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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

3 months?  is a long time?.....borrowing from another thread, what about L.A.'s 6 month rule? I wish I knew what to do..........:)

Jeff

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ORIGINAL: spanklette

If it didn't work the first time...what about the second? To be honest, this doesn't make a whole lot of sense to me. If I were you, I would try to discover why I'm so insecure about being alone. Three months isn't a terribly long time. Best of luck, though.

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ORIGINAL: SirCache

While I may not have found exactly what I have looked for, I have made several good friendships and am pleased to count on them in my life.  For some of us, while we are always moving to the goal, there is no reason we cannot enjoy the sights, the sounds, the experience of other people.  I am in no great dash to find 'X', nor am I offended when people mail me and do not match what I am seeking.

Are there dishonest, manipulative people here?  Sure, just like any other online gathering place.  Next time try asking questions--players don't have the time, liars can't keep their facts straight, and manipulators have easier targets.  And the ones that remain?  I like to chat with them and engage them in a good friendship. 

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ORIGINAL: HottLicks

An old fart with a harem, still looking for more submissives, that would take your whinness back doesn't impress me as real anything but a horny old fart. 

As for you... grow up.  You'll never find the real thing at this rate.

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since I have been doing this for 28 quarters that means that about 10% of my life of searching time went by in that span of three months. (3.57%, but since the day is short I have doubled that and then added in a bit of padding, so it comes to the figure)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

1+2= ?

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ORIGINAL: slave2behis

While I still have an account here I want to make a few comments. I'll be returning to the man I referred to as "Former Master" for the time I have been here. I thought that I could find what I needed and wanted. But perhaps this entry from my journal sums it up?

Funny isn't it, I mean it would be funny if it were not so very sad. I have been here for three months, looking, searching, answereing EVERY letter no matter how idiotic. I have visited a few men who thought that they were Masters and yet they all have had the proverbial clay feet.
 
I came because I thought my Former Master was too old for me. Well he is! But from what I can see it is very hard to find the right fit with so very many phony men out there.The site also hurt my chances by not allowing me to post photos that might have made it more clear who and what I am. But that probably would not have made any difference since it seems that although I have written a lot, hinted a good deal, most of those out there don't want to be bothered reading what I wrote.
 
At least I have my safe haven to return to. BTW, lol, he too has a profile here and has had the same exact experiences. People don't read his words, and don't respond to him (which of course is not surprising to me) but he is the real deal. A super sadist and a truly educated, traveled, and lovely man, who understands what it takes to own a true masochistic slave who is pretty much a geisha in that I become what the man needs. So many here just don't take the time, the effort and complain and belly ache. Well I'll continue here for a bit more but one day if I don't hitch up soon I'll just be gone.
 
That is one woman's experience, I wonder why this was so, and if some of you here have had the same experience?

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ORIGINAL: LaMistressa

Hell, it took me more than three months to find a good dry cleaner and beauty salon when my office relocated but if you think three months is an eternity, then rock on with your bad self.  I've met a lot of interesting people (including submissives) off of this site, but everyone's experience is unique. 

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ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66

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ORIGINAL: slave2behis

That is one woman's experience, I wonder why this was so, and if some of you here have had the same experience?

While I didnt find My mate here,I already had her,I have however met
alot of people and I do mean alot.
Some have worked out and some havent,both in My private and Pro lifestyles.

Is your former Master reading this....
I know if it were Me...you wouldnt have a safe haven any longer.