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RRafe -> RE: moral standard in bdsm (9/10/2007 9:29:38 AM)

We also need to keep in mind that people choose differing standards for how they like to conduct interactions-there is no default setting.




AquaticSub -> RE: moral standard in bdsm (9/10/2007 10:03:35 AM)

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

OK.  I think I'm seeing the bigger picture of what you mean now.  D/s as a category of lifestyle isn't special.  Similarly to saying hetero lifestyles aren't special, or gay lifestyles aren't special, or marriage isn't special -  the use of "special" meaning something unque and superior.  I can understand that.  This is why you said "as a whole" before, and I misunderstood what you meant by that.  So I'm understanding it is your opinion that D/s, as a lifestyle category, isn't any more special overall than any other lifestyle category.  But that some D/s type relationships are more special to people than non D/s typs relationships, and vice versa.  Is this correct?


Yup! [:)]
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I want some the blue jello now...


I can't say I've ever had or even seen blue jello...heh.





Really? It's my favorite kind. Rasberry flavor! I do like the green stuff too.

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I hope you feel better!


Aww, thank you! I think I'll start feeling better once I get some more sleep. [:)]




ownedgirlie -> RE: moral standard in bdsm (9/10/2007 10:48:32 AM)

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub
Really? It's my favorite kind. Rasberry flavor! I do like the green stuff too.


LOL I'll have to try it.  I actually like "red" flavor [:D]

Thanks for the great exchange!




liorsnava -> RE: moral standard in bdsm (9/10/2007 1:32:45 PM)

my moral standards are the same.. in my marriage, in my M/s relationship, in my vanilla life, how i deal with friends and family. they are the core of who i am, who i have always been, and will continue to be. that won't change... for anyone ~smile~




SirCache -> RE: moral standard in bdsm (9/12/2007 10:38:56 AM)

My moral code is the same inside BDSM activities as it is outside.  While I will do things with and to my sub that many people might frown on in a vanilla context, it is always done as a matter with high respect for my sub.  Without that respect, I would not be good in any relationship, and could do serious harm in a BDSM one.




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