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ORIGINAL: BeachMystress
I was molested at 7 and raped at 15. I was also physically abused between the ages of 8 and 17. However, my desire to tie people up and spank them started in the low single digits, a good four years before I was molested. I do not believe the molestation had any impact on my BDSM development. The rape and the abuse did. They helped form in me a distaste for being helpless and vulnerable. While I would have been in BDSM in any case, perhaps without those two incidents I'd be a switch or even a sub. As it is, I am psychologically unwilling to give over control of me to anyone else.

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ORIGINAL: deniseiscrazy
I saw a few shrinks after it stopped for me, all that would happen is that I would go in there and be quiet for like 20 min. Then get to talking to him or her and once they asked someting that hit a nerve i would just cry for the rest of the 60 or 90 minutes then not wanna go back