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RE: Why is BDSM still a part of your life? - 9/9/2007 4:37:17 PM

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This is a question i've asked myself a number of times, especially as the years go by without finding a Long Term partner. Speaking more of D/s and M/s (which includes bdsm, for me) i simply can't image going back to a life where i had to pretend to be something i'm not. i think of my life in terms of before/after and will spend the rest of my life alone rather than settle again.

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RE: Why is BDSM still a part of your life? - 9/9/2007 5:40:24 PM

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Have done so twice in a short period of time now. First time, the anaesthesia wouldn't take, so second time we just skipped it. Never said I liked it. In any case, that's slightly different from performing brain surgery on yourself, I might add. I'd be reluctant to even attempt it on someone else, what with my fine tremors and all...
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sometimes i watch the movie Hannibal just for the scene near the end where he removes the top of Ray Liotta's character's head....and the ending is really romantic...he can't get caught but he can't hurt his Clarice

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RE: Why is BDSM still a part of your life? - 9/9/2007 7:47:52 PM

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ORIGINAL: chellekitty

sometimes i watch the movie Hannibal just for the scene near the end where he removes the top of Ray Liotta's character's head....and the ending is really romantic...he can't get caught but he can't hurt his Clarice

Cerebrophagia isn't quite my thing. I think.

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RE: Why is BDSM still a part of your life? - 9/9/2007 8:28:50 PM

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i also think the whole "it puts the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again" thing would be really, really hot...for a while at least...but i am an objectification fiend...

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RE: Why is BDSM still a part of your life? - 9/9/2007 8:37:01 PM

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In another thread I asked what inspired people to enter the world of BDSM.

This thread is devoted to why you stay in the world of BDSM.

What are the current perks and rewards that sustain your interest in BDSM?

simply because i am still interested in it. It is not for my life, but that certiantly does not mean i can not learn and be a part of it

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RE: Why is BDSM still a part of your life? - 9/10/2007 4:54:01 AM

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i also think the whole "it puts the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again" thing would be really, really hot...for a while at least...but i am an objectification fiend...

lol

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RE: Why is BDSM still a part of your life? - 9/10/2007 8:10:50 AM

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oh a whole different note...i want whippings every night.... *pouts*

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RE: Why is BDSM still a part of your life? - 9/10/2007 8:25:27 AM

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RE: Why is BDSM still a part of your life? - 9/10/2007 10:14:43 AM

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...assuming we also include M/s and D/s here, well it always seems to have been a key part of my core emotionally, psych-sexually, physically, mentally, any relations with the opp. sex, etc.......so really does not involve choice but joyful surrender to my own essence i guess.

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