ends, and has been rejected based on lack of results from the claimants. 
This is my basic problem with hard core believers, they try and use science to boost their claims, but abandon scientific methods when it shows the weakness of their claim. You cannot have it both ways.
At best psychic powers are a rejected idea awaiting further evidence. And psychic powers are only an idea, they do not qualify for a theory. The psychological aspects behind the belief in psychic powers used to be a theory, they had enough substance to move from idea, to theory, to fact.

"This is not (to me) an insignificant question. "

No, just an incorrect one.
The whole time I have been talking about the lack of experimental results, and now you try and say sceptics are ignoring the scientific method? It's nice when people make claims that have already been proven wrong, makes things easier.

"I have not read it all, am definitely not the definitive source on the subject- but I don't see being open-minded as a bad thing. "

Are you being open minded though? Open minded does not mean letting every idea in, openmindedness requires analysis. It's like trust. Trusting people is a good thing, but no one is stupid enough to simply trust every single person the same. Being opne to new ideas and possibilities is a good thing, but being open to every half arsed idea fro thousands of years ago is quite stupid. No person can aquire humanities knowledge in one lifetime of experience, why would anyone try to relive every mistake in human history?
Be open minded, and look for the more reputable sceptic sites. And try that Sagan book before anything, it will help you keep openminded.
Isn't it funny that the one person not blindly accepting thousnads of years old explainations is the one being called closed minded? Open you minds to possibilities, explainations and NEW ideas.

"I don't see it as something that keeps people clinging to superstitions.   Without it we would not ~have~ the knowledge we have today; as everybody would have clung to the accepted norms of their day- and the world would still be flat."

Psychic abilities were the accepted norm of the day, thousands of years ago. They are not new, neither is the confusion of the believers. For psychics, the world still is flat.

"So you are telling me that I am not alowed to believe in what I want? "

No. I am putting things in perspective. If you are allowed to believe anything you want, why wouldn't someone else be allowed to believe anything they want?
Beliefs are better tested than believed.

"Again....believe what you want to believe what you want to."

Thank you, but no thanks. I don't believe, and I certainly don't want to become like that. In fact I can't imagine how I could become a believer without massive head trauma. I know far too much about psychology and mythology.

"Do I think it's right that because the people that flew the planes into the buildings did it out of there beliefs?  Nope....but you take that incedient and you think it's right to tell others how to believe."

No, I am just pointing out there is no quantifiable difference between your beliefs and theirs. Both are completely unfounded beliefs.

"Why would you compare 9/11 to physic ability.....holy shite "

Because of the part belief plays in both. You are defending your right to believe ANYTHING you want. If that is your right, shouldn't it be the right of every human being?
Luckily we took the power from believers a long time ago. In our society they need to pay for any damage their beliefs do, which tends to keep them on the fringes and not doing anything to harmful.

"but because I really don't think it's a big deal "

Yeah right. Real psychic abilities not a big deal? What panet do you live on? A provable psychic would be the biggest deal in the history of humanity, which is why anyone who really ahd these abilities would have no choice but to investigate them, prove they exist and try to understand and refine them. Unfortunately it seems to be the shortsighted and self centred who have these abilities. The ones who care about humanity seem to be limited to hard work and accumlated knowledge. Funny that?

"Pretty psychic.  If I get a bad vibe from somebody either here,(and I've gotten a few) or anywhere else I don't pursue.  I've found out the hardway not to ignore the warning."

LOL, now this is funny. On another group (completely unrelated to this one) we recently had a member kill his wife (the story was in the news, it wasn't part of the group activities). Now the psychics in the group understandabley didn't like me, but they all like the murderer. If I were you I wouldn't put much faith in psychic internet assessments, you may find yourself liking the wrong people. You may find yourself getting psychic vibes fromthe ones who tell you waht you like, not the ones who tell you what you need.

"The way people are in this world... and the way people are treated in the name of Science.. if I was a psychic that could be preform on a dime... I would be keeping it extremely hush hush myself."

Sorry, but the way people are treated by science would mean a noble prise for the first psychic who could prove their abilities. Science gives it's highest awards to those who disprove long held "facts". Unlike belief system who fight anything which upsets the belief, science embrasses investigation and challenges to previously held views.

"How dull a world we live in that we are expected to leave nothing to the imagination. "

There is nothing wrong with imagination, especially for story telling. But there are different kinds of imagination. There is the imagination of a man like Jules Verne or Davinci, and there is the limited imagination of the masses who keep "imagining" the same tired, flawed ideas.

"I wish now, that I had opportunity to speak to her about all of this but she passed before I was 25. "

It may have been nice to chat about it with her, but that knowledge is not lost. And all that she could not tell you is also available. You can only learn one side of the story from psychics, to understand the phemonena you need to step back from the belief and investigate.

"tsherpet I do understand that you have strong feelings concerning this. "

Sorry, but you have misunderstood. I really don't have strong feelings about this. my only "feeling" in relation to this topic is the feeling that people should investigate anything they wish to undrrstand, that our history shows us belief is lazy, though appealing.

"So I ask that you let those enjoying this thread do so without you posting so often denigrating their beliefs. I don't think the repetition is needed please. "

Some are enjoying the rational input to this discussion, they have been emailing me. So while it may upset the believers, I will continue to deal with the facts. If your beliefs must be respected, then so does my knowledge and the accumalated knowledge of humanity.
And the repetition is obviously needed. If it wasn't needed this thread would not exist.

"Since birth I have seen "people" - usually when I've been emotionally upset or in need of comfort."

Now that is interesting. Being emotionally upset or needing comfort brings people to comfort you? What a surprise? Have you investigate this froma psychological perspective, or do you simply accept it as real?

"I HATE the term ghosts.  I always called them "my freespirited friends" or my "fairies". I have NEVER been threatened or harmed by them, although some of them like to hide keys and things."

Which brings us back to my psychic ability, the draining of all other psychic abilities. I have investigated quite a few of these kinds of things personally, and in most cases nothing happens while I'm around. In the ones where somehting does ahppen, it is the person making the claim who moves things, sometimes on purpose sometimes subconsciously.
Ever watch Fight Club? The psychological aspects are quite good, we really can convince ourselves thaqt unreal things exist.

"I was VERY lucky to be supported and encouraged to see as a child and not belittled or told I was crazy or imagining things or a liar.  "

Actually you were no better off than those who are called liars. Lucky would have been being encouraged to investiagte and find real answers.

"My Master is a druid, natural healer and certified midwife."

Is he really a druid, otr the watered down modern version? Don't forget the druids did practice human sacrifice, anyone claiming to be a druid who doesn't is just a modern bullshitter. You cannot adopt an old belief system and discard everything which made that belief system what it was.

"He's been teaching me about karma "

Ah karma. One of the best population control methods ever invented. Someone does you wrong, don't worry they will be punished in the next life, and if you endure the mistreatment you advance. Very nice for those in power.

"with all due respect you seem intent on ignoring me. Why do you feel the need for so much endless reference to information, information, information."

Without information we are left in darkness relying on tales whispered on the wind. Humanity has been around for awhile and learned a few things, ignore it at your own perile.

"Let your ego take a hike, well at least a ride. "

My ego? I am not the one making claims I cannot substantiate. I am not the one rejecting plausible explainations in favour of previously held beliefs.

"The 'scientific' evidence for psychic ability is being worked on now in a new branch of genetics known as epigenetics. "

There is a long eway to go before that connection is made. Though I can see why psychics are jumping on the idea in hope. The problem is the psychics still can't perform.

"does answering questions before they are asked when they are not relevant to the topic being discussed make me psychic? does singing the song thats playing in my moms head make me psychic?"

Well you could test those things. Most people think this happens at some stage, but when recoring ones abilities it ends up the correct guesses aren't that often, and the false ones are simply forgotten. It is amazing how our minds really work.

"now the skeptics will say that he read my body language, but, when i would think "yellow" as a broadcast...he would stop, walk up to me, and ask me...did you say yellow, as if i had said it outloud...so...draw your own conclusions?"

The first idea to look at would be your imagination. Your selection of words amy not have been difficult to pick. Also we have to consider the possibility that this story in not entirely accurate. A common feature of psychics is their selective memory. Which is why testing is so valuable.

"One of Oprah's dogs recently met with a tragic, untimely death.  It choked on one of its toys, and they were unable to revive it.  Maybe that's what you picked up on?"
How could Oprah falling down an elevator be related to her dog choking on a toy? I know this kind of reaching is required to believe in psychic, but come on!

"I've never heard of Entwinement.  I'll have to do some research on it.  My Aunt explained it this way (she was a healer and a gypsy who I admired so much): That twins have a special connection to each other's souls"

Lets not forget the twins who do not have this. Also are any connections psychic, genetic or psychological? And lets not forget all the twins who die prenatally.

"I always loved that explaination.  It reminds me that love connects humans in a way that nothing else can."

Yes, it's a pretty idea.

"Have there ever been instances of psychic psychotics?"

Of course, psych wards are full of "psychics" who cannot function in society. If they can function in society and are not going to harm themselves or others, then they are free psychics.

"I mean, I know police have used psychics to solve crimes."

No, they haven't. Psychics claim to have helped cops, with no evidence. Or they make vague predictions based on the known facts of the case 9the same predictions as cops and journos) then act like they got it right through psychic ability.

"How would you explain that other than proof? "

First of all I'd need to story confirmed. Considering how amny "psychics" manipulate timelines I would be stupid to just accept a personal anecdote as fact. And anyone who would expect me (or anyone else) to accept unsupported anecdotes either has no respect for intellignece or is a straight out con artist. Thi8s is why any true psychic would be doing everything they could to prove those abilities exist.

"I also am an empath and can't shut it down, have telekinetic abilities, and can even read thoughts. "

Is distance a problem? Tell me my thoughts and feelings? Those you can't read from my posts.

"You can believe it's not been proven if you like, but I've read studies and seen things that you could not explain as smoke and mirrors. "

It's not a belief, psychic abilities are unproven. Please show the studies, and more than likely I'll be able to point out the flaws in their procedures or direct you to a hoaxes site which could educate you.

"no...its just harder to perform like a circus monkey...especially when they don't provide you with any little treats every time you do something... "

I (and others) have lived with psychics for weeks or months at a time, recording their failures. They do perform like a cirucs monkey, but their performance is empty of psychic abilities. They still think it is working, but the evidence proves it's all in their head.

"After watching these things happen over the course of 2 decades together, he knows this is real and respects it. I have even heard him defend me to others who doubted when I told them. "

I wonder what real tests did he do? Or did he just get caught up in your show?

"People confuse being intuitive to psychic ability....Ever think of a song and you turn on the radio and there it is?  It happens to everyone...Sorry to disappoint you all...But ya got nothing...You are not as special as you would like to think...You unfortunately are part of the herd as much as you try to separate yourselves....You have no special power....You have nothing...You blend into the noise of humanity...You are static...It's kinda sad."

Absolutely correct.

"He did however inply that those of us that do belive in the supernatrual have not looked at it logically. i for once have, and i still belive. "

Well belief does defy logic. If you truly had investigated psychic abilities logically you would have rejected the idea opending further evidence. That is the logical position.

"i hope this to. That would be wonderful and i think many fieald would advance very quikly if the two topped being enemie and started to work together, giving one another a little arm space and cooperating. "

So much for logic. Science has worked with psychcic, and when it found nothing the psychiocs claim science was working against them. Psychics do mnot want sciences input UNLESS it confirms their beliefs.

"i have never said i am special."

A claim of supernatural powers is claiming to be special.

"Some pepole have just developed them more than others and are more open. "

LOL @ more open. How do you think I investigated so many psychic failures? I am very open to psychic abilities, but only if they exist, not just from unproven stories which do not differ from known fakes.

"ok so if you get a feeling that you should not proceed with something or someone or should perhaps proceed with caution is that intuition or psychic abilities? How does one know the difference?"

It's intuition, and it's wrong at least half the time, people just tend to forget the wrong times and overemphasise the right guesses. That is a recognised fact of how our brains work.

"Only that having a psychic ability is no different than having soccer abilities, or mathematic abilities."

LOL, except soccer and mathematical ability can be proven, psychic ability cannot. Why do people keep comparing reality with fantasy as though the two are interchangable?

"The human mind is a vast thing that most scientists believe we don't use all of."

Go back to the start of the thread, we have dealt with that MYTH already. See how people just amke up a "scientific fact" to suit their own beliefs? This myth has been shown to be false already in this thread, and here we have someone trying to claim most scientists believe this myth. What a joke.

"Unless you are willing to look into all science yourself, then you don't really have a leg to stand on when telling others they are wrong IMHO. Saying that psychic phenomenon is fake without exhausting all possibilities yourself is making a claim based in anything but fact. "

LOL, obviously I know a hell of a lot more about all science than you. You are using a myth I have already shown to be false. You've entered a scientific nuclear war carrying a butter knife. You are woefully inadequately armed to make such comments.

"Would we tell a piano player he shouldn't feel special or take some measure of self identity from his abilities and expressions of self?"

Once again, piano playing can be proven, psychics can't.

"Trust me, at age 8 I had no idea that I shouldn't be able to predict the weather completely accurately months in advance"

That sounds like ti should be easy to prove. Why aren't you helpig to advance humanities understanding?

"Logic tends to be useless whenever it really matters :) "

Well for someone who makes this kind of statement, logic would be completely useless. But only for that kind of person.

"I have no idea what it is, where it comes from, how it works and only the vaguest ideas of how to deal with it."

Now that is the most intelligent comment from a believer in this whole thread. And not knowing leads one to simple easy answers, instead of understanding.

"I'm bowing out here as the discussion feels a million miles from any sort of realm that any empath would want to be in. cruel, sarcastic and trivial. "

Yes the truth is often cruel to our beliefs.

"dear skepticism...always in oppoaition and always reactionary. "

You mean always waiting. Sceptics are not in opposition. You make a claim, a sceptic says wow that is interesting, lets see.

"there are some houses that do speak to you. that would change your mind that there is more there then the naked eye"

I've been to many such places, and all ahve failed to live up to the hype. I've even seen people point at small marsupials or rodents and claim they saw a ghost. Mostly scared city people who have no idea about animals, or night noises.

"Unless you have experienced it you will never understand it and skepticism will always prevail. "

As domiguy said, many of the "psychic" things ahve been experienced by non psychics. Also con artists and psychologists outperform psyhcics. Scepticism does not come from a lack of understanding, it comes from understanding, and a lack of results from claimants.

"Simply have psychic make a prediction about something that the psychic can not know, record the results, and conduct a statistical analysis to see if the result could be random chance.  "

That has been done numerous times, like the mountain range on Jupiter example.

"These experiment must have been done many times.  Has anyone ever seen the results of an experiment like this? "

Yes, which is why I have been saying psychics are failures. I've even posted exactly what you are referring to.

"well, sure i could have someone do that if i were a trick pony that could perform on command"

LOL, actually the recorder would follow you, it would be on your timetable, not on their demand.

"To any hard-core skeptic: The thing that always amazes me is that it seems that when someone just can't turn their psychic abilities on and off like some water faucet, a hard-core skeptic will usually interpret this to equate with those abilities not existing"

What a load of crap. Pyschics often get to set the timetable, to amke the experiments as psychically friendly as possible. This eliminates the whining about being amde to perform. We learnt that whining trick the first time it was done.

"IMO, if the world was run by hard-core skeptics, we'd most likely all still be living in a cave somewhere without electricity "

Actually it was a sceptic who would have stuck their head out of the cave to see the fire lightening created, while the bliever hide from the thunder god. Same with the flat earth, or any other discovery. It's not the ones clinging to old beliefs who lead the way.

"So - I am left to wonder how a hard-core skeptic would propose to ever advance the world of "scientific fact" - since they don't believe in hypotheses - only in the realm of what has "already been proven"? "

That is bullshit. Sceptics use the scientific method, and encourage psychics to employ it. What you are ignoring is the experimentation and rejection of failed ideas.

Susan,
PLEASE! go and look up the scientific method and become familiar with it before trying to take the science out of scepticism. Also try the Sagan book.
You really are scientifically illiterate. You are behind people from the dark ages in terms of understanding scientific principle, yet you try and talk about science like you know what you are saying. It's a sad joke.

"However, I know what happened to me.  I am quite capable of discerning fact from fiction, reality from fantasy"

Wow, so what makes you so special and completely different to the rest of humanity? You are claiming to be without basic huiman traits, are you an alien?

"That some people have pychic ability has been proven, over and over again."

Really? Where?

"Steven King calls it "having an extra twinkle,""

Steven King is a writer of FICTION. Have we been reduced to writer of fiction to support psychic abilities?




chellekitty -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 5:11:24 PM)

well, if money grew on trees and my diabetes doctor and nuerologist would follow me around and the mri tech would bring the mri machine to my house and they would hold munches and parties at my house, and the school could have classes at my house at my discretion or heck if we're wishing for the impossible, if i could just not have diabetes or seizures and i could just upload my education, and have a teleporter i could probably have the time to train myself to perform like a trick pony or a circus monkey...but seeing as how i have a life to live, as menial as it may seem to you...i, along with most of the other people with psychic abilities on this board, am not going to be able to pop into your living room and perform said abilities to prove they exist to your satisfaction one saturday morning so either you're going to believe they exist or they don't and i can't do a damned thing about it...so...do me a favor, don't ask me again, i'll do you a favor, i won't tell you where you can stick it...




SusanofO -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 5:12:43 PM)

tsherpet: Someone has too much time on their hands, IMO.

- Susan 




ArgoGeorgia -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 5:20:14 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SusanofO
It's actually not that silly. What is there left to even invesitgate, if one only ever wants to look at what has already been proven? IMO, scientific investigation would most likely come to a stand-still. That is my problem with hard-core skeptics - they simply refuse to acknowledge this.

There is "data" on either side, it just depends more on what someone is prone to believe, IMO, more than anything else. I could cite date until my brains fell out - and I am, betting any hard-core skeptic would still refuse to believe any of it (which is why I am not "going there"). Almost anyone here probably has access to the Internet, and can look up whatever studies they want.

That some people have psychic ability has IMO, been proven, over and over again. The problem is that hard-core skeptics don't like the "evidence" that is presented - because nobody can seem to explain why exactly it exists.

Consider this: Can you really explain why you see the world as three-dimensional?  My guess is no. When you (or anyone)have completely investigated and also understood, how things like time and space, and human senses operate, then I will be willing to listen. Until then....  

How does the fact that you see it that way, in any way completely negate the possibility some people could (and do, depending on what studies one wants to cite) very likely perceive some things that you do not? It just doesn't, IMO.

I won't argue with your right to believe what you see (or don't) or believe whatever you want.

But I do not in any way see how this negates the distinct possibility not everyone sees things that way.

- Susan


Again, a silly argument.  Skeptics do not go around with their hands over their ears, eyes closed, going 'blah blah blah, I can't hear you' and then dismiss your claims because we didn't hear you.  Nor do we only want to see anything that has already been proven.  A skeptic DOES, however, simply ask for someone making a claim or assertion to support their claim.  And we simply have a high standard for what we claim as proof.  If a psychic cannot predict future events better than a "non-psychic" can do through random chance, we do not accept their claims.  If someone who claims supernatural capabilities cannot support their claims, then we see those claims as baseless. 

Yes, I can explain why I see the world in 3 dimensions.  It would take a while, and I would probably need some help, because it would require some physics, biology, chemistry, etc.  Discussion of depth perception, binocular vision, visual cortex processing in the brain, etc.  But, it could be explained, and demonstrated.  Furthermore, the results of the science behind the explanation would be verifiable and repeatable. 

The fact that I see in 3 dimensions in no way means that someone else can't see in another way.  All us mean old skeptics ask for is evidence for what your claims are based on.  We would then examine this evidence, question it, weigh it, test other possible explanations, and if your claim stands up to the rigors of scientific analysis, then great!  You win!  Case closed!

So what is this evidence?  Has the evidence been analyzed, tested, and put through the rigors of the scientific process?  Or is your 'evidence' hearsay, urban legend, books with dubious background, or simply personal experience?  And while personal experience may be enough for you, it in no way is enough for anyone else - or shouldn't be enough for anyone who examined it at all.

I won't deny your ability to believe what you want.  But, without evidence, proof, etc, it is merely belief, not reality.  I can believe that I can fly from here to Tokyo via my previously mentioned rocket-powered bunghole, but the reality of the situation is something else completely.




TNstepsout -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 5:24:13 PM)

I believe in psychic ability although I don't have much of it myself. I do have the ability to kind of empathically get in someone's head and obtain a very clear understanding of their perspective of the world. It's as if I can look out through their eyes and understand how and why they see the world and have the feelings and thoughts that they do. It's handy when I'm having trouble with someone. If we just don't see eye to eye or I don't understand what they want or expect from me. It has helped me to better some relationships.

As far as the skeptics go... >8PPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP

I think of psychic ability as a sense that is rudimentary at best, even in those people with a strong psychic ability. Imagine a world of blind people in which from time to time is born with some ability to see. Perhaps they see on the same level that for us would be legally blind, maybe all they can see are fuzzy shapes, light and some color. They would still have remarkable abilities compared to everyone else. But it would be very difficult for them to explain what "seeing" is.  Seeing also has it's limitations. Imagine the blind people saying "OK, if you can "see" then tell me what's in the next room!". So psychic ability has it's limitations and just because it can't do everything we want it to do, doesn't mean it doesn't exist.





LATEXBABY64 -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 5:35:11 PM)

it is like looking at a world in 3d vs 2d lol




ArgoGeorgia -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 5:41:26 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: chellekitty

well, if money grew on trees and my diabetes doctor and nuerologist would follow me around and the mri tech would bring the mri machine to my house and they would hold munches and parties at my house, and the school could have classes at my house at my discretion or heck if we're wishing for the impossible, if i could just not have diabetes or seizures and i could just upload my education, and have a teleporter i could probably have the time to train myself to perform like a trick pony or a circus monkey...but seeing as how i have a life to live, as menial as it may seem to you...i, along with most of the other people with psychic abilities on this board, am not going to be able to pop into your living room and perform said abilities to prove they exist to your satisfaction one saturday morning so either you're going to believe they exist or they don't and i can't do a damned thing about it...so...do me a favor, don't ask me again, i'll do you a favor, i won't tell you where you can stick it...


We don't even have to do that.  How about this - every time you have a premonition, you simply post it to somewhere - like this board - where it can be timestamped.  Give us the details of the premonition - who, what, where, when, how, that sorta thing.  I will admit, we may ask for some specificity.  Saying "someone famous, possibly in Hollywood, is going to get a divorce within the next week" isn't a prediction, simply a statement of fact.  Afterwards, we'll simply see how you did.  I would think that if you can come up with a good average of correct guess... uh, premonitions that is statistically relevant and more than what a psychologist/conman/layman can performn, well there might be something to your claims requiring further investigation.  If not, then we would welcome you back to the realm of us mere mortals who have to go forward into the future without any helpful hints.




MadRabbit -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 5:50:51 PM)

All I have to contribute to this thread is this...

I see someone who claims to be a genuine psychic, then I see her get pissed off at the first poster who challenges the claim and insults him for being a skeptic.

It makes me wonder...

If someone had been a psychic for all their lives...I would think they were a bit used to people challenging and discrediting their ability.

And wont be so quick to fly off the handle at the first rational argument...




tsherpet -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 5:51:02 PM)

" i could probably have the time to train myself to perform like a trick pony or a circus monkey...but seeing as how i have a life to live, as menial as it may seem to you...i, along with most of the other people with psychic abilities on this board, am not going to be able to pop into your living room and perform said abilities to prove they exist to your satisfaction one saturday morning "

LOL. I am not talking about proving it to me, I am talking about proving it to humanity.
Also with all your costs, proving your psychic ability would earn you millions of dollars. Most sceptic organisations ahve small fortunes available for the first perosn who can prvoe such an ability. The sceptics have put their money where theirs mouths are, it's time for at least one psychic to step up.

"so either you're going to believe they exist or they don't and i can't do a damned thing about it...so...do me a favor, don't ask me again, i'll do you a favor, i won't tell you where you can stick it... "

You and every psychcic can do a damn thing about it, in fact you are the only ones who can. And surely you could find a good sue for all that money, even help the needy if you didn't want it. Your excuses are nothing more than that, excuses.

"tsherpet: Someone has too much time on their hands, IMO. "

You could look at it that way, but I doubt it is a lack of time which is keeping you ignorant of basic scientific methodology.
Also how does too much time on my hands counter any point I've made? Stick to the points raised, not personal assessments of me.

"I do have the ability to kind of empathically get in someone's head and obtain a very clear understanding of their perspective of the world. It's as if I can look out through their eyes and understand how and why they see the world and have the feelings and thoughts that they do."

And why would you think that bit of basic psychology was psychic? And don't forget that psychiologists routinely outperfomr psychcis in these things, showing knowledge is much more powerful than superpowers.

"They would still have remarkable abilities compared to everyone else. But it would be very difficult for them to explain what "seeing" is."

Possibly, but the sighted person would still have results, a high success rate. Psychic don't have a high success rate. It's not a matter of psychic bieng unable to explain what thye see, they just can't live up to their claims. It is as simple as that.

"Seeing also has it's limitations. Imagine the blind people saying "OK, if you can "see" then tell me what's in the next room!". "

Exactly. The sighted person sees the walls and the door, goes and looks in the next room and sees what is actually there. Psychics cannot live up to their claims, and that is the problem. They guess, and get it wrong.

"So psychic ability has it's limitations and just because it can't do everything we want it to do, doesn't mean it doesn't exist. "

It has nothing to do with not doing what we want it to. Psychic ability can't do what it claims to do. If psychics were doctors they would be sued for malpractice.




LATEXBABY64 -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 5:53:36 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

All I have to contribute to this thread is this...

I see someone who claims to be a genuine psychic, then I see her get pissed off at the first poster who challenges the claim and insults him for being a skeptic.

It makes me wonder...

If someone had been a psychic for all their lives...I would think they were a bit used to people challenging and discrediting their ability.

And wont be so quick to fly off the handle at the first rational argument...



POINT OF IT IS NO ONE CARES IF ANYONE BELIEVES A PERSON OR NOT. AFTER ALL IT IS THE PERSON THAT HAS TO SEE THEM SELVES IN THE MIRROR EVERY MORNING AND KNOW WHAT THEY DO OR DO NOT.




tsherpet -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 5:59:10 PM)

"POINT OF IT IS NO ONE CARES IF ANYONE BELIEVES A PERSON OR NOT. AFTER ALL IT IS THE PERSON THAT HAS TO SEE THEM SELVES IN THE MIRROR EVERY MORNING AND KNOW WHAT THEY DO OR DO NOT. "

If the psychics are real, then they and the rest of us should care. Proving those kinds of abilities exist would advance the species. The only reason to avoid proving ones ability is fear of being proven a fraud, instead of just saying sceptics are attacking. Selfishness and shortsightedness are the only ways a true psychic could not be spending every minute of their lives trying to prove, understand and refine their abilities.




chellekitty -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 6:04:32 PM)

if i was a Precog that would work...i am more of a hodge podge of animal telepathy, clairaudience, clairvoyance, empathy, e.s.p. and telepathy with certain people...and with none of these abilities strongly developed....

MadRabbit...i tried to joke about it for a few posts and was agressively challenged in response to those jokes...in a perfect world, under perfect circumstances...heck if just the past three weeks hadn't just happened to me, i wouldn't have responded that way...but they did...my bad...psychic all my life does not make me perfect...anymore than submissive or kinky or female or brown or conservative or christian....

take care...
chelle




MadRabbit -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 6:10:08 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

POINT OF IT IS NO ONE CARES IF ANYONE BELIEVES A PERSON OR NOT. AFTER ALL IT IS THE PERSON THAT HAS TO SEE THEM SELVES IN THE MIRROR EVERY MORNING AND KNOW WHAT THEY DO OR DO NOT.


Well, I fail to see the rationale behind that.

I do care if anyone beleives a person or not.

If no one cared whether a person was believed or not, then all the Gorean Assassians, members of the 1000 year old BDSM society, officially trained members of the True Old Guard, and great elites of the European Houses who currently in Iowa would go unchecked on these forums.

If you cant see the danger of people beleiving things like that, well, I consider you to be a silly person.

I would personally care a lot about whether someone was or was not genuinely psychic if this person came to me and said "You can not show up for work today and lose your job OR you can go to work and get killed by a giant meteor that will crash into the building".

If all the psychics of the world stayed in there little part of Kansas, it would be slightly different.

However, when you got the Looney Toon brigade out telling people what will and will not happen regarding their own personal future and decisions they will make, well...it is important whether people do beleive them or not.

Regardless, I am not saying either way nor discrediting anyone's psychic abilities here in this thread.

Just simply making an observation.









MadRabbit -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 6:13:46 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: chellekitty

if i was a Precog that would work...i am more of a hodge podge of animal telepathy, clairaudience, clairvoyance, empathy, e.s.p. and telepathy with certain people...and with none of these abilities strongly developed....

MadRabbit...i tried to joke about it for a few posts and was agressively challenged in response to those jokes...in a perfect world, under perfect circumstances...heck if just the past three weeks hadn't just happened to me, i wouldn't have responded that way...but they did...my bad...psychic all my life does not make me perfect...anymore than submissive or kinky or female or brown or conservative or christian....

take care...
chelle



Thats quite a possibility

I really have no interest in taking a stand in this discussion. Just simply noted something that seemed a little odd to me.

But since it seems I am being put threw the grinder a bit, I will make at least one opinion.

If someone were to offer me psychic advice, I would not take it.

My personal concept of God and my faith lies in my logic and reasoning. It is the guiding force in my life.

Whatever anyone else wants to use as their personal anchor in the sea of bleakness, they can.




ArgoGeorgia -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 6:18:49 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: chellekitty

if i was a Precog that would work...i am more of a hodge podge of animal telepathy...



Now, animal telepathy is something I would love to have myself or at least pay someone damn good money for.  I might then know why my dog must lick himself all night long until I yell at him to stop?

Of course, if I could lick myself all night long...

Nevermind, question answered. 




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