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tsherpet -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 6:26:40 PM)

LOL Argo.
With animal telepathy, think quality trainers or people who have a familiarity with a species.
Do I have aniaml telepathy just because I am good with animals and understand their behaviours based on their biology? No, but to people who are nervous or inexperienced with animals I could appear psychic without any effort at all.




ArgoGeorgia -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 6:39:46 PM)

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ORIGINAL: tsherpet

LOL Argo.
With animal telepathy, think quality trainers or people who have a familiarity with a species.
Do I have aniaml telepathy just because I am good with animals and understand their behaviours based on their biology? No, but to people who are nervous or inexperienced with animals I could appear psychic without any effort at all.


And hey - it's not like the following would happen to dispute the psychic readings...
Animal Psychic:  "This dog is deeply disturbed and refuses to go into the doghouse because the spirit of your old dog resides there."
Pet Owner:  "Oh my gosh, I never even thought of that!  Fido's ghost is haunting the doghouse!"
Fluffy the Dog:  "Um, actually, no, I just think the color pink is absolutely hideous and makes me feel like a freakin' poodle.  Yeah, I know, you thought we were color blind too, guess again."




adaddysgirl -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 6:58:07 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

POINT OF IT IS NO ONE CARES IF ANYONE BELIEVES A PERSON OR NOT. AFTER ALL IT IS THE PERSON THAT HAS TO SEE THEM SELVES IN THE MIRROR EVERY MORNING AND KNOW WHAT THEY DO OR DO NOT.


i think that's a good point Latex.  But i see that this, pretty much as religious threads in the past, has turned into a "prove it" fest which to me, pretty much just shows ignorance on the part of the "doubters'.  Do i feel any particular need to prove that i believe in a Higher Power that others may not believe in?  Absolutely not!  And i am not trying to push anyone to believe in what i believe in.  But why does it seem that the non-believers are always trying to ram the "prove it" card down your throat?  To me, they are the one with the issues...not the believers.
 
i am an empath.  i had no knowledge of that word until just a couple of years ago.  i didn't know there was a name for it.  Do i wish i wasn't?  At times, yes.....it can be painful and trying to explain that to someone who hasn't a clue is well.....useless.  But i also think that there is a plan for me with it.  i do not know what that plan is....but i must possess that ability for some reason.
 
i believe in a god, psychics, angels, ghosts, other life forms....and many other things i cannot see.  And no, i may not be able to see them...nor may i be able to prove they exist....but so what?  Reminds me of a conversation my daughter, her husband and some of their friends (who are all at least Masters degree educated) had about other life forms.  It was quite interesting to note that they all thought you must be a complete moron not to believe that in this great, expansive universe, there are no other life forms than what's on earth.  Can you see them?  Well maybe some have....i don't know....but the point is that i (or they) don't have to directly see them to believe in them.  And either do others.
 
i really don't know what i believed in 30, or even 20 years ago....but at 50, there's a lot of things that happen in life that i cannot justify by any provable means.  So i have learned to just accept that "shit happens"...and sometimes we don't understand why.  That's life. 
 
Honestly, i feel sorry for people who don't believe in SOMETHING they can't see....but hey, that is their life and that's up to them.  But i really wish they would stop making others try to prove in what they do not believe.  And i will also say that rarely have i met a person my age or up who will discount just about anything....because they have learned along the way that sometimes in life, we just can't explain things.  For those who haven't seen that yet....and need "proof" of every single incident that can occur in a lifetime...well, i wish you well.  20 or 30 years from now you may be saying something different.
 
And meanwhile....no one needs to really prove what they believe in to you.  i am not trying to convince you of what i believe...please don't bother trying to convince me of what you believe.
 
Edited to add:  i don't see that these people are trying to prove they are special.  my god.....they are sharing something they live every day.  No one is saying they are special because of that.  But it would be really nice to just share with other "like minds" and not have the bashing team come in.  You don't believe?  Hey....more power to ya.  i, personally, can live with that.  So why not start your own thread on "Why i don't believe" ?
 
Daddysgirl
 
 
 
 




velvetears -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 7:09:05 PM)

Some people are closed, some people are open. i would never expect someone who doesn't have "proof" to believe me as much as i would never feel that i had anything to prove either.  We each live in a different world, living our experiences as intended.  Science, logic, etc are their cornerstones, it's the foundation of their belief systems, nothing wrong in that. 




velvetears -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 7:12:28 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Prinsexx

OMG it's prooving difficult at the moment being Psychic.........I have been having repeatedly recurrent and incresingly detailed dreams of Madeleine......


Just caught the name tonight.
http://entertainment.msn.com/news/article.aspx?news=274750&GT1=7701




angelic -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 7:17:26 PM)

Hi Velvet!

i think this is the Madeline to which she refers.  http://www.cnn.com/2007/WORLD/europe/09/07/madeleine.mccann/index.html




MadRabbit -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 7:31:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: adaddysgirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

POINT OF IT IS NO ONE CARES IF ANYONE BELIEVES A PERSON OR NOT. AFTER ALL IT IS THE PERSON THAT HAS TO SEE THEM SELVES IN THE MIRROR EVERY MORNING AND KNOW WHAT THEY DO OR DO NOT.


i think that's a good point Latex.  But i see that this, pretty much as religious threads in the past, has turned into a "prove it" fest which to me, pretty much just shows ignorance on the part of the "doubters'.  Do i feel any particular need to prove that i believe in a Higher Power that others may not believe in?  Absolutely not!  And i am not trying to push anyone to believe in what i believe in.  But why does it seem that the non-believers are always trying to ram the "prove it" card down your throat?  To me, they are the one with the issues...not the believers.
 
i am an empath.  i had no knowledge of that word until just a couple of years ago.  i didn't know there was a name for it.  Do i wish i wasn't?  At times, yes.....it can be painful and trying to explain that to someone who hasn't a clue is well.....useless.  But i also think that there is a plan for me with it.  i do not know what that plan is....but i must possess that ability for some reason.
 
i believe in a god, psychics, angels, ghosts, other life forms....and many other things i cannot see.  And no, i may not be able to see them...nor may i be able to prove they exist....but so what?  Reminds me of a conversation my daughter, her husband and some of their friends (who are all at least Masters degree educated) had about other life forms.  It was quite interesting to note that they all thought you must be a complete moron not to believe that in this great, expansive universe, there are no other life forms than what's on earth.  Can you see them?  Well maybe some have....i don't know....but the point is that i (or they) don't have to directly see them to believe in them.  And either do others.
 
i really don't know what i believed in 30, or even 20 years ago....but at 50, there's a lot of things that happen in life that i cannot justify by any provable means.  So i have learned to just accept that "shit happens"...and sometimes we don't understand why.  That's life. 
 
Honestly, i feel sorry for people who don't believe in SOMETHING they can't see....but hey, that is their life and that's up to them.  But i really wish they would stop making others try to prove in what they do not believe.  And i will also say that rarely have i met a person my age or up who will discount just about anything....because they have learned along the way that sometimes in life, we just can't explain things.  For those who haven't seen that yet....and need "proof" of every single incident that can occur in a lifetime...well, i wish you well.  20 or 30 years from now you may be saying something different.
 
And meanwhile....no one needs to really prove what they believe in to you.  i am not trying to convince you of what i believe...please don't bother trying to convince me of what you believe.
 
Edited to add:  i don't see that these people are trying to prove they are special.  my god.....they are sharing something they live every day.  No one is saying they are special because of that.  But it would be really nice to just share with other "like minds" and not have the bashing team come in.  You don't believe?  Hey....more power to ya.  i, personally, can live with that.  So why not start your own thread on "Why i don't believe" ?
 
Daddysgirl
 


This is such a double edged sword.

Because when it comes time when things are, in fact, proven and old conjectural beliefs are broken down and given away to evidence and things can be explained, its the people who cling to closely to thier beliefs that try and stalwart human advancement.

Take evolution v.s. creatism. With all the huge piles of evidence that we have that is completely in favor of evolution being truth and the idea that all the world was created in 7 days to be false, people with their "beliefs" still cling to this section of the Bible in a purely literal sense, not listening or considering, and argueing based on whatever tangents they can find that cant be explained.

There is line where the cry of "Don't convince me not to beleive in what I believe" becomes ignorance.

Its important and crucial, in my opinion, to have a personal concept of God and something to provide the faith that keeps human beings moving forward, but when that crosses the line of closemindness and not allowing one's conjectural beliefs to be changed, improved on, and evolved, then its a stalwart to growth and knowledge.

You've provided an example of this in action by getting indignant and telling everyone who has an opposing viewpoint to your beliefs in this discussion to just shut up and go start their own thread.




velvetears -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 7:31:50 PM)

Hey angelic :-)

Thanks for the link - yes likely that is what she was dreaming about.  Tragic case indeed. Madeleine is an unusual name.  When the name caught my eyes as i was logging in (from my link) i figured i would post it. 




domiguy -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 7:35:12 PM)

See, this is the argument...It's difficult I know for some of you to grasp that there is a huge...HUGE difference between comparing the ability of a psychic to ones belief in God or aliens or mermaids....The difference is that it requires the God, alien or mermaid to appear....It would be nonconsentual to suggest to a mermaid to appear against her will or wishes....So now we have out here self proclaimed psychics....I'm not asking you to produce a mermaid an alien or a God....I'm asking you to provide proof of those abilities that you claim to possess.


I have a frog in my pocket...."You do not have a frog in your pocket." you might exclaim....Domiguy reaches into his pocket and pulls out a ......Dead frog....Well, Goddammit it used to be alive...But nonetheless you can still tell at one time it was  a frog.

You say you are a psychic...Show me...What's the big fucking deal?  Oh, I'm sorry, it doesn't work like that...It's mysterious...Booooogedy ...Boooogedy...

My car is silver....Sure enough...Look right over there (Domiguy points to the silver car)...See, I'm telling the truth.

Maybe it would be better for all if you would stop talking about something that you cannot prove exists...In fact, NO ONE!!!! Let me repeat....NO ONE!!! has ever come forward to prove that they are a psychic...Can you imagine the probabilities?...That in the history of mankind no one has ever come forward and proved they possess  such abilities?  But here on CM we seem to have a pile....Maybe they are cast offs from Gor?  Never did trust those Goreans with their pointy ears and mindmelds and such.




tsherpet -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 7:44:38 PM)

"But i see that this, pretty much as religious threads in the past, has turned into a "prove it" fest which to me, pretty much just shows ignorance on the part of the "doubters'. "

It's not about the people here proving it, it's about any psychic being able to live up to their own claims. Questioning this lack of performance is as far from ignorance as you can get.
But I am glad you recognised the similarities between psychics and religions.

"But why does it seem that the non-believers are always trying to ram the "prove it" card down your throat?"

So questioning unbelievable claims is ramming a prove it card down people throats? Bit defensive aren't we? The claims were made, the claims were questioned, and facts were given. If your beliefs can't stand rational discussion, perhaps it's time to reassess such fragile beliefs?

"Do i wish i wasn't?  At times, yes"

Why? Since people have been comparing psychic ability to real skills and abilities, how many people who are good at something wish they weren't? Very few (if any) when it comes to real skills.

"And no, i may not be able to see them...nor may i be able to prove they exist....but so what?  "

So whats the difference between those things and delusions? What is the difference vetween your beliefs and people who believe god (or something) wants them to kill? It's fine for you to believe them, but you must accept that your beliefs carry no weight in reality. In other words people will question them, and they are right to do so.

"It was quite interesting to note that they all thought you must be a complete moron not to believe that in this great, expansive universe, there are no other life forms than what's on earth.  Can you see them?"

It's not about seeing, it's about probability. It is highly unlikely that life only exists on this planet. The numbers are so huge.
On the other hand the confirmed supernatural numbers have remained at zero. It the complete opposite, which is why only a moron would believe in faiytales, the "big brother" enterainment of their day.

"Honestly, i feel sorry for people who don't believe in SOMETHING they can't see"

Why? Remember people can know about things which cannot be seen by the naked eye, but that is not belief. A microscope shows you things, so belief is not required. A psychic doesn't show anything, so belief is essential.
But why do you feel sorry for those who don't use the stories we make up to fill in what we don't know?

"But i really wish they would stop making others try to prove in what they do not believe. "

It's not about proving what I don't believe in, it is about proving what they do believe in. Proving their own claims. Everybody else has to deal with that bit of reality, why not psychics?

"And i will also say that rarely have i met a person my age or up who will discount just about anything....because they have learned along the way that sometimes in life, we just can't explain things."

And if we can't explain it, why would we resort to stories from thousands of years behind us as explainations? Looking to people with far less understanding of the world around them to teach us?And if you truly don't discount anything, then don't discount the lack of performance by psychics, or the psychological explainations behind their parlour tricks.

"For those who haven't seen that yet....and need "proof" of every single incident that can occur in a lifetime...well, i wish you well.  20 or 30 years from now you may be saying something different. "

LOL, why do you think doubting psychics means not knowing that there are things still to be discovered? Unexplained phenomena doesn't prove any belief correct. The only thing that will prove psychics correct is living up to their claims. In 20 or 30 years I'll be saying the same thing, as psychics have not changed in thousands of years. The same stories and the same lack of performance.

"And meanwhile....no one needs to really prove what they believe in to you. "

It has nothing to do with proving it to me, how about the rest of humanity? Do you want scientists to take that attitude? We're not going to prove it to you? Cops? Bank managers?
Prove it for the money, to help yourself or others. Prove it so humanity can accept it, study it and understand it.

Selfish or shortsightedness are the only ways a real psychic could not be trying to prove, understand and refine their abilities.

"Some people are closed, some people are open."

Yes, some people are closed to new ideas and knowledge, and are only open to their own experience or tales from our primitive past.

"Science, logic, etc are their cornerstones, it's the foundation of their belief systems, nothing wrong in that."

I am sorry you are so misguided. Science and logic are not beliefs systems, they are nothing more than tools of investigation, and as Einstein said "all our science, measured against reality, is primitive and childlike - and yet it is the most precious thing we have.". Science is the most precious thing we have, it is the best method of investigating our world that we have ever come up with.




tsherpet -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 7:49:36 PM)

domiguy,
I can't understand how every single psychic is to busy or not interested in money or doesn't want to prove themsleves and turns down easy thousands and millions of dollars. Not only oculd they get rich, but they could shut the sceptics up FOREVER!




angelic -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 8:12:31 PM)

Yes, it is a horrible story and once again, i cannot, do not and will not ever understand how parents can do something like this to their children.  It breaks my heart.

Now to the OP... i had psychic abilities once...

no... wait... He was just really predictable. 




chellekitty -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 8:12:59 PM)

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ORIGINAL: adaddysgirl

i believe in a god, psychics, angels, ghosts, other life forms....and many other things i cannot see.  



hehe this line reminded me of something one of my littles, the 8 year old, (talk about a whole other subject people don't believe exists - DID) said to a friend of ours..."theres not any vampires or werewolves or evangelical christians, right?"
i was rolling on the inside laughing my ass off and our friend had to hold a straight face and tell her that no, there weren't any vampires or werewolves or evangelical christians that were going to accost her while she waited....




BitaTruble -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 8:16:00 PM)

~FR~

Wow, this is quite a thread. I can't believe I read the whole thing.

To sum up my feelings on psychics and their beliefs in their abilities ... I believe that you believe. I'm afraid, though, that I'm one of those people who does require the proof card. I'd like nothing better than to see it played because that would be an amazing step in the evolution of mankind. If that step has been taken, then control seems to be the next logical step. If the ability has always been around, I have to wonder why that next step has yet to be taken.

Celeste




chellekitty -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 8:25:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MadRabbit


Thats quite a possibility

I really have no interest in taking a stand in this discussion. Just simply noted something that seemed a little odd to me.

But since it seems I am being put threw the grinder a bit, I will make at least one opinion.

If someone were to offer me psychic advice, I would not take it.

My personal concept of God and my faith lies in my logic and reasoning. It is the guiding force in my life.

Whatever anyone else wants to use as their personal anchor in the sea of bleakness, they can.



if i were in the mood to be argumentative, i would take this as an attack...but, i will just correct you...my sea, though stormy right now, is far from bleak and i can still see the light of God through the clouds and around the clouds...and even in the moments i can't, i know its behind the clouds...

how did i know that last saturday i needed to wake up and get my ass to the munch so that i could be there to stand and be part of the presentation to my very good friend of her leathers...maybe it was psychic ability...maybe God thumped me in the forehead and said get up, you have somewhere to be...either way i was there when i needed to be, walked in 3 minutes before the presentation was made, i had no idea it was going to be made then and there, i hadn't intended on being there that night, i had fully intended on being somewhere else that night...not a perfect example...but...i don't necessarily defferintiate between where the message comes from...and maybe i am crazy...but thats ok, cause i am ok with that today...

the much calmer
chelle




tsherpet -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 8:29:26 PM)

"but, i will just correct you...my sea, though stormy right now, is far from bleak and i can still see the light of God through the clouds and around the clouds...and even in the moments i can't, i know its behind the clouds"

The bleakness is the need for beliefs to keep the fear of the unknown at bay.




angelic -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 8:33:40 PM)

~fr~
It certainly is an interesting concept.  i honestly do not know if i believe in psychics or not.  i too am one of those that need proof.  However, if there are those that do have this ability, it may not be possible to prove it on a whim or on the spur of the moment.  What i mean is, that maybe it is to them something like an extra emotion or an extra part of their character that only appear at certain times and for specific things.  Having never had the ability, well except for those times that everyone else has, (you know those split second thoughts and then boom whatever you were thinking happened), it is difficult for me to say that it is or is not possible to be psychic. 




chellekitty -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 8:43:50 PM)

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ORIGINAL: tsherpet
The bleakness is the need for beliefs to keep the fear of the unknown at bay.


i don't know if there is something wrong with my brain or what but i just can't comprehend this sentence...on the other hand...i don't fear the unknown so...maybe it doesn't apply to me...




FangsNfeet -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 8:45:28 PM)

I'm no Psychic. However, I'm good at calculating the possibilities of a given situation. I see the odds and come out with fairly accurate ends.

So how does this affect my relationships? I only choose if I should go along for the ride or not. With every decision I ask my gut three questions. 1. Good idea? 2. Bad idea? 3. Can I recover? After all, I may be in a "Why the fuck not?" mood. 




tsherpet -> RE: Are you Psychic and how does this affect your relationships? (9/7/2007 8:49:17 PM)

"i honestly do not know if i believe in psychics or not.  i too am one of those that need proof. "

If you require proof, you don't believe.
It's sounds like you think psychic powers would be cool, but outside of entertainment evidence is required?

"However, if there are those that do have this ability, it may not be possible to prove it on a whim or on the spur of the moment.  What i mean is, that maybe it is to them something like an extra emotion or an extra part of their character that only appear at certain times and for specific things."

Except many psychics have been studied over long periods in which the psychics themselves have claimed to be experiencing their abilities, but have not been able to provide proof.
Over the years plenty of people have tried to find proof of psychics, and many of them were believers. Experiments have been done with all conditions of the psychic met, and still nothing. The lack of evidence isn't about people not believing in psychics, it has been a thorough investigation.




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