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slave2behis -> My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 12:16:59 PM)
While I still have an account here I want to make a few comments. I'll be returning to the man I referred to as "Former Master" for the time I have been here. I thought that I could find what I needed and wanted. But perhaps this entry from my journal sums it up? Funny isn't it, I mean it would be funny if it were not so very sad. I have been here for three months, looking, searching, answereing EVERY letter no matter how idiotic. I have visited a few men who thought that they were Masters and yet they all have had the proverbial clay feet. I came because I thought my Former Master was too old for me. Well he is! But from what I can see it is very hard to find the right fit with so very many phony men out there.The site also hurt my chances by not allowing me to post photos that might have made it more clear who and what I am. But that probably would not have made any difference since it seems that although I have written a lot, hinted a good deal, most of those out there don't want to be bothered reading what I wrote. At least I have my safe haven to return to. BTW, lol, he too has a profile here and has had the same exact experiences. People don't read his words, and don't respond to him (which of course is not surprising to me) but he is the real deal. A super sadist and a truly educated, traveled, and lovely man, who understands what it takes to own a true masochistic slave who is pretty much a geisha in that I become what the man needs. So many here just don't take the time, the effort and complain and belly ache. Well I'll continue here for a bit more but one day if I don't hitch up soon I'll just be gone. That is one woman's experience, I wonder why this was so, and if some of you here have had the same experience?

DarkDaddyZ -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 12:19:57 PM)
This is gonna get interesting!

tricia -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 12:21:09 PM)
Amen :)

missturbation -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 12:22:35 PM)
So you left your Master, couldn't find anything better so are returning to him? Bet he feels good!! Well I'll continue here for a bit more but one day if I don't hitch up soon I'll just be gone. Not quite given up then? I feel a little sorry for your master if you're returning to him as you cant find anything better, butttttttttt if something better does show up ..........

toservez -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 12:26:19 PM)
My experiences are this site is like life and you will find everything from good and the bad and what you put into it and having an open mind and heart means everything. I will and did suffer all the fools and did it with a smile on my face because I found my Master on here. I hope your current Master enjoyed this advertisement. I do hope things work out for both of you but remember you two fit each other does not mean you two are better then any of the other people you are accusing people on here to be. Hubris is not a good thing no matter if two people celebrate it together.

stef -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 12:26:32 PM)
Wow, a whole three months. How did you manage to stick it out for so long? ~stef

spanklette -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 12:28:13 PM)
If it didn't work the first time...what about the second? To be honest, this doesn't make a whole lot of sense to me. If I were you, I would try to discover why I'm so insecure about being alone. Three months isn't a terribly long time. Best of luck, though.[:)]

slave2behis -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 12:31:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: missturbation So you left your Master, couldn't find anything better so are returning to him? Bet he feels good!! Well I'll continue here for a bit more but one day if I don't hitch up soon I'll just be gone. Not quite given up then? I feel a little sorry for your master if you're returning to him as you cant find anything better, butttttttttt if something better does show up .......... Well yes, he does. But you see he gave me the freedom to look, that shows him to be wise, etc. Since I won't be looking (till he dies I guess) nothing better WILL show up

slave2behis -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 12:33:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: toservez My experiences are this site is like life and you will find everything from good and the bad and what you put into it and having an open mind and heart means everything. I will and did suffer all the fools and did it with a smile on my face because I found my Master on here. I hope your current Master enjoyed this advertisement. I do hope things work out for both of you but remember you two fit each other does not mean you two are better then any of the other people you are accusing people on here to be. Hubris is not a good thing no matter if two people celebrate it together. Actually how would "former Master" enjoy this? I am nto accusing people here to be anything other than what I found from three months and well over 1000 letters.

LaTigresse -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 12:33:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stef Wow, a whole three months. How did you manage to stick it out for so long? ~stef It was her punishment for leaving such a god of a master in the first place.

missturbation -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 12:34:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slave2behis quote: ORIGINAL: missturbation So you left your Master, couldn't find anything better so are returning to him? Bet he feels good!! Well I'll continue here for a bit more but one day if I don't hitch up soon I'll just be gone. Not quite given up then? I feel a little sorry for your master if you're returning to him as you cant find anything better, butttttttttt if something better does show up .......... Well yes, he does. But you see he gave me the freedom to look, that shows him to be wise, etc. Since I won't be looking (till he dies I guess) nothing better WILL show up But you say in the quote above you are still looking. Make your mind up.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 12:34:26 PM)
My experiences on this site have been absolutely stellar. I have met my 2 incredible pets here. I have met many wonderful friends, both Dom and sub. I would not trade what I have had here for anything. Perhaps the site is not the problem? DV

domiguy -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 12:34:39 PM)
Enjoy your old masters funeral....It should be a hoot...With all those grieving subbies as pallbearers.

slave2behis -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 12:34:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stef Wow, a whole three months. How did you manage to stick it out for so long? ~stef You know Stef, I read your profile (as I did almost all the letters I got) and I see why you are happy here, it IS good for forums and you like that, but three months was more than enough to show me that this place is filled with those who aspire to be Masters and many who are confused about who and what this is all about.

akisha -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 12:39:58 PM)
awww you poor thing, you left a perfectly good Master for greener pastures and after a whole whopping three months you've decided to "settle" and go back to him. How fucking speacial for you both. Collarme harmed your chances because you couldn't post pics of what you are?? WTF does that mean?? If you want to post "fuck me" photo's go to Alt. they'll let you post pretty much anything you like. Most people realize that it takes longer then a few weeks to find someone, but I guess you're special and should find the perfect person immediately. Sighs, I'm getting so tired of the " oh poor me i tried for 6 days and didn't find mister perfect" BS that repeatedly gets posted on here. If you want instantanious gratification, go to McDonalds. Everything else in life takes time and effort.

domiguy -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 12:45:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slave2behis quote: ORIGINAL: stef Wow, a whole three months. How did you manage to stick it out for so long? ~stef You know Stef, I read your profile (as I did almost all the letters I got) and I see why you are happy here, it IS good for forums and you like that, but three months was more than enough to show me that this place is filled with those who aspire to be Masters and many who are confused about who and what this is all about. Look missy, you come out here and suggest that everyone is full of shit but you and your old goat....How can that be?...Maybe the problem is YOU! That seems to stand to reason since you are obviously incapable of finding someone to meet your needs...Either you utilize very poor judgment in choosing who to meet....Or you might be so wacked that everyone who might be able to accomodate your wants, senses that it would simply be wiser to keep their distance from you.

LaMistressa -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 12:45:48 PM)
Welp, have a nice life, then! In other news, I just saved a lot on my car insurance.

missturbation -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 12:46:43 PM)
Oooooo Domi, you just made me twink all over [;)]

stef -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 12:47:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slave2behis You know Stef, I read your profile (as I did almost all the letters I got) and I see why you are happy here, it IS good for forums and you like that, but three months was more than enough to show me that this place is filled with those who aspire to be Masters and many who are confused about who and what this is all about. Kiddo, you're missing the point. 3 months is the blink of an eye. It's nothing. Just as in the vanilla world, it's incredibly unrealistic to think that after such a short amount of time that you're going to find the man of your dreams with whom you'll spend the rest of your life. Finding the perfect match takes work and patience. Why you think it would be different for you than it is for everyone else is a mystery. ~stef

SirCache -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 12:52:23 PM)
While I may not have found exactly what I have looked for, I have made several good friendships and am pleased to count on them in my life. For some of us, while we are always moving to the goal, there is no reason we cannot enjoy the sights, the sounds, the experience of other people. I am in no great dash to find 'X', nor am I offended when people mail me and do not match what I am seeking. Are there dishonest, manipulative people here? Sure, just like any other online gathering place. Next time try asking questions--players don't have the time, liars can't keep their facts straight, and manipulators have easier targets. And the ones that remain? I like to chat with them and engage them in a good friendship.

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