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RE: A friend of mine may be in danger. What do I do? - 9/19/2007 2:44:03 AM

LadyHugs

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Dear Kalista07, Ladies and Gentlemen;

You are lucky to have known the identity of the rapist so soon after the arrest. I'm afraid DC area is so scared that criminal's rights are stepped on and they play either the race or religion ploy that it is overly 'politically correct.' Only time victims found out the real identity was during trial. Case by case bases. I do realize a lot of the violent crimes are gang related so, the tit-for-tat killings are a concern.

I think you are a sweet young lass to want to help someone. You have been woven with threads of experiences no lass or lad should go through. I can only assume, that your intention is--that if you can spare another lass agony and or regrets, you will do your dead level best in reaching out to those who you know might be heading into disaster and or making light of how serious things could be.

There will be lads and lassies who will do any and all to gain attention upon themselves. Some create drama and some over achieve. Some do it for the wrong reasons. Some do it for the right reasons. Unfortunately, the only thing a person can control, is their own personal life and those who step into that personal circle and earn the right and respect to be there. I go for quality individuals over quantity myself but, I had to learn this lesson for myself. Parents and friends could preach and or plead all they wished however, I had to live the lesson to learn the lesson. [Smiles] Parents admit that also. LOL When we became of the age of our parents when we were kids--darn if we're not starting to sound like them. [Chuckles]

Again dear little lady--It is admirable to be a good person, a compassionate one, a loyal friend and helpful to others. It is wonderful to be concerned about others. Please don't loose these rare virtues.

Just some thoughts.

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RE: A friend of mine may be in danger. What do I do? - 9/19/2007 2:51:53 AM

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Dear Bobkgin, Ladies and Gentlemen,

I do believe some women have the same problem in understanding men. Makes it frustrating at times doesn't it? [Chuckles with good humor]

If there was absolute understanding -- would be rather boring and wouldn't promote gray hair and or white hair growth from stress and such. [Chuckles]

Respectfully submitted with a lot of humor,
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RE: A friend of mine may be in danger. What do I do? - 9/19/2007 3:35:45 AM

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I think she's really into having the excitement of TWO males all hot for her- one trying to ravish and control her, and one trying to protect and save her. What's not to love?

And a bunch of people she doesn't know talking about her. If this were me I'd be none to happy and I'd give the OP a piece of my mind. But then I have no trouble speaking my mind.

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RE: A friend of mine may be in danger. What do I do? - 9/19/2007 8:07:02 AM

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The thing I found so fascinating about the op is that at no time did he bother asking her if she wanted him to step in. He didn't offer to have dinner with her at the time of day this other guy usually does and act lovey dovey or whatever to convince the other guy she's taken. Because if she wanted your help she could ask for it.

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RE: A friend of mine may be in danger. What do I do? - 9/19/2007 8:42:53 AM

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I think she's really into having the excitement of TWO males all hot for her- one trying to ravish and control her, and one trying to protect and save her. What's not to love?

I will never ever ever understand some women.

What makes you think this is unique to only one gender?

Stephan

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RE: A friend of mine may be in danger. What do I do? - 9/19/2007 8:45:28 AM

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Theo,
Is this an online friend of yours or someone that you may go to school with or are friends with in real life? I am having trouble defining the friendship, unless I have missed that somewhere.

Just keep in mind that frequently we humans tend to just want to vent something. We many times don't actually want the "big, strong, white knight" *fix* anything.

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RE: A friend of mine may be in danger. What do I do? - 9/19/2007 9:32:39 AM

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Is she happy with the situation or did she come to you for some sort of advice?

If she is happy- she's not going to listen. If she is truly "scared" she can contact the authorities herself. While your concern is admirable, you will find that good intentions usually backfire in situations like this.

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